im in middle school and im going to the movies on a triple date and its my first date and m going to like put my arm around her during the date
any advice for me?
i know ill buy her ticket and stuff and should i see a scary movie or just a good movie?First date advice?
Either put ur arm around her or hold her hand (she'll think ur sweet!!) i think she'll apreciate it if u ask her what movie she wants 2 see! good luck! :)First date advice?
Fake a yawn and strech out, and as you put your arm down put it around her. And do a good movie, because lot's of girls like that, it should be later when you do a scary movie, because she will trust you more and know that she can depend on you.
just a good movie, see jumper, fool's gold, or meet the spartans. usually the arm thing doesn't work (try and see what happens)
Don't go for the arm right away ... just hold her hand during the movie instead. And, ask for her movie preferences to earn points with her.
go watch a comedy! it'll definitely relieve some of the tension... you can put your arm around her.. but try not thinking about a kiss... and don't feel pressured into kissing if you're not prepared..
remember, always be a gentleman and open doors! :)
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Date advice....?
So I got to this baseball game a few minutes before the girl/my ';date'; did. She calls to say where she is and I say I'm at the day of the game ticket line. I end up buying both of our tickets, just $10 each.
When I tell her she's all ';oh I have 10 dollars..'; but i just say its cool or w/e you know... well when we go to buy hotdogs, $4 bucks each, she pays for it. do you think she was trying to show it isn't a date really by evening out how much we pay?Date advice....?
Yes,
I have found that some women prefer to pay their share, so that nothing is ';expected'; of them. It takes some of the pressure off. Let her pay her way if that makes her more comfortable, but always come prepared in case she is not.
When I tell her she's all ';oh I have 10 dollars..'; but i just say its cool or w/e you know... well when we go to buy hotdogs, $4 bucks each, she pays for it. do you think she was trying to show it isn't a date really by evening out how much we pay?Date advice....?
Yes,
I have found that some women prefer to pay their share, so that nothing is ';expected'; of them. It takes some of the pressure off. Let her pay her way if that makes her more comfortable, but always come prepared in case she is not.
Lesbian dating advice?
I met a girl online that lives in the same city as me, and tomorrow we are meeting for the first time, i havent been out with a girl in a very long time and im very nervous to start dating again. Can i get some good advice and or tips for tomorrow? im 20 and shes 21...shes more of the femme then i am. Please help!Lesbian dating advice?
I'm a lesbian lol. but anyways.
first, find out if shes the dominant or not..like find out if shes the girl or the guy in the relationship, personally, im the girl lol. then just, be casual with her in a flirty way.
try not to make it more awkward then it already is. need further help? e-mail me, jacky.kalvaitis@yahoo.com
I'm a lesbian lol. but anyways.
first, find out if shes the dominant or not..like find out if shes the girl or the guy in the relationship, personally, im the girl lol. then just, be casual with her in a flirty way.
try not to make it more awkward then it already is. need further help? e-mail me, jacky.kalvaitis@yahoo.com
Online dating advice? Your best and or worst story?
just curious if anyone can relate, can you? To online dating?Online dating advice? Your best and or worst story?
ummm when I did I was super YOUNG(13),bored, and naive. I dated this guy for 3 years and I broke up with him. The weird thing is...I still talk to him after 8 years but I would NEVER date him again..he's a pot head and much more I don't like about his morals, lol...umm yes I guess I was lucky to find a guy that loved me through the phone and be obsessed with me, he was too jelouse tho....I wouldn't try online dating again, ever...lipgloss
ummm when I did I was super YOUNG(13),bored, and naive. I dated this guy for 3 years and I broke up with him. The weird thing is...I still talk to him after 8 years but I would NEVER date him again..he's a pot head and much more I don't like about his morals, lol...umm yes I guess I was lucky to find a guy that loved me through the phone and be obsessed with me, he was too jelouse tho....I wouldn't try online dating again, ever...
Any dating advice for a virgin?
I'm a college grad and I have a good career. I'm shy and a little self-conscious because I'm a little chubby. I would love to find a partner but with being a virgin (34 years old) I'm incredibly nervous about trying to meet someone. Any advice? (This is a serious question, please don't respond just to be rude.)
I'm attracted to both men and women. Honestly, gender doesn't matter to me - I'd just like someone with similar interests who I feel would be a good match.Any dating advice for a virgin?
Dating is hard for most people, so you're not alone. Getting involved with someone sexually is some thing that some people just jump into, but it can get really tough emotionally if you get together with the wrong person. There is a tendency to put too much weight on the importance of the relationship once you've had sex, and you could start giving too much of your energy to a loser who doesn't deserve you. Do the things you love to do, and try to connect to other people on that level. If there is someone you like, you've got to show them and risk being rejected. Don't worry about the sex part. That will happen when you both feel ready. Why don't you wait and make it really special with someone who loves you and who you can really trust?Any dating advice for a virgin?
Well just go out and meet people...flirt around and check out what you like and live a little....just get the guts to talk to somebody and loosen up cause you dont know what you missing...so yeah i doubt it the person going to bite so stop being shy and be yourself...itz ok to be nervous but when the time comes everything will happen by it self and be put into place so yeah its all up to you now!By the its what you got inside that matters not the outside and the person should like you or love you 4 you!
hey dont sweat it, it's always tough your first time.
Now, Im not being rude so bare with me please. Honestly I dont know how you look, and im sure your a great person with every reason to fall in love with some one - but looks matter alot with people these days. You'll find that it's the first ice breaker. I recommend ';stepping up your game'; by losing some weight and getting active (if not for your own health benefits).
Guys/Girls will take much more notice and they will start to be comfortable around you, not to mention your courage will be up. Just hang in there, hit some clubs, and find a sweet person.
Best advice though? Make sure you damn well know that person well before calling it official. you never want to get into a relationship and find out something insane about that person.
try to get to know the person a bit better. start little, like, since ur a college student, theres probably parties, go to a party, meet a guy, small talk about careers. etc etc. i love girls like that. and chubby is no big deal, i dont wanna be perfect muscle etc, i have some fat, and like to admit it. dont let that bother u. switch numbers with the guy, call him one day, get coffee. talk about randdom stuff, family, what theyre interested in. tip DO NOT TALK POLITICS (unless he mentions it first, i hate talking about that). good luck, hope this helps a bit.
Being bi certainly helps increase the pool of potential partners. ;-)
My only advice is to just jump on in to the dating pool and start splashing around.
And rest assured that...:
...someone will tickle your fancy and you will tickle theirs;
...someone will break your heart and make you cry, but then you'll do that to someone else, too, whether you mean to or not;
...the next person you date probably won't be ';the one';, and in fact, you'll probably go through dozens by the time you find one worth settling for;
...you'll have moments where you wonder if the whole game is even worth-it, and then you'll have moments where you look at the game and realize that's what life is all about;
...you'll learn things about yourself that you never realized - not all of them pleasant - and you'll learn things about other people along the same lines.
Just don't give up. Good luck! :-)
sweetie, you are a very rare breed. a very special woman for not giving up your virginity just to get a man or woman. when you do meet your soul-mate, you will be loved and admired.
don't try too hard when you are out in the world trying to meet people. just be yourself. someone is out there waiting for you, so, just relax and let things happen. it's worth waiting for, trust me.
Talk to friends who have similar interests and see if they know anybody. Try online dating? There are people out there who are probably into the same thing and would be great for you. You just need to find each other. If you look, the chances are more likely that you'll find.
wow umm be yourself let them know you are a virgin and that person should direct you if thier not a version also but 34 yea how did you do it ima 18 year old jock so i hump all the time and i have exp wit versions so belive me and youll be ok best of luck lol
Find someone who makes up for your flaws. If you find another quiet, self-conscious partner, I don't think you'd be happy. Don't stress about being a virgin; most people you'd want to date would find that attractive.
Find someone who cares about you! They will take their time, be patient and watch out for you. Basically....just be freindly with people, be open to freindships and new relationships, and it'll happen.
Trust me noone will have a problem with you being a virgin. So dont worry.
Please look for relationships in person and dont do the online generally not good dating and stuff...
34 and never dated? Hm. I guess maybe church or clubs. Maybe online dating or Craigslist?
dont do any online relationships!
Hi I think that it's good that you are looking to meet someone and you are an educated woman. I can understand being shy and unsure but for real, being educated and intelligent means you have a lot to offer for companionship. :)
OK at 34 years old, you can still find Many single people and it's not unusual. You can also expect a lot of divorced people. I think it's as good an age as any and you can be flexible with a few years younger or older with no problem.
With dating, you really want to just go out and have fun and meet people and not start looking for someone to be serious with yet. Think of this early dating as a way for you to get acclimated and a way to warm up and be able to be at ease in this way of relating.
And for real, be friendly have fun and be fun, just don't get serious quickly or try to!
For someone good to be close with, you obviously want someone whose company you enjoy and with similar interests like you say. You also want them to be affectionate and sensitive. Affectionate and sensitive people are excellent lovers..it's as simple as that!
Being single and looking is a nervous situation for a Lot of people, just remember that. Your own situation is unusual but you are not at all alone in being shy and unsure.
I could say so much more but I'm not sure what would be enough. lol! Good luck and I wish you the best. Please feel free to email me if you like :)
Just give it up and get it over with.
heres the best advice%26gt;...Don't have sex///......
I'm attracted to both men and women. Honestly, gender doesn't matter to me - I'd just like someone with similar interests who I feel would be a good match.Any dating advice for a virgin?
Dating is hard for most people, so you're not alone. Getting involved with someone sexually is some thing that some people just jump into, but it can get really tough emotionally if you get together with the wrong person. There is a tendency to put too much weight on the importance of the relationship once you've had sex, and you could start giving too much of your energy to a loser who doesn't deserve you. Do the things you love to do, and try to connect to other people on that level. If there is someone you like, you've got to show them and risk being rejected. Don't worry about the sex part. That will happen when you both feel ready. Why don't you wait and make it really special with someone who loves you and who you can really trust?Any dating advice for a virgin?
Well just go out and meet people...flirt around and check out what you like and live a little....just get the guts to talk to somebody and loosen up cause you dont know what you missing...so yeah i doubt it the person going to bite so stop being shy and be yourself...itz ok to be nervous but when the time comes everything will happen by it self and be put into place so yeah its all up to you now!By the its what you got inside that matters not the outside and the person should like you or love you 4 you!
hey dont sweat it, it's always tough your first time.
Now, Im not being rude so bare with me please. Honestly I dont know how you look, and im sure your a great person with every reason to fall in love with some one - but looks matter alot with people these days. You'll find that it's the first ice breaker. I recommend ';stepping up your game'; by losing some weight and getting active (if not for your own health benefits).
Guys/Girls will take much more notice and they will start to be comfortable around you, not to mention your courage will be up. Just hang in there, hit some clubs, and find a sweet person.
Best advice though? Make sure you damn well know that person well before calling it official. you never want to get into a relationship and find out something insane about that person.
try to get to know the person a bit better. start little, like, since ur a college student, theres probably parties, go to a party, meet a guy, small talk about careers. etc etc. i love girls like that. and chubby is no big deal, i dont wanna be perfect muscle etc, i have some fat, and like to admit it. dont let that bother u. switch numbers with the guy, call him one day, get coffee. talk about randdom stuff, family, what theyre interested in. tip DO NOT TALK POLITICS (unless he mentions it first, i hate talking about that). good luck, hope this helps a bit.
Being bi certainly helps increase the pool of potential partners. ;-)
My only advice is to just jump on in to the dating pool and start splashing around.
And rest assured that...:
...someone will tickle your fancy and you will tickle theirs;
...someone will break your heart and make you cry, but then you'll do that to someone else, too, whether you mean to or not;
...the next person you date probably won't be ';the one';, and in fact, you'll probably go through dozens by the time you find one worth settling for;
...you'll have moments where you wonder if the whole game is even worth-it, and then you'll have moments where you look at the game and realize that's what life is all about;
...you'll learn things about yourself that you never realized - not all of them pleasant - and you'll learn things about other people along the same lines.
Just don't give up. Good luck! :-)
sweetie, you are a very rare breed. a very special woman for not giving up your virginity just to get a man or woman. when you do meet your soul-mate, you will be loved and admired.
don't try too hard when you are out in the world trying to meet people. just be yourself. someone is out there waiting for you, so, just relax and let things happen. it's worth waiting for, trust me.
Talk to friends who have similar interests and see if they know anybody. Try online dating? There are people out there who are probably into the same thing and would be great for you. You just need to find each other. If you look, the chances are more likely that you'll find.
wow umm be yourself let them know you are a virgin and that person should direct you if thier not a version also but 34 yea how did you do it ima 18 year old jock so i hump all the time and i have exp wit versions so belive me and youll be ok best of luck lol
Find someone who makes up for your flaws. If you find another quiet, self-conscious partner, I don't think you'd be happy. Don't stress about being a virgin; most people you'd want to date would find that attractive.
Find someone who cares about you! They will take their time, be patient and watch out for you. Basically....just be freindly with people, be open to freindships and new relationships, and it'll happen.
Trust me noone will have a problem with you being a virgin. So dont worry.
Please look for relationships in person and dont do the online generally not good dating and stuff...
34 and never dated? Hm. I guess maybe church or clubs. Maybe online dating or Craigslist?
dont do any online relationships!
Hi I think that it's good that you are looking to meet someone and you are an educated woman. I can understand being shy and unsure but for real, being educated and intelligent means you have a lot to offer for companionship. :)
OK at 34 years old, you can still find Many single people and it's not unusual. You can also expect a lot of divorced people. I think it's as good an age as any and you can be flexible with a few years younger or older with no problem.
With dating, you really want to just go out and have fun and meet people and not start looking for someone to be serious with yet. Think of this early dating as a way for you to get acclimated and a way to warm up and be able to be at ease in this way of relating.
And for real, be friendly have fun and be fun, just don't get serious quickly or try to!
For someone good to be close with, you obviously want someone whose company you enjoy and with similar interests like you say. You also want them to be affectionate and sensitive. Affectionate and sensitive people are excellent lovers..it's as simple as that!
Being single and looking is a nervous situation for a Lot of people, just remember that. Your own situation is unusual but you are not at all alone in being shy and unsure.
I could say so much more but I'm not sure what would be enough. lol! Good luck and I wish you the best. Please feel free to email me if you like :)
Just give it up and get it over with.
heres the best advice%26gt;...Don't have sex///......
Dating Advice: dating an older woman...?
Alright, some background info. I have been single for the past 8 months, basically used to time to clear my head and learn about myself. I have met a girl, and we have been seeing each other for about a month now. I am 20, and she is 24. She seems to be interested, as am i. What are some good date ideas and or places we could both enjoy ourselves without the age coming into play? Thanks!Dating Advice: dating an older woman...?
If you were 24 and she was 20, you wouldn't be asking this question.
Since you are only 20, going to bars is out.
If you were 24 and she was 20, you wouldn't be asking this question.
Since you are only 20, going to bars is out.
What dating advice would you give these women? Do you think they'll find Mr. Right?
Well, if they can't find Mr. Right they can always turn around and look for Miss Right since there are so many of them.What dating advice would you give these women? Do you think they'll find Mr. Right?
UM....WHAT WOMEN WOULD YOU BE REFERRING TO SIR...???What dating advice would you give these women? Do you think they'll find Mr. Right?
I dont think there is a mr or mrs right, people are under false protection
I found Mr. Right years ago. There is no advice on how to find him. It just happens.
Can we have a look at ';these women'; first?
Josephine ,,,,
the invisible women??
Where's the women? Bring them on. Have them parade around in the bathing suits.
i dont give dating advice
you mean the ones on here?? try Udate... sure they will but he may not be rich or perfect....personality counts!!
no.
only mr. left.
why bother? in a few years after marriage, they'll be looking at some hot young thing and wonder why they let themselves go...
It depends which women. My advice would be to wait for the right moment. Mr.Right will find his way to them you dont need to look.
which women? sure, but which women?
UM....WHAT WOMEN WOULD YOU BE REFERRING TO SIR...???What dating advice would you give these women? Do you think they'll find Mr. Right?
I dont think there is a mr or mrs right, people are under false protection
I found Mr. Right years ago. There is no advice on how to find him. It just happens.
Can we have a look at ';these women'; first?
Josephine ,,,,
the invisible women??
Where's the women? Bring them on. Have them parade around in the bathing suits.
i dont give dating advice
you mean the ones on here?? try Udate... sure they will but he may not be rich or perfect....personality counts!!
no.
only mr. left.
why bother? in a few years after marriage, they'll be looking at some hot young thing and wonder why they let themselves go...
It depends which women. My advice would be to wait for the right moment. Mr.Right will find his way to them you dont need to look.
which women? sure, but which women?
First date ever tomorrow, I'm SO scared, can anyone give me some advice?
Ok so I'm 14 and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a month and he's 16. We are going to hang out tomorrow but he woun't tell me where. He told my mom so she will know and everything but I have no idea. I've never been like on a date with a guy before. I went to the movies with this guy before but my mom was there with us. But like I'm so extremely nervous. Any ideas on how to calm down? Plus I'm EXTREMELY clumsy... like terribly clumsy... gosh... there is no way this can go well. Any advice?First date ever tomorrow, I'm SO scared, can anyone give me some advice?
be brave! you can do it! stand tall and keep smiling! you will be fine!First date ever tomorrow, I'm SO scared, can anyone give me some advice?
just be easy, it'll be as awkward as you make it so just be cool i'm sure he'll comfort you if you screw up.
answer mine?
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be brave! you can do it! stand tall and keep smiling! you will be fine!First date ever tomorrow, I'm SO scared, can anyone give me some advice?
just be easy, it'll be as awkward as you make it so just be cool i'm sure he'll comfort you if you screw up.
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Do you have any dating advice through video?
Don't always trust what you see.Do you have any dating advice through video?
try yahoo videos. or ask questions on yahoo. goodluckDo you have any dating advice through video?
Buy some porn.....
dont do that thing!
go to youtube
Try YouTube
http://youtube.com/
try yahoo videos. or ask questions on yahoo. goodluckDo you have any dating advice through video?
Buy some porn.....
dont do that thing!
go to youtube
Try YouTube
http://youtube.com/
Love experts: Is this dating advice true?
I hear that women who are interested in a man are supposed to make themselves look busy and not too available. The consequence of this is to see a man not more than twice a week (at first).
Does this work? Should I do it?Love experts: Is this dating advice true?
Yes, this does work, but there's more to it that you need to understand in order for it to work well. Of course, this is assuming that you really like the guy and want him to be attracted to you!
First, you want to make yourself look busy, but the key is to make yourself look busy because you have jst too many fun and interesting things going on in your life. As a guy, if I like a girl and she's busy having a ton of fun with other people, then I want to see her more, because she sounds fun to be around. You do not, however, want to make it seem that your'e busy because you're organizing your closet or has some stuff that you need to get done. That might actually make the guy lose interest in you, because your life sounds dull and boring.
Second, it's not good to send the impression that you're too busy, because you don't want to hang out or do anything with him. Rather, you want to send the impression that you do and are excited to do something with him, you just have all this other cool stuff going on, that you won't have time to hang out until later in the week. If you do that, you both let the guy know that you like him, but you also increase his interest in you, cause he'll see you as fun and will want to see you even more.
In the end, I do think this works well, and I would recommend doing it. Good luck!Love experts: Is this dating advice true?
It just really depends on the guy. Some guys are clingy and like seeing a girl a lot even at the beginning of a relationship. It doesn't hurt to be ';busy'; sometimes though... lol. Some guys love the chase. If you appear unavailable it'll just make them want you more for some reason. That doesn't mean playing games with him, just don't be available every single time he wants to see you.
Nope, if a woman does this to a man who wants to date her and she makes her self this busy...He will just move on or date more women.
I have heard this before and it bothers me. Let me tell you why, because it's a game. If two people are interested in each other then they should just go with it. Otherwise, do you really want the attention of someone who only responds to 'playing hard to get.' Trust me, it will be the first game of many.
You don't want to PRETEND to ';make yourself look busy and not too available'; just because you think it's ';the best way to get a man to want to see you more';. Because that's a bunch of CRAP.
The best way to get a man to want to spend more time with you, is to make the time he spends with you --%26gt;%26gt; AS MUCH FUN AS POSSIBLE.
That makes perfect sense, wouldn't you say?
Where did you get the idea that seeing a man only twice a week (at first) is a 'consiquence'???? How much time do you EXPECT that he should WANT to spend with a woman he HARDLY KNOWS????
When you are dating --%26gt;%26gt; You are SINGLE.
When you are in a relationship --%26gt;%26gt; You are NOT.
';Dating'; is the period of time which affords you the chance to keep yourself available for the right person. During this time, you should not see each other more than once or twice a week . . . for at LEAST 3 months before considering entering a ';relationship';.
MANY women have a problem with this because they would PREFER that he date ';HER, and ONLY HER'; starting at the first date. . . . and that the relationship should just naturally EVOLVE from there.
But what they don't REALIZE is that he is NOT OBLIGATED or REQUIRED to just WANT to enter a relationship with her ';automatically'. Noone should just ';FALL'; into a relationship.
Entering a relationship (if you expect it to ever succeed) MUST be a conscious descision where BOTH people mutually agree to seek fulfillment ONLY FROM EACH OTHER. If ONE person is not willing to to this, then it's only a matter of time before it ALL FALLS APART.
And it takes TIME for BOTH people to want this.
You don't just start dating a guy, and assume he is just supposed to spend all his time with you . . . that it's called a ';relationship'; now . . . and he's a huge ****** if he doesn't want that right away.
You follow??
But guess how many women out there actually EXPECT EXACTLY THAT!
Allowing yourselves to develop good, fun, healthy MEMORIES together TAKES TIME. You want to KNOW that you are stepping into a relationship with someone you WANT to be in a relationship with. Not just because you spend alot of (too much??) time together at first . . . so now one of you THINKS it's called a ';relationship';.
It doesn't work like that, even though MANY WOMEN WOULD PREFER IT DID.
If you want a man to WANT to be in a relationship with you, spend more time with you, love you, care about you, then that depends TOTALLY on HOW MUCH FUN YOU ARE TO BE AROUND.
It does NOT depend on how much you PRETEND to be unavailable, just because you heard somewhere that ';it works';.
Cheers!
:)
Games are stupid
You risk making the guy think you are not interested
so he will end up looking for something/someone else
who is more readily available to him
yes, if he really likes you he will wait. Dating is not eating instant noodles
yes, don't look desperate
Whatever, Sure and Hope for the best.lipgloss
Does this work? Should I do it?Love experts: Is this dating advice true?
Yes, this does work, but there's more to it that you need to understand in order for it to work well. Of course, this is assuming that you really like the guy and want him to be attracted to you!
First, you want to make yourself look busy, but the key is to make yourself look busy because you have jst too many fun and interesting things going on in your life. As a guy, if I like a girl and she's busy having a ton of fun with other people, then I want to see her more, because she sounds fun to be around. You do not, however, want to make it seem that your'e busy because you're organizing your closet or has some stuff that you need to get done. That might actually make the guy lose interest in you, because your life sounds dull and boring.
Second, it's not good to send the impression that you're too busy, because you don't want to hang out or do anything with him. Rather, you want to send the impression that you do and are excited to do something with him, you just have all this other cool stuff going on, that you won't have time to hang out until later in the week. If you do that, you both let the guy know that you like him, but you also increase his interest in you, cause he'll see you as fun and will want to see you even more.
In the end, I do think this works well, and I would recommend doing it. Good luck!Love experts: Is this dating advice true?
It just really depends on the guy. Some guys are clingy and like seeing a girl a lot even at the beginning of a relationship. It doesn't hurt to be ';busy'; sometimes though... lol. Some guys love the chase. If you appear unavailable it'll just make them want you more for some reason. That doesn't mean playing games with him, just don't be available every single time he wants to see you.
Nope, if a woman does this to a man who wants to date her and she makes her self this busy...He will just move on or date more women.
I have heard this before and it bothers me. Let me tell you why, because it's a game. If two people are interested in each other then they should just go with it. Otherwise, do you really want the attention of someone who only responds to 'playing hard to get.' Trust me, it will be the first game of many.
You don't want to PRETEND to ';make yourself look busy and not too available'; just because you think it's ';the best way to get a man to want to see you more';. Because that's a bunch of CRAP.
The best way to get a man to want to spend more time with you, is to make the time he spends with you --%26gt;%26gt; AS MUCH FUN AS POSSIBLE.
That makes perfect sense, wouldn't you say?
Where did you get the idea that seeing a man only twice a week (at first) is a 'consiquence'???? How much time do you EXPECT that he should WANT to spend with a woman he HARDLY KNOWS????
When you are dating --%26gt;%26gt; You are SINGLE.
When you are in a relationship --%26gt;%26gt; You are NOT.
';Dating'; is the period of time which affords you the chance to keep yourself available for the right person. During this time, you should not see each other more than once or twice a week . . . for at LEAST 3 months before considering entering a ';relationship';.
MANY women have a problem with this because they would PREFER that he date ';HER, and ONLY HER'; starting at the first date. . . . and that the relationship should just naturally EVOLVE from there.
But what they don't REALIZE is that he is NOT OBLIGATED or REQUIRED to just WANT to enter a relationship with her ';automatically'. Noone should just ';FALL'; into a relationship.
Entering a relationship (if you expect it to ever succeed) MUST be a conscious descision where BOTH people mutually agree to seek fulfillment ONLY FROM EACH OTHER. If ONE person is not willing to to this, then it's only a matter of time before it ALL FALLS APART.
And it takes TIME for BOTH people to want this.
You don't just start dating a guy, and assume he is just supposed to spend all his time with you . . . that it's called a ';relationship'; now . . . and he's a huge ****** if he doesn't want that right away.
You follow??
But guess how many women out there actually EXPECT EXACTLY THAT!
Allowing yourselves to develop good, fun, healthy MEMORIES together TAKES TIME. You want to KNOW that you are stepping into a relationship with someone you WANT to be in a relationship with. Not just because you spend alot of (too much??) time together at first . . . so now one of you THINKS it's called a ';relationship';.
It doesn't work like that, even though MANY WOMEN WOULD PREFER IT DID.
If you want a man to WANT to be in a relationship with you, spend more time with you, love you, care about you, then that depends TOTALLY on HOW MUCH FUN YOU ARE TO BE AROUND.
It does NOT depend on how much you PRETEND to be unavailable, just because you heard somewhere that ';it works';.
Cheers!
:)
Games are stupid
You risk making the guy think you are not interested
so he will end up looking for something/someone else
who is more readily available to him
yes, if he really likes you he will wait. Dating is not eating instant noodles
yes, don't look desperate
Whatever, Sure and Hope for the best.
I need help on dating advice serioulsy?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
how do i start talking to a girl that doesnt know me but i like her?? after we start talking what do i do to make her like me lie what do i say n stuff??I need help on dating advice serioulsy?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
just go up and say hi duh i know it sounds easy to say then to do but just present your self and make some jokes anykind (not corny ones!!) or jsut be like dang that test was hard did you get # 3? or somthing that yall can realate so get things rolling and never lie cause then youll forget and then youll have a lotta lies to keep track ofI need help on dating advice serioulsy?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
dude your a douche just go talk to her and make conversation its not hard.
just go up and say hi duh i know it sounds easy to say then to do but just present your self and make some jokes anykind (not corny ones!!) or jsut be like dang that test was hard did you get # 3? or somthing that yall can realate so get things rolling and never lie cause then youll forget and then youll have a lotta lies to keep track ofI need help on dating advice serioulsy?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
dude your a douche just go talk to her and make conversation its not hard.
5th Date - still no confidence to kiss her so i wrote to her.... advice....?
I am on the 5th date... only to still be unable to take to the next stage... she is the only girl ever to sap my confidence, i feel so shy around her. I dont want to mess it up...
**I think you are great, funny, sweet and . I wanted for a while to hold your face in my hand and give you a kiss just to see if it is like I imagine it to be. I just seem to lose any confidence I have when with you, only has ever happened with you for some reason. I normally have no worries or problems but you are different... I can鈥檛 work it out.
I don鈥檛 know, maybe I want you to open up a little with me... there is something pretty great here. Let鈥檚 just see how it goes, and maybe one day I might have a surge of confidence around you :P :P**
Will this scare a girl off? I dont think it did, she told me I was cute and we are still meeting up (just us two) on saturday.
Thing is im a really confident person, with my own flat at 22, mortgage, great job, but comes to love/kissing - im terrible! :(5th Date - still no confidence to kiss her so i wrote to her.... advice....?
You said you are meeting up Saturday?
Arrive with flowers. Go with something without a message like a nice arrangement-ask the florist to be sure this is a subtle and not a blatant message.
Ask her if she could pick a meal to have this very minute, what would it be? Take her for that meal.
If you look into her eyes at that table while she is enjoying her favorite food, and she smiles, you then lean in slowly, and plant your lips on hers.
From there, instinct will take over, or she will.
You have a great deal going for you. You are solid at a very young age. I am sure that is part of the reason she is attracted to you.
She has attended 5 dates. She likes you. You have no reason to question your confidence. She wants that kiss. If she doesn't kiss you first when you hand her the flowers, and the timing feels right, kiss her at the table.
Showing her that you want to kiss her in public tells her that you want the whole world to know you are into her.
Good luck and enjoy!5th Date - still no confidence to kiss her so i wrote to her.... advice....?
OMG u big girl, get a life and just kiss her! kissing starts from the first date
I normally have no worries or problems but you are different... change this part to:
I normally have no worries or problems but I really like you a lot
good luck
First off, I wouldn't send her that message. If I received that message from a guy, I'd probably get a little spooked.
And second, I know kissing a girl may be intimidating, but maybe it's because you're hyping it up too much. A kiss shouldn't be planned--there's no ';right'; time for it. It should be spontaneous.
Also, look for her signals. The fact that she said you're cute and wants to meet up is a really good sign. On Saturday, if she's close to you and makes eye contact for a couple seconds, go ahead and do it.
Just kiss her. If you like her this much just go for it. Don't be scared.
Kissing sort of terrifies me too.
it shouldnt but make sure you let her know that you do like her alot because a girl dosnt want to feel liek you cant open up to her but yeah i think its sweet good luck email me any time tell me how it goes
why dont u just tell her how you feel and its because u care about her.....its like this if you are trying out for a sport you really want to play then you get nervous....why? its because its important to you and you want to do your best...same in this situation well you should tell her your shy around her ....maybe she feels the same way? you dont know till you say something! just be yourself im sure shes dieing to kiss you so maybe if you tell her she will kiss you:) dont worry if she likes you she wont care!:P and nice umbrella
That would scare me off. Just get drunk..you will get back your confidence. Don't get drunk enough to get sick or make a fool of yourself, just enough to take the edge off. You need to relax....just remember there are plenty women in the world!
Some advice I can offer:
1. Do not tell her that you're lack of confidence. Girls like confident men. You can be nervous (most normal guys are), but NEVER lose confidence.
2. Choose your words carefully so it's not like you're blaming here like your sentence here: ';I don鈥檛 know, maybe I want you to open up a little with me';. It's like you're blaming her for not opening up enough.
3. As for the kissing, you have to set the stage and the mood right first. When I first kissed my wife when we were still dating, we were sitting close by, talking, and hugging. I played a romantic song in the background and the light was dimmed. When our eyes met, I maintained my eye contact with her and it just happened.
So... when you sit close by and hug each other, it guarantees that you're close enough to actually kiss her when you have the chance. Talking will lighten the mood and make both of you less nervous. Romantic songs and dimmed light helps setting the mood for doing something romantic, such as kissing for example.
well if someone i was going on a date with wrote me that honestly id feel like your uncomfortable around me and i make you feel weird. i wouldn't want to hear that.idn thats how itd make me feel. just go for it kiss her!
**I think you are great, funny, sweet and . I wanted for a while to hold your face in my hand and give you a kiss just to see if it is like I imagine it to be. I just seem to lose any confidence I have when with you, only has ever happened with you for some reason. I normally have no worries or problems but you are different... I can鈥檛 work it out.
I don鈥檛 know, maybe I want you to open up a little with me... there is something pretty great here. Let鈥檚 just see how it goes, and maybe one day I might have a surge of confidence around you :P :P**
Will this scare a girl off? I dont think it did, she told me I was cute and we are still meeting up (just us two) on saturday.
Thing is im a really confident person, with my own flat at 22, mortgage, great job, but comes to love/kissing - im terrible! :(5th Date - still no confidence to kiss her so i wrote to her.... advice....?
You said you are meeting up Saturday?
Arrive with flowers. Go with something without a message like a nice arrangement-ask the florist to be sure this is a subtle and not a blatant message.
Ask her if she could pick a meal to have this very minute, what would it be? Take her for that meal.
If you look into her eyes at that table while she is enjoying her favorite food, and she smiles, you then lean in slowly, and plant your lips on hers.
From there, instinct will take over, or she will.
You have a great deal going for you. You are solid at a very young age. I am sure that is part of the reason she is attracted to you.
She has attended 5 dates. She likes you. You have no reason to question your confidence. She wants that kiss. If she doesn't kiss you first when you hand her the flowers, and the timing feels right, kiss her at the table.
Showing her that you want to kiss her in public tells her that you want the whole world to know you are into her.
Good luck and enjoy!5th Date - still no confidence to kiss her so i wrote to her.... advice....?
OMG u big girl, get a life and just kiss her! kissing starts from the first date
I normally have no worries or problems but you are different... change this part to:
I normally have no worries or problems but I really like you a lot
good luck
First off, I wouldn't send her that message. If I received that message from a guy, I'd probably get a little spooked.
And second, I know kissing a girl may be intimidating, but maybe it's because you're hyping it up too much. A kiss shouldn't be planned--there's no ';right'; time for it. It should be spontaneous.
Also, look for her signals. The fact that she said you're cute and wants to meet up is a really good sign. On Saturday, if she's close to you and makes eye contact for a couple seconds, go ahead and do it.
Just kiss her. If you like her this much just go for it. Don't be scared.
Kissing sort of terrifies me too.
it shouldnt but make sure you let her know that you do like her alot because a girl dosnt want to feel liek you cant open up to her but yeah i think its sweet good luck email me any time tell me how it goes
why dont u just tell her how you feel and its because u care about her.....its like this if you are trying out for a sport you really want to play then you get nervous....why? its because its important to you and you want to do your best...same in this situation well you should tell her your shy around her ....maybe she feels the same way? you dont know till you say something! just be yourself im sure shes dieing to kiss you so maybe if you tell her she will kiss you:) dont worry if she likes you she wont care!:P and nice umbrella
That would scare me off. Just get drunk..you will get back your confidence. Don't get drunk enough to get sick or make a fool of yourself, just enough to take the edge off. You need to relax....just remember there are plenty women in the world!
Some advice I can offer:
1. Do not tell her that you're lack of confidence. Girls like confident men. You can be nervous (most normal guys are), but NEVER lose confidence.
2. Choose your words carefully so it's not like you're blaming here like your sentence here: ';I don鈥檛 know, maybe I want you to open up a little with me';. It's like you're blaming her for not opening up enough.
3. As for the kissing, you have to set the stage and the mood right first. When I first kissed my wife when we were still dating, we were sitting close by, talking, and hugging. I played a romantic song in the background and the light was dimmed. When our eyes met, I maintained my eye contact with her and it just happened.
So... when you sit close by and hug each other, it guarantees that you're close enough to actually kiss her when you have the chance. Talking will lighten the mood and make both of you less nervous. Romantic songs and dimmed light helps setting the mood for doing something romantic, such as kissing for example.
well if someone i was going on a date with wrote me that honestly id feel like your uncomfortable around me and i make you feel weird. i wouldn't want to hear that.idn thats how itd make me feel. just go for it kiss her!
Dose any one know Dating Advice?
I need some advice in asking a girl out
Dose any one know Dating Advice?
just be sweet and ask.i would like that.make it simple and short..but make it count.i like simple most girls do so just be charming and SIMPLE!lolDose any one know Dating Advice?
just be yourself... ask her face to face, but do it alone, either ask her before or after school. Or if you dont have the ourage to do that ask her by putting a note in her locker or tll her friend or your friend to ask for you.
just ask her...really...just say you want to talk to her...then when she's not with a bunch of people ask her...the worst that could happen is she would say no but she won't do it in a mean way girls aren't like that
Just go for it and ask her for something fun, like mini golf. Best of luck!
Dose any one know Dating Advice?
just be sweet and ask.i would like that.make it simple and short..but make it count.i like simple most girls do so just be charming and SIMPLE!lolDose any one know Dating Advice?
just be yourself... ask her face to face, but do it alone, either ask her before or after school. Or if you dont have the ourage to do that ask her by putting a note in her locker or tll her friend or your friend to ask for you.
just ask her...really...just say you want to talk to her...then when she's not with a bunch of people ask her...the worst that could happen is she would say no but she won't do it in a mean way girls aren't like that
Just go for it and ask her for something fun, like mini golf. Best of luck!
Dating Advice?? Any ideas for this situation??
Alright, so I really like this guy, but he likes another girl. The girl he likes is a total hoe...she flirts with every guy she sees. He has asked her out before and she said she can't have a boyfriend...excuse maybe?? I think so. So i was just wondering if anyone had any tips about how to get this guy, because I think he might be about ready to give up on this girl. Thanks so much!Dating Advice?? Any ideas for this situation??
just make sure he knows how u feel and tell him what she really is which is a hoe/skankDating Advice?? Any ideas for this situation??
Even if he gives up on that girl and becomes ';technically'; single, that does not mean he can be easily snatched. If he likes you, more power to you. If he doesn't, you can bring the horse to the water but you can't make him drink, if you know what I mean.
It's not under your control. He has preferences and that's how he's going to choose, even if his choice seems poor.
just make sure he knows how u feel and tell him what she really is which is a hoe/skankDating Advice?? Any ideas for this situation??
Even if he gives up on that girl and becomes ';technically'; single, that does not mean he can be easily snatched. If he likes you, more power to you. If he doesn't, you can bring the horse to the water but you can't make him drink, if you know what I mean.
It's not under your control. He has preferences and that's how he's going to choose, even if his choice seems poor.
Need some dating advice? Guy i'm dating seems disinterested suddenly.
So me and the guy have been seeing each other for about 2 months. I notice a drop in calls and he is always busy with work and other activities. I asked him if he still wants to see me and he said yes but he is busy with work and stuff. I feel I need someone who wants to spend time with me not a phone buddy what do you think?Need some dating advice? Guy i'm dating seems disinterested suddenly.
get physical with him if u know what i mean. he'll suddnely want to see more of u.Need some dating advice? Guy i'm dating seems disinterested suddenly.
SO do you two have any sexual encounter? maybe thats what he wants to spice up the relationship or maybe theres someone that gives him what he wants no questions asked and someone that wants it as much as he does.lipgloss
get physical with him if u know what i mean. he'll suddnely want to see more of u.Need some dating advice? Guy i'm dating seems disinterested suddenly.
SO do you two have any sexual encounter? maybe thats what he wants to spice up the relationship or maybe theres someone that gives him what he wants no questions asked and someone that wants it as much as he does.
Dating advice( how do I tell if she likes me????)?
So I went out with this girl twice and I really like her and want to get to know her. I think the two time went well because there was pretty good conversation and I don't think it was at all akward. Personally, I would like to see her again but I don't want to call her and invite her someplace because I initiated the first two times. I feel that no matter if I feel that it went well I don't really know her perspactive so if she want to get together then she would call me.So my game plan is I will wait a week until I call her again. I also want to throw in that on the second date we were on my couch and she was laying on me as we were watching a movie and started to kind of rub my arm. I didn't think much of it because I froze up and didn't want to make a big deal out of it. But everyone says that she was kind of hitting on me and it flew over my head. So what do u thik I should do? Should I wait a week and call her or should I wait for her to call me?Dating advice( how do I tell if she likes me????)?
If your date is rubbing you or touching you, she is definately interested in something physical. She may like you or she may just want to play. Give her the chance to call you...your game plan is right on. Let her make the move, and if she calls you then set something up that's really special. BTW, buy a box of condoms and some KY or equivalent just to be prepared. When the time comes, don't talk about it, JUST DO IT! good luck.
If you are under the age of consent, then be careful and talk to your parents about it. The last thing you want is an underage woman calling the cops on you for Statuatory Rape.Dating advice( how do I tell if she likes me????)?
Just call her! She's probably sitting at home wondering why you haven't! That's the problem with lesbian relationships...no one knows who should call who when :) Trust me...just freakin call her. Don't play games. Call her and find out what's up instead of driving yourself crazy! :)
Oh, well! It's obvious to me that she's hitting on u. Hmm.... I would suggest that u call and ask her out for a drink. Then, ask her what she thinks abt lesbianism. Try to hint to her that if someone of her own gender likes her, what would she do. If everything is positive, then u may wanna tell her; ';I've been thinking abt this for a pretty long time.'; ';I think I've got a crush on u';. ';Do u?';. If u dare to go ahead with that question, go on. That's the only way of knowing whether she's into lesbianism and likes u.
Play a little hard to get. I would wait at least a couple of days before calling her. From what you are saying it seems like she likes you! I wouldn't worry about that... I know that I wouldn't touch a guys arm and sit close to him if I didn't really like him. But keep in mind that she could be shy to call you. She's probably thinking the same thing as you are...'if I call him I wont know if he's really into me' or 'I'll wait for him to call so i know he likes me' . I never like to have to call the guy... because I don't want to come off as desperate... but at the same time I don't want to guy to seem desperate either. I just want to know that he likes me... or is pursuing me.
My boyfriend played the hard to get act when we first started dating. It drove me wild! Keep this in mind....
Usually if a girl likes you she will....stare into your eyes because she is interested in what your are ssaying. If she would like to kiss you her eyes tend to wander from your eyes to your mouth. If she was rubbing your arm and it wasnt acccidently then she is interested. Don't wait for her to call, call her.
dude if you like her then you gotta keep trying. soemtimes girls are shy and prefer to have the guy do all the asking out. maybe you could ask her if she wants to go boyfriend and girlfriend. it's better then trying to read her mind
If your date is rubbing you or touching you, she is definately interested in something physical. She may like you or she may just want to play. Give her the chance to call you...your game plan is right on. Let her make the move, and if she calls you then set something up that's really special. BTW, buy a box of condoms and some KY or equivalent just to be prepared. When the time comes, don't talk about it, JUST DO IT! good luck.
If you are under the age of consent, then be careful and talk to your parents about it. The last thing you want is an underage woman calling the cops on you for Statuatory Rape.Dating advice( how do I tell if she likes me????)?
Just call her! She's probably sitting at home wondering why you haven't! That's the problem with lesbian relationships...no one knows who should call who when :) Trust me...just freakin call her. Don't play games. Call her and find out what's up instead of driving yourself crazy! :)
Oh, well! It's obvious to me that she's hitting on u. Hmm.... I would suggest that u call and ask her out for a drink. Then, ask her what she thinks abt lesbianism. Try to hint to her that if someone of her own gender likes her, what would she do. If everything is positive, then u may wanna tell her; ';I've been thinking abt this for a pretty long time.'; ';I think I've got a crush on u';. ';Do u?';. If u dare to go ahead with that question, go on. That's the only way of knowing whether she's into lesbianism and likes u.
Play a little hard to get. I would wait at least a couple of days before calling her. From what you are saying it seems like she likes you! I wouldn't worry about that... I know that I wouldn't touch a guys arm and sit close to him if I didn't really like him. But keep in mind that she could be shy to call you. She's probably thinking the same thing as you are...'if I call him I wont know if he's really into me' or 'I'll wait for him to call so i know he likes me' . I never like to have to call the guy... because I don't want to come off as desperate... but at the same time I don't want to guy to seem desperate either. I just want to know that he likes me... or is pursuing me.
My boyfriend played the hard to get act when we first started dating. It drove me wild! Keep this in mind....
Usually if a girl likes you she will....stare into your eyes because she is interested in what your are ssaying. If she would like to kiss you her eyes tend to wander from your eyes to your mouth. If she was rubbing your arm and it wasnt acccidently then she is interested. Don't wait for her to call, call her.
dude if you like her then you gotta keep trying. soemtimes girls are shy and prefer to have the guy do all the asking out. maybe you could ask her if she wants to go boyfriend and girlfriend. it's better then trying to read her mind
Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
alright, im a soldier, about to return home, and am trying to get more into the relationship world, i've never done too well with girls, i used to be overweight, etc. you get the idea, not to mention im a non-mormon living in utah. but since joining the service i have gotten in shape, but still am afraid of denial, any advice? and please, no ';just be yourself'; answersDating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
how did you lose weight ? girls dig guys who are good looking and loveable ,.Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
lmao! yeah all my cousins live in utah and are all mormons and very religious, well you should go out to the nearest parks in the morning and jog and find some girls jogging or relaxing their just introduce yourself don't be shy. also you could try the markets lmao church?! just go out their and you will find someone great i'm sure.
Hahahahaha. ';not to mention im a non-mormon living in utah.';
Coming from a Marine wife = I know you asked to avoid it, but YES be yourself! Girls don't want to start to know a guy, then find everything she thought she knew is fake. Go out with friends, and see if you can get your buddies to make sure that there are a few single ladies in the group with you. If you're awkward around ladies, and you don't have much self-confidence because of what you used to look like, then build your self-confidence. The only way to do that is BY being yourself and sticking your neck out there. Yes, denial hurts. Everyone has been there, done that at some point. But chances are, the girl of your dreams isn't just going to happen to knock on your barracks door some random night, you know? TRY not to go out with the mindset of ';well, tonight is going to go badly.';
From my husband: you're a soldier. You've already got an advantage over all the civilian guys out there because being in the military gives you cool points. If you're in the Army, you're allowed to go out in public in your cammies (I'm not allowed to in mine!), girls tend to melt like butter when they see a guy in uniform.
hi, single soldier! are you station now? you should never say you didn't do well with girls, it kind of brings up RED FLAGS. just act like your the man, have a plan on what you would like the relationship to be like and find a woman with similar interest. good luck....
you said no just be yourself, but you need to just be yourself. if someone cannot accept you for the person you are, then they're not worth your time. you also need to know that you're not going to be rejected every time. you probably didn't have much luck because you were overweight, and feeling unsure of yourself. now that you're in shape i would try to work on confidence. try to work on yourself, and make sure you're ready to be in a relationship. you sounld like a good guy to me, the right girl will come along... but you do need to just be yourself. you need to build up some confidence to be able to approach girls. once you can approach the girl, just make small talk. if you bomb, and don't do well.. dust off your shoulders, and try again. you have to give yourself credit because you're not very expeinced in the dating scene. at least you'll be making an effort. you need to try and stay in the right mind frame when you go out to meet new people. think in your head that you're going to talk to a girl, get her number, ect. if you think why would any girl want to meet or date me. i'll never be able to get a number... then that's exactly what will happen because girls can tell by the vibe you're giving off. if you come off as a funny outgoing person, then they'd most likely be willing to give you their number or w/e. have you thought about speed dating? it would be able to give you practice by talking with a lot of girls. it may be awkward with one, but the next you might be able to talk to, as you go along you'll just get better at talking with girls. we're really not all that bad ;) lol good luck! and thanks for doing what you do to keep us safe at home.
You're a soldier! be confident, go out there and fight.
how did you lose weight ? girls dig guys who are good looking and loveable ,.Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
lmao! yeah all my cousins live in utah and are all mormons and very religious, well you should go out to the nearest parks in the morning and jog and find some girls jogging or relaxing their just introduce yourself don't be shy. also you could try the markets lmao church?! just go out their and you will find someone great i'm sure.
Hahahahaha. ';not to mention im a non-mormon living in utah.';
Coming from a Marine wife = I know you asked to avoid it, but YES be yourself! Girls don't want to start to know a guy, then find everything she thought she knew is fake. Go out with friends, and see if you can get your buddies to make sure that there are a few single ladies in the group with you. If you're awkward around ladies, and you don't have much self-confidence because of what you used to look like, then build your self-confidence. The only way to do that is BY being yourself and sticking your neck out there. Yes, denial hurts. Everyone has been there, done that at some point. But chances are, the girl of your dreams isn't just going to happen to knock on your barracks door some random night, you know? TRY not to go out with the mindset of ';well, tonight is going to go badly.';
From my husband: you're a soldier. You've already got an advantage over all the civilian guys out there because being in the military gives you cool points. If you're in the Army, you're allowed to go out in public in your cammies (I'm not allowed to in mine!), girls tend to melt like butter when they see a guy in uniform.
hi, single soldier! are you station now? you should never say you didn't do well with girls, it kind of brings up RED FLAGS. just act like your the man, have a plan on what you would like the relationship to be like and find a woman with similar interest. good luck....
you said no just be yourself, but you need to just be yourself. if someone cannot accept you for the person you are, then they're not worth your time. you also need to know that you're not going to be rejected every time. you probably didn't have much luck because you were overweight, and feeling unsure of yourself. now that you're in shape i would try to work on confidence. try to work on yourself, and make sure you're ready to be in a relationship. you sounld like a good guy to me, the right girl will come along... but you do need to just be yourself. you need to build up some confidence to be able to approach girls. once you can approach the girl, just make small talk. if you bomb, and don't do well.. dust off your shoulders, and try again. you have to give yourself credit because you're not very expeinced in the dating scene. at least you'll be making an effort. you need to try and stay in the right mind frame when you go out to meet new people. think in your head that you're going to talk to a girl, get her number, ect. if you think why would any girl want to meet or date me. i'll never be able to get a number... then that's exactly what will happen because girls can tell by the vibe you're giving off. if you come off as a funny outgoing person, then they'd most likely be willing to give you their number or w/e. have you thought about speed dating? it would be able to give you practice by talking with a lot of girls. it may be awkward with one, but the next you might be able to talk to, as you go along you'll just get better at talking with girls. we're really not all that bad ;) lol good luck! and thanks for doing what you do to keep us safe at home.
You're a soldier! be confident, go out there and fight.
Dating advice? Repost, knowone answered before:/?
Okay i really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend.
I agreed to sneak out with my friend to her bf's house,
and when the car pulled up, the guy i like was driving
it. I was so suprised. He had a girlfriend but i ended
up making out with him. I like him alot but he likes his
gf way more.What should i do? Lose him or get together
with him?Dating advice? Repost, knowone answered before:/?
lose him unless he definately is breaking up with his gf cause other wise as britney says:hes a womaniser:)lol:)Dating advice? Repost, knowone answered before:/?
Welp. He's a ho (: You don't want him. Move on.
How do you know he won't make out with some chick if you guy's were to date? Even if he does really like you? You want a loyal guy hun. It'll save the heartache.
Woah.
Never get involved with another girls man.
What if you're boyfriend got involved with some other girl?
You would be pissed. I would.
If he's got a girlfriend forget it. It's so not worth it, because you'll end up feeling guilty, or get attached and end up liking him, even though he has a girlfriend...then you'll really feel horrible.
Trust me, don't get involved. Just tell him that you shouldn't be doing that and he's got a girlfriend, and you're not about to get involved in that. That's what i would do
if he likes his girlfriend way more, and if u guys hook up, he might loose interest in u and go running back to his x-gf....so i say, don't even bother wasting ur time on him......unless hes like super-duper hot...tehe %26lt;3
well i thik u should leave him with his gurl u wouldnt like somone to steal ur man
see if it works out between him and his gurl if hes single again then go 4 it%26lt;3
I would just forget him. Leave attached men alone.
Why would you want a guy who has a girlfriend already and still cheated on her with you.
If he really likes her better, and still cheated with on her, what would he do, if he was dating you.
You need to lose this creep, and find some way to boost your own self esteem.
I'm sure you are worthy of a much nicer and decent guy.
I agreed to sneak out with my friend to her bf's house,
and when the car pulled up, the guy i like was driving
it. I was so suprised. He had a girlfriend but i ended
up making out with him. I like him alot but he likes his
gf way more.What should i do? Lose him or get together
with him?Dating advice? Repost, knowone answered before:/?
lose him unless he definately is breaking up with his gf cause other wise as britney says:hes a womaniser:)lol:)Dating advice? Repost, knowone answered before:/?
Welp. He's a ho (: You don't want him. Move on.
How do you know he won't make out with some chick if you guy's were to date? Even if he does really like you? You want a loyal guy hun. It'll save the heartache.
Woah.
Never get involved with another girls man.
What if you're boyfriend got involved with some other girl?
You would be pissed. I would.
If he's got a girlfriend forget it. It's so not worth it, because you'll end up feeling guilty, or get attached and end up liking him, even though he has a girlfriend...then you'll really feel horrible.
Trust me, don't get involved. Just tell him that you shouldn't be doing that and he's got a girlfriend, and you're not about to get involved in that. That's what i would do
if he likes his girlfriend way more, and if u guys hook up, he might loose interest in u and go running back to his x-gf....so i say, don't even bother wasting ur time on him......unless hes like super-duper hot...tehe %26lt;3
well i thik u should leave him with his gurl u wouldnt like somone to steal ur man
see if it works out between him and his gurl if hes single again then go 4 it%26lt;3
I would just forget him. Leave attached men alone.
Why would you want a guy who has a girlfriend already and still cheated on her with you.
If he really likes her better, and still cheated with on her, what would he do, if he was dating you.
You need to lose this creep, and find some way to boost your own self esteem.
I'm sure you are worthy of a much nicer and decent guy.
Dating advice: I've recently noticed this rather attractive George III Mahogany Drop leaf table and don't
know how to ';break the ice'; so to speak and would appreciate any advice?Dating advice: I've recently noticed this rather attractive George III Mahogany Drop leaf table and don't
George III narrows the dates. Somewhere between II and IV.
George III narrows the dates. Somewhere between II and IV.
Dating Advice For A Guy?
im 13 and i have a great girlfriend any dating tips?Dating Advice For A Guy?
Sure, well you guys are pretty young and I'm happy for you guys. So some tips are just to be comfortable and yourselves around each other. Theres no need to rush things and get to know each other. These aren't really tips but they're just some things that are true to know.Dating Advice For A Guy?
Sex should be on your mind. Just don't forget the feeling your having now in case you guy's get into a little fight. Think about what makes her special and keep it that way
Don't Touch her until she's 18 or you will go to jail!
is my best dating tip.
Sure, well you guys are pretty young and I'm happy for you guys. So some tips are just to be comfortable and yourselves around each other. Theres no need to rush things and get to know each other. These aren't really tips but they're just some things that are true to know.Dating Advice For A Guy?
Sex should be on your mind. Just don't forget the feeling your having now in case you guy's get into a little fight. Think about what makes her special and keep it that way
Don't Touch her until she's 18 or you will go to jail!
is my best dating tip.
Dating Advice for the Young (11-12 years)?
My boyfriend really likes me and he always wants to talk to me but he can't My friends are always surrounding me and he gets nervous when my friends are around. I want to be alone with him but my friends are always right there when I try. What should I do? I really want to talk with him but that time is when me and my friends are hanging out together.Dating Advice for the Young (11-12 years)?
Advice: Don't DateDating Advice for the Young (11-12 years)?
You're a child and there is plenty of time for dating once you mature..as for now...go enjoy your innocence and act like the child that you are...
THIS IS THE HIGHEST RATED SUGGESTION FOR 11-12 YEAR OLDS!
DON'T DATE YET, WAIT FOR WHEN YOU CAN DRIVE
BECAUSE WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!
read a book. duh of course your bf likes you!!!! just life your childhood and then when your not asking people that are in high school about you and your bf.
go to bed
kiddy
youre too young (:lipgloss
Advice: Don't DateDating Advice for the Young (11-12 years)?
You're a child and there is plenty of time for dating once you mature..as for now...go enjoy your innocence and act like the child that you are...
THIS IS THE HIGHEST RATED SUGGESTION FOR 11-12 YEAR OLDS!
DON'T DATE YET, WAIT FOR WHEN YOU CAN DRIVE
BECAUSE WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!
read a book. duh of course your bf likes you!!!! just life your childhood and then when your not asking people that are in high school about you and your bf.
go to bed
kiddy
youre too young (:
Dating advice! Need help. 8th grade relationship.?
I have known this guy for 5 years and I can't decide if I like him. He is really sweet (stupid at times but aren't all boys. :X ) And I think he might like me. We talked at the dance last night but I couldn't tell if he was flirting or not. In the whole time I have known him I don't think we have ever gotten into a fight, atleast not one that I can remember. I just dont know if I should go out with him. Since we are so close if we break up I don't want to ruin our friendship but I think we probably would work really well together.Dating advice! Need help. 8th grade relationship.?
im in eighth grade too. at the end of seventh, i was in the exact situation. i liked this guy alot, and he would flirt with me. i guess one of my friends told him that i liked him, and he said he liked me too. he ended up asking me out, and we lasted almost 4 months (thats a long time for me.) i only dumped him cuz he wasnt moving fast enough, and that was his fault. so i bet you and your guy will last much longer. when a girl and a guy are good friends, the relationship ends up lasting a while. so good luck!Dating advice! Need help. 8th grade relationship.?
im a guy, and i kinda of went through the same thing, we went out, ruined our relationship but we are closer than ever now, and im stuck on asking her out. in your case if i were you i would ask him who he likes and then if he asks you, he wants to go out with you. then you ask tell friends to tell him he should ask you out
he mite become less emo if u start going out wit him or u mite become emo so watch out try to get him out of the emo group and prevent urself from getting in it
well just take the plunge and ask him chances are hell say yes otherwise he woodnt have been your friend so long
im in eighth grade too. at the end of seventh, i was in the exact situation. i liked this guy alot, and he would flirt with me. i guess one of my friends told him that i liked him, and he said he liked me too. he ended up asking me out, and we lasted almost 4 months (thats a long time for me.) i only dumped him cuz he wasnt moving fast enough, and that was his fault. so i bet you and your guy will last much longer. when a girl and a guy are good friends, the relationship ends up lasting a while. so good luck!Dating advice! Need help. 8th grade relationship.?
im a guy, and i kinda of went through the same thing, we went out, ruined our relationship but we are closer than ever now, and im stuck on asking her out. in your case if i were you i would ask him who he likes and then if he asks you, he wants to go out with you. then you ask tell friends to tell him he should ask you out
he mite become less emo if u start going out wit him or u mite become emo so watch out try to get him out of the emo group and prevent urself from getting in it
well just take the plunge and ask him chances are hell say yes otherwise he woodnt have been your friend so long
Dating advice (Open to both guys and girls)?
I have a lady friend (14yo) who i can really relate to and talk to and i like her very much. Whenever she sees me she always says hi and strikes up a conversation, and we talk for awile and I think she enjoys my company. Now, does she want me to ask her out, and if so how should i do it? (I don't know if she's currently dating anyone, and she isn't in any of my classes)Dating advice (Open to both guys and girls)?
you could bring up the subject about relationships. if she says that she doesnt have a bf then ask her.
or you could just go ahead and ask her. the worst that could happen would be for her to say no or that she has a bf.
you could bring up the subject about relationships. if she says that she doesnt have a bf then ask her.
or you could just go ahead and ask her. the worst that could happen would be for her to say no or that she has a bf.
Dating advice for a 30-something guy who's lost?
O.K., I hate throwing my personal problems on the web, but I figured I'd give it a shot. I'm a very young looking guy in his late 30's who is divorced once already, and ended a second year and a half relationship several months ago. Unfortunately, I am finding that any local bar I go to is filled with youngsters that make me feel old. I get plenty of phone numbers (that I don't ask for) but I'm not looking for a mindless fling with some girl that I really have nothing to talk about with. I just moved to a new state, have a good job, but work about 60 hours a week and don't have much time to do the whole mix-and-mingle routine. The whole internet dating thing scares me, because it's way to easy for someone to be a fake online. Ideas? I'm running out of ideas on my own and am tired of eating and sleeping alone.Dating advice for a 30-something guy who's lost?
Hiya! Don't despair -- the best is yet to come. I found myself a 29-year-old divorced lawyer working crazy hours and almost turning into a cat lady. The bar scene didn't work for me either, and dating co-workers was out. So I took a leap of faith and tried match dot com. Here's the key: if you approach internet dating as a fascinating sociological journey (rather than a quest for true love), it can be truly rewarding. Every person you meet is a good story, whether the date is great or terrible, whether there is attraction or not. And you're only partly right about online fakers -- the amazing flip side to the coin is that people will reveal truths to a stranger in an email that it would take years to get them to confess to your face. For example: one of my casual conversation email questions would be, ';who do you miss right now?'; Most people would say, my grandpa, my brother, my best friend in Iraq. Believe it or not, I had more than one answer ';my ex-wife.'; (Yeesh!) Inexplicable candor is a powerful faker weedpit tool! Anyhow, after 3 years of fascinating conversations with dudes from all walks of life -- some attractive, some not, but all quality guys with good souls and sarcastic wit who I would never have met otherwise -- I met my husband (now married 3 years). And the rest is history. Hang in there and don't be scared. Trust me when I say there are smart, interesting 30-something chicks out there who will want to meet you.Dating advice for a 30-something guy who's lost?
Do you have any friends who know someones who knows someone kind of thing?
Or since you just moved, at your new job make friends with people there and maybe they have friends or people to hook you up with?
Take a look at Russia. I'm dead serious, you fit the profile of guys that have success going that route.
groups like facebook... etc, real good way to meet like minded people, and start a coversation
Don't be afraid of internet dating. I've tried it, and although I have not found my soul mate, most people are who they say they are (only then men seem to be 1 inch shorter than they report, ha).
Got to put yourself out there. Whether it is calling up one of those numbers or giving the internet a shot. If you don't try something then where will you end up?
Why not try both? Either way you can be yourself and you don't have to settle for anything you know won't work out.
Good luck.
Maybe there are some groups our something that you can join in your area which interest you, for example there might be a book club or sports activities, they're always quite good places to meet new people. Also, maybe try going to some different bars, maybe try going to more quiet bars or even to cafes. I'm sure you will meet someone before long, and until then just try to enjoy being single.
What is it with you men? I'm a single mum in my mid 30s, I absolutely LOVE eating and sleeping alone. I LOVE my freedom and I cherish my freedom and defend it like a lioness to her cubs. Most of my single friends (who have been in a long term relationship) agree, but the men... Men wallow too much (don't want to grow old alone, tired of sleeping alone etc...). Try this: Enjoy your space. You'll like it too much you'll get very selfish. Don't try too hard. I'm on the verge of breaking up with my bf because I like my freedom too much. When I say freedom, it doesn't necessarily freedom to sleep with anyoen I fancy, it's mainly freedom to be alone. Freedom to fart whenever I please heheh.
By the way, kindergarten/daycare is always a good place for single dads to meet single mums... err.. you';re not a dad, are you? Sorry... If you have a dog, obidience class is always a safe, friendly place to meet single female dog owners. Public library, cafe during your lunch break, gym, aerobic classes, supermarket...
In the mean time, just enjoy your alone-ness. At least when you fart nobody minds...
If you work 60 hours a week, what do you do in your spare time? Do you go to church? Do you go to the library? Do you go to bookstores? Do you go to the grocery store? All of those are places you can go and meet people.
try goin to a gym and see if you can pick up any girls here.
phone chat
Hiya! Don't despair -- the best is yet to come. I found myself a 29-year-old divorced lawyer working crazy hours and almost turning into a cat lady. The bar scene didn't work for me either, and dating co-workers was out. So I took a leap of faith and tried match dot com. Here's the key: if you approach internet dating as a fascinating sociological journey (rather than a quest for true love), it can be truly rewarding. Every person you meet is a good story, whether the date is great or terrible, whether there is attraction or not. And you're only partly right about online fakers -- the amazing flip side to the coin is that people will reveal truths to a stranger in an email that it would take years to get them to confess to your face. For example: one of my casual conversation email questions would be, ';who do you miss right now?'; Most people would say, my grandpa, my brother, my best friend in Iraq. Believe it or not, I had more than one answer ';my ex-wife.'; (Yeesh!) Inexplicable candor is a powerful faker weedpit tool! Anyhow, after 3 years of fascinating conversations with dudes from all walks of life -- some attractive, some not, but all quality guys with good souls and sarcastic wit who I would never have met otherwise -- I met my husband (now married 3 years). And the rest is history. Hang in there and don't be scared. Trust me when I say there are smart, interesting 30-something chicks out there who will want to meet you.Dating advice for a 30-something guy who's lost?
Do you have any friends who know someones who knows someone kind of thing?
Or since you just moved, at your new job make friends with people there and maybe they have friends or people to hook you up with?
Take a look at Russia. I'm dead serious, you fit the profile of guys that have success going that route.
groups like facebook... etc, real good way to meet like minded people, and start a coversation
Don't be afraid of internet dating. I've tried it, and although I have not found my soul mate, most people are who they say they are (only then men seem to be 1 inch shorter than they report, ha).
Got to put yourself out there. Whether it is calling up one of those numbers or giving the internet a shot. If you don't try something then where will you end up?
Why not try both? Either way you can be yourself and you don't have to settle for anything you know won't work out.
Good luck.
Maybe there are some groups our something that you can join in your area which interest you, for example there might be a book club or sports activities, they're always quite good places to meet new people. Also, maybe try going to some different bars, maybe try going to more quiet bars or even to cafes. I'm sure you will meet someone before long, and until then just try to enjoy being single.
What is it with you men? I'm a single mum in my mid 30s, I absolutely LOVE eating and sleeping alone. I LOVE my freedom and I cherish my freedom and defend it like a lioness to her cubs. Most of my single friends (who have been in a long term relationship) agree, but the men... Men wallow too much (don't want to grow old alone, tired of sleeping alone etc...). Try this: Enjoy your space. You'll like it too much you'll get very selfish. Don't try too hard. I'm on the verge of breaking up with my bf because I like my freedom too much. When I say freedom, it doesn't necessarily freedom to sleep with anyoen I fancy, it's mainly freedom to be alone. Freedom to fart whenever I please heheh.
By the way, kindergarten/daycare is always a good place for single dads to meet single mums... err.. you';re not a dad, are you? Sorry... If you have a dog, obidience class is always a safe, friendly place to meet single female dog owners. Public library, cafe during your lunch break, gym, aerobic classes, supermarket...
In the mean time, just enjoy your alone-ness. At least when you fart nobody minds...
If you work 60 hours a week, what do you do in your spare time? Do you go to church? Do you go to the library? Do you go to bookstores? Do you go to the grocery store? All of those are places you can go and meet people.
try goin to a gym and see if you can pick up any girls here.
phone chat
Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
alright, im a soldier, about to return home, and am trying to get more into the relationship world, i've never done too well with girls, i used to be overweight, etc. you get the idea, not to mention im a non-mormon living in utah. but since joining the service i have gotten in shape, but still am afraid of denial, any advice? and please, no ';just be yourself'; answersDating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
get out into that open world and make the ladies notice you. go to a club or maybe even a dating service. dont be afraid of denial because your just obviously to good for them anyway.Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
Really be yourself. Be confident, but don't try too hard. Go to local hangouts and look for someone that catches your eye. Don't go for the slutty girls, go for the ones that have real harmony. You'll see them.
Really though, be yourself. Girls love soldiers.
Stay confident and flirt to get the hang of it. Compliments are always good places to start. Find someone that you are interested in and go out to meet people and work your way from there.
Also when you go out into an evironment, just observe things from other people and turn them into your own. I think you'll be fine. And many girls find soldiers attractive. lol ~just saying!
It's great that your a soldier!!
What branch are/were you in? Obviously it didn't do much for your self confidence.
yeah i know what you mean with the denial. although i dont like to pursue because of the akwardness after the result. but thats it college and classes, so like idk man. i dont know where you really meet girls when you are at your barracks and your station, but im sure they are around they like military dudes. you know.
get out into that open world and make the ladies notice you. go to a club or maybe even a dating service. dont be afraid of denial because your just obviously to good for them anyway.Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
Really be yourself. Be confident, but don't try too hard. Go to local hangouts and look for someone that catches your eye. Don't go for the slutty girls, go for the ones that have real harmony. You'll see them.
Really though, be yourself. Girls love soldiers.
Stay confident and flirt to get the hang of it. Compliments are always good places to start. Find someone that you are interested in and go out to meet people and work your way from there.
Also when you go out into an evironment, just observe things from other people and turn them into your own. I think you'll be fine. And many girls find soldiers attractive. lol ~just saying!
It's great that your a soldier!!
What branch are/were you in? Obviously it didn't do much for your self confidence.
yeah i know what you mean with the denial. although i dont like to pursue because of the akwardness after the result. but thats it college and classes, so like idk man. i dont know where you really meet girls when you are at your barracks and your station, but im sure they are around they like military dudes. you know.
Dating advice ladies opinion ?
how do you like a guy to approach you if you happen to catch his eye do you like the players or the honest guys, the one who beats around the push or the straightforward approach Dating advice ladies opinion ?
Definitely honest guys. I prefer a unique smart guy who isn't afraid of being different and doesn't try to be cool around all his guy friends. And being straight forward is way better, but not too straight forward get what i mean?
Definitely honest guys. I prefer a unique smart guy who isn't afraid of being different and doesn't try to be cool around all his guy friends. And being straight forward is way better, but not too straight forward get what i mean?
Dating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
Wouldn't bother me any. As long as I can visit your home and not see the place cluttered with his pictures and memories. Just be honest and disclose this when the time is right (like if he asks if you've ever been married) and certainly don't dwell in the past.
Besides, to me single means you are not currently attached. So saying ';single'; wouldn't be an outright lie.Dating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
yea sort ofDating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
I wouldn't be (that is, of course, if you didn't intentionally kill your husband). If you are going to have any lasting relationship, he'll find out anyway. You don't need to stress the fact that you are a widow. This may scare away some guys who might think that you are not over your husbands death. I think if someone asks you your marital status, saying widowed is perfectly fine. It says I once was married but my husband passed away. You don't need to give more details than that until he and you are both comfortable.
I would not be scared. The only concern would be if you were really ready to date. Its kind of like dating someone who has been seperated.lipgloss
Besides, to me single means you are not currently attached. So saying ';single'; wouldn't be an outright lie.Dating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
yea sort ofDating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
I wouldn't be (that is, of course, if you didn't intentionally kill your husband). If you are going to have any lasting relationship, he'll find out anyway. You don't need to stress the fact that you are a widow. This may scare away some guys who might think that you are not over your husbands death. I think if someone asks you your marital status, saying widowed is perfectly fine. It says I once was married but my husband passed away. You don't need to give more details than that until he and you are both comfortable.
I would not be scared. The only concern would be if you were really ready to date. Its kind of like dating someone who has been seperated.
Any guys need dating advice ?
i think i have the answer for you and it has something to do with smells!! just post me your question and i would be happy to help you wherever i can!!Any guys need dating advice ?
hey i have chronic diarrhea so I always poop in my pants. Is the smell of poop scaring away the babes cuz I think my manhood is big.Any guys need dating advice ?
two points woo hoo
hey i have chronic diarrhea so I always poop in my pants. Is the smell of poop scaring away the babes cuz I think my manhood is big.Any guys need dating advice ?
two points woo hoo
I need some dating advice?
I need some help, I've been on a bunch of dates, and I'm a shy guy. What are some ways that I can open up and talk to a girl on a date, what are some good ice breakers? That sort of thing, what kind of things do girls want to hear or talk about on dates. Thanks!I need some dating advice?
Girls like to express their feelings, so try less talking and listen. Girls don't like to have anything to do with nasty pranks such as ';armpit farting';. Be honest and open up to her when she wants your opiion on something or asks you if she looks OK? I, being a teenager, hate it when my bf akes me feel like I'm being lied to. On your next date, give her a box of chocolates and flowers to set a perfect conversation piece. And remember to always be respectful!I need some dating advice?
first off how is it that if you're such a shy guy you have a lot of dates? that has to be some type of oxymoran.
Talk about the first thing that comes to mind. Nothing innapproriate but a girl can honestly make a conversation on just about anyhting....seriously
I say talk a bit about yourself nothing so intimate that you'll scare yourself along with the girl but something light then see were it goes from there
Say she is beautiful... Say what you like seeing her. Eyes, hair etc. You should watch some romactic movies lol.
Girls like to express their feelings, so try less talking and listen. Girls don't like to have anything to do with nasty pranks such as ';armpit farting';. Be honest and open up to her when she wants your opiion on something or asks you if she looks OK? I, being a teenager, hate it when my bf akes me feel like I'm being lied to. On your next date, give her a box of chocolates and flowers to set a perfect conversation piece. And remember to always be respectful!I need some dating advice?
first off how is it that if you're such a shy guy you have a lot of dates? that has to be some type of oxymoran.
Talk about the first thing that comes to mind. Nothing innapproriate but a girl can honestly make a conversation on just about anyhting....seriously
I say talk a bit about yourself nothing so intimate that you'll scare yourself along with the girl but something light then see were it goes from there
Say she is beautiful... Say what you like seeing her. Eyes, hair etc. You should watch some romactic movies lol.
I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
I ideally want to tone up my tummy and hips and i dont realy know any good ways to do so in a reasonably short space of time, does anyone have and eating advice or little exercises i can do that actually work?!?! I also dont know what to wear, im a size 12-14, 5'7, dark hair, fairly broad, curvy sort of figure, but i dont want to look like ive tried too hard or like i havent made any effort. PLEASE HELP!!I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
As far as a diet goes I toned up big time and got muscular by jogging for 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes at night, i also did 100 situps a day and 50 pushups a day, i ate for breakfast a sunny side up egg %26amp; orange juice with rye bread, for lunch i ate carrots, celery and a rye sandwich for dinner i had an apple and campbells chicken noodle soup, everyday i wrote down in a journal what i ate and how many calories I took in so i would know how much excersize to do. there is 3500 calories in 1 lb so you have to know how much calories to take in a day and how much excersize to do.
as far as what you should wear goes, if you wanna look sexy and curvy and are worried about showing a little fat or something(not being mean) wear a flowy loose kinda shirt that can boost your cleavage up and a pair of tight jeans or skirt.I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
i am a cyclist, i suggest you ride a bike vigorously for up to one hour everyday. eat 5 small meals every 3 hours. your first two meals include all your grains and two fruits, for your last three meals include all your veggies. make sure to eat LEAN protein with every meal. it is also essential to drink a gallon of water a day! but most importantly be happy with yourself... and if you enjoy junk food allow yourself one day every two weeks to have it. that means twice a month you can eat whatever you want. hope that helps!
Always go overboard, especially if he is a really nice guy. He could be planning on a special dinner with you. Or you can try a cute dress and a sweater. Those are always great fashions for a first date. Or if he knows you very well, where something nice, but normal for you, like your best pair of jeans that show off your butt along with that cute punk shirt with a sports coat, and some Converse tennis shoes.
If you wear a skirt or dress, you'll look like you're trying too hard. Wear pants/shorts with a cute top and jewelry. Don't worry about the quick exercises. They won't make a difference in a short period of time. I'm sure you look fine anyway--he already asked you out, right? He must think you're attractive. Just be yourself. Not too much makeup. Make sure you smell good and have good breath.
okay first you kind of need to calm down things will work out if its a date hes into you. second wear something that looks nice or great but makes you feel comfortable something like a blue dress. and try not to be nervous maybe talk to a friend before he picks you up and let them calm you down or just listen to some soft music
If your personality is good he's probably not even going to worry about your physical appearence.
You should wear something tight or so.
As far as a diet goes I toned up big time and got muscular by jogging for 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes at night, i also did 100 situps a day and 50 pushups a day, i ate for breakfast a sunny side up egg %26amp; orange juice with rye bread, for lunch i ate carrots, celery and a rye sandwich for dinner i had an apple and campbells chicken noodle soup, everyday i wrote down in a journal what i ate and how many calories I took in so i would know how much excersize to do. there is 3500 calories in 1 lb so you have to know how much calories to take in a day and how much excersize to do.
as far as what you should wear goes, if you wanna look sexy and curvy and are worried about showing a little fat or something(not being mean) wear a flowy loose kinda shirt that can boost your cleavage up and a pair of tight jeans or skirt.I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
i am a cyclist, i suggest you ride a bike vigorously for up to one hour everyday. eat 5 small meals every 3 hours. your first two meals include all your grains and two fruits, for your last three meals include all your veggies. make sure to eat LEAN protein with every meal. it is also essential to drink a gallon of water a day! but most importantly be happy with yourself... and if you enjoy junk food allow yourself one day every two weeks to have it. that means twice a month you can eat whatever you want. hope that helps!
Always go overboard, especially if he is a really nice guy. He could be planning on a special dinner with you. Or you can try a cute dress and a sweater. Those are always great fashions for a first date. Or if he knows you very well, where something nice, but normal for you, like your best pair of jeans that show off your butt along with that cute punk shirt with a sports coat, and some Converse tennis shoes.
If you wear a skirt or dress, you'll look like you're trying too hard. Wear pants/shorts with a cute top and jewelry. Don't worry about the quick exercises. They won't make a difference in a short period of time. I'm sure you look fine anyway--he already asked you out, right? He must think you're attractive. Just be yourself. Not too much makeup. Make sure you smell good and have good breath.
okay first you kind of need to calm down things will work out if its a date hes into you. second wear something that looks nice or great but makes you feel comfortable something like a blue dress. and try not to be nervous maybe talk to a friend before he picks you up and let them calm you down or just listen to some soft music
If your personality is good he's probably not even going to worry about your physical appearence.
You should wear something tight or so.
I need some dating advice.....please help?
so monday is me and my gf 1 year anniversary. for it i was going to write her something romantic and special. but i dont know if it should be a poem, a song, a note, or something else. what would i write in it and how would i give it to her. please help.I need some dating advice.....please help?
i think u should rite a letter
and write how u feel
and talk 2 her abt it also
tell her how u feel abt her and make her feel special if thats wat u feel abt her
=]
and also get her a little gift with it
it doesnt have to be big...but if u want it to b big then go 4 it
goood luck
hope that halped
=]
%26lt;3I need some dating advice.....please help?
this is really cute you want to do this for her!
i think the most romantic thing a guy can do for a girl is write her a song and sing it to her. all you have to do is sing about why she is so special to you.
here are, in my opinion, some of the most romantic songs ever, study these:
i don't want to miss a thing - aerosmith
i'll be - edwin mccain
collide - howie day
when you look me in the eyes - jonas brothers
Well if your considering writing something then it means you have a talent and passion for writing. She will love a poem just write what's in your heart maybe sum up the past year you have been together and how you feel about the time you have spent together so far.
As far as giving it to her if your planning a special lunch or dinner date then give it to her during that time.
Get some card stock and make it a nice card.
I would write down everything you think of when you think of her even if it sounds stupid to you, it will be her favorite thing. Also maybe just take her out to spend time with her to dinner it doesn't have to be really expensive though. or you can fix dinner for her. Good Luck. IT all depends on what kind of people you are and how old you are too. If she is like my best friends then she is not thins hopeless romantic kind so then just ask her that you would like to do something special for her can she give you ideas. You also know her better then we do obviously so you'll think of something great for her.
well if you can sing good id say write her a song and sing it to her. but i think a simple note stating why you love her so much, and even write about the good time you have had with her.
take her to a nice restaurant they type where you have to dress up itll show that you want to do something special for her and show her how much your anniversary means to you.
heres a poem
Remember the first flush of love
that drew you powerfully together?
It still feeds the unassailable bond
that makes your marriage so secure.
Remember all the qualites about each other
you found so endearing?
They are still there,
and new ones create sweet surprises.
Remember thinking that this love
would last forever?
Your love has strengthened and grown
into eternal affection and admiration.
Years from now, you'll look back
at this anniversary
and realize you love each other
more than ever.
Happy Anniversary!
I think You should write everything you feel for her and have felt for her in the past year and everything you love about her and how you need her in your life. [Make sure it's all truthful] You Should then send your message to your local radio station and they'll read it to her. Or you could go crazy and write it in chalk outside on her driveway or a road she walks by and make sure she see's it[But use chalk!]
(: That'd be lovely.
My fianc茅 left notes all around the house (bathroom, bedroom, kitchen, hallway, etc.) describing all of our most precious moments. He didn't put them out in obvious places. He hid them like inside my laptop, so I'd see it when I opened it, and inside the medicine cabinet. It was really sweet. Then, when I made it to the kitchen, he had breakfast on the table complete with candles and roses. It was super sweet.
i would say write her a really sweet long letter. i know i would love that. and i would put in it why you like her, or love her. your favorite moments with her, all the good times you guys have had, adn what you want to do with her in the future. just tell her how much she means to you :)
a Diamond is a girl's best friend:-) If you can't afford that then a dozen red roses and a nice bottle of wine with a nice card stating you love her. Most of all give her the attention she needs and deserves for putting up with you for a year.. Kidding.. Good Luck Jd
Write something from your heart. What she means to you. How she has changed your life for the better. How she makes you feel. Once you write it, find someone that does calligraphy and have them copy it and present it to her in a special envelope.
Dude..don't ask for someone to give an idea, or it won't be your gift to her. it will be someone else's. you think of what you want to do, and what ever it is she will love it because it is from you.
Right her a poem! I am a sucker for poems! ha ha
Right stuff in it about her.. like how sweet she is and how every time you look at her your heart races...
Kiss her and hold her hands and while you are doing that slip it in her pocket or in her hand.
I think you should write something that has got to do with her, like how beautiful she is or her personality. you should not write it on anything and tell her by face so she will think it you meant it from the heart
if you can sing and play, write a song. it is so much more special than a note or poem.
I would write her a poem, something form your heart and lay it on a table and leave a path of rose pedals to your bed where there you are lying there.
Hope this helps
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If she likes to write herself you could get her a nice journal and write it inside of that.
write a poem telling about all your first kisses,hand-holding, and all that other first stuff.she would love it.
All your ideas are really sweet and like have a romantic dinner. And then in whatever you write tell her how you feel about her etc
i hope your getting her somthing nice to go along with the poem song or note boo
listen to ur heart
i think u should rite a letter
and write how u feel
and talk 2 her abt it also
tell her how u feel abt her and make her feel special if thats wat u feel abt her
=]
and also get her a little gift with it
it doesnt have to be big...but if u want it to b big then go 4 it
goood luck
hope that halped
=]
%26lt;3I need some dating advice.....please help?
this is really cute you want to do this for her!
i think the most romantic thing a guy can do for a girl is write her a song and sing it to her. all you have to do is sing about why she is so special to you.
here are, in my opinion, some of the most romantic songs ever, study these:
i don't want to miss a thing - aerosmith
i'll be - edwin mccain
collide - howie day
when you look me in the eyes - jonas brothers
Well if your considering writing something then it means you have a talent and passion for writing. She will love a poem just write what's in your heart maybe sum up the past year you have been together and how you feel about the time you have spent together so far.
As far as giving it to her if your planning a special lunch or dinner date then give it to her during that time.
Get some card stock and make it a nice card.
I would write down everything you think of when you think of her even if it sounds stupid to you, it will be her favorite thing. Also maybe just take her out to spend time with her to dinner it doesn't have to be really expensive though. or you can fix dinner for her. Good Luck. IT all depends on what kind of people you are and how old you are too. If she is like my best friends then she is not thins hopeless romantic kind so then just ask her that you would like to do something special for her can she give you ideas. You also know her better then we do obviously so you'll think of something great for her.
well if you can sing good id say write her a song and sing it to her. but i think a simple note stating why you love her so much, and even write about the good time you have had with her.
take her to a nice restaurant they type where you have to dress up itll show that you want to do something special for her and show her how much your anniversary means to you.
heres a poem
Remember the first flush of love
that drew you powerfully together?
It still feeds the unassailable bond
that makes your marriage so secure.
Remember all the qualites about each other
you found so endearing?
They are still there,
and new ones create sweet surprises.
Remember thinking that this love
would last forever?
Your love has strengthened and grown
into eternal affection and admiration.
Years from now, you'll look back
at this anniversary
and realize you love each other
more than ever.
Happy Anniversary!
I think You should write everything you feel for her and have felt for her in the past year and everything you love about her and how you need her in your life. [Make sure it's all truthful] You Should then send your message to your local radio station and they'll read it to her. Or you could go crazy and write it in chalk outside on her driveway or a road she walks by and make sure she see's it[But use chalk!]
(: That'd be lovely.
My fianc茅 left notes all around the house (bathroom, bedroom, kitchen, hallway, etc.) describing all of our most precious moments. He didn't put them out in obvious places. He hid them like inside my laptop, so I'd see it when I opened it, and inside the medicine cabinet. It was really sweet. Then, when I made it to the kitchen, he had breakfast on the table complete with candles and roses. It was super sweet.
i would say write her a really sweet long letter. i know i would love that. and i would put in it why you like her, or love her. your favorite moments with her, all the good times you guys have had, adn what you want to do with her in the future. just tell her how much she means to you :)
a Diamond is a girl's best friend:-) If you can't afford that then a dozen red roses and a nice bottle of wine with a nice card stating you love her. Most of all give her the attention she needs and deserves for putting up with you for a year.. Kidding.. Good Luck Jd
Write something from your heart. What she means to you. How she has changed your life for the better. How she makes you feel. Once you write it, find someone that does calligraphy and have them copy it and present it to her in a special envelope.
Dude..don't ask for someone to give an idea, or it won't be your gift to her. it will be someone else's. you think of what you want to do, and what ever it is she will love it because it is from you.
Right her a poem! I am a sucker for poems! ha ha
Right stuff in it about her.. like how sweet she is and how every time you look at her your heart races...
Kiss her and hold her hands and while you are doing that slip it in her pocket or in her hand.
I think you should write something that has got to do with her, like how beautiful she is or her personality. you should not write it on anything and tell her by face so she will think it you meant it from the heart
if you can sing and play, write a song. it is so much more special than a note or poem.
I would write her a poem, something form your heart and lay it on a table and leave a path of rose pedals to your bed where there you are lying there.
Hope this helps
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If she likes to write herself you could get her a nice journal and write it inside of that.
write a poem telling about all your first kisses,hand-holding, and all that other first stuff.she would love it.
All your ideas are really sweet and like have a romantic dinner. And then in whatever you write tell her how you feel about her etc
i hope your getting her somthing nice to go along with the poem song or note boo
listen to ur heart
I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
I ideally want to tone up my tummy and hips and i dont realy know any good ways to do so in a reasonably short space of time, does anyone have and eating advice or little exercises i can do that actually work?!?! I also dont know what to wear, im a size 12-14, 5'7, dark hair, fairly broad, curvy sort of figure, but i dont want to look like ive tried too hard or like i havent made any effort. PLEASE HELP!!I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
As far as a diet goes I toned up big time and got muscular by jogging for 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes at night, i also did 100 situps a day and 50 pushups a day, i ate for breakfast a sunny side up egg %26amp; orange juice with rye bread, for lunch i ate carrots, celery and a rye sandwich for dinner i had an apple and campbells chicken noodle soup, everyday i wrote down in a journal what i ate and how many calories I took in so i would know how much excersize to do. there is 3500 calories in 1 lb so you have to know how much calories to take in a day and how much excersize to do.
as far as what you should wear goes, if you wanna look sexy and curvy and are worried about showing a little fat or something(not being mean) wear a flowy loose kinda shirt that can boost your cleavage up and a pair of tight jeans or skirt.I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
i am a cyclist, i suggest you ride a bike vigorously for up to one hour everyday. eat 5 small meals every 3 hours. your first two meals include all your grains and two fruits, for your last three meals include all your veggies. make sure to eat LEAN protein with every meal. it is also essential to drink a gallon of water a day! but most importantly be happy with yourself... and if you enjoy junk food allow yourself one day every two weeks to have it. that means twice a month you can eat whatever you want. hope that helps!
Always go overboard, especially if he is a really nice guy. He could be planning on a special dinner with you. Or you can try a cute dress and a sweater. Those are always great fashions for a first date. Or if he knows you very well, where something nice, but normal for you, like your best pair of jeans that show off your butt along with that cute punk shirt with a sports coat, and some Converse tennis shoes.
If you wear a skirt or dress, you'll look like you're trying too hard. Wear pants/shorts with a cute top and jewelry. Don't worry about the quick exercises. They won't make a difference in a short period of time. I'm sure you look fine anyway--he already asked you out, right? He must think you're attractive. Just be yourself. Not too much makeup. Make sure you smell good and have good breath.
okay first you kind of need to calm down things will work out if its a date hes into you. second wear something that looks nice or great but makes you feel comfortable something like a blue dress. and try not to be nervous maybe talk to a friend before he picks you up and let them calm you down or just listen to some soft music
If your personality is good he's probably not even going to worry about your physical appearence.
You should wear something tight or so.
As far as a diet goes I toned up big time and got muscular by jogging for 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes at night, i also did 100 situps a day and 50 pushups a day, i ate for breakfast a sunny side up egg %26amp; orange juice with rye bread, for lunch i ate carrots, celery and a rye sandwich for dinner i had an apple and campbells chicken noodle soup, everyday i wrote down in a journal what i ate and how many calories I took in so i would know how much excersize to do. there is 3500 calories in 1 lb so you have to know how much calories to take in a day and how much excersize to do.
as far as what you should wear goes, if you wanna look sexy and curvy and are worried about showing a little fat or something(not being mean) wear a flowy loose kinda shirt that can boost your cleavage up and a pair of tight jeans or skirt.I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
i am a cyclist, i suggest you ride a bike vigorously for up to one hour everyday. eat 5 small meals every 3 hours. your first two meals include all your grains and two fruits, for your last three meals include all your veggies. make sure to eat LEAN protein with every meal. it is also essential to drink a gallon of water a day! but most importantly be happy with yourself... and if you enjoy junk food allow yourself one day every two weeks to have it. that means twice a month you can eat whatever you want. hope that helps!
Always go overboard, especially if he is a really nice guy. He could be planning on a special dinner with you. Or you can try a cute dress and a sweater. Those are always great fashions for a first date. Or if he knows you very well, where something nice, but normal for you, like your best pair of jeans that show off your butt along with that cute punk shirt with a sports coat, and some Converse tennis shoes.
If you wear a skirt or dress, you'll look like you're trying too hard. Wear pants/shorts with a cute top and jewelry. Don't worry about the quick exercises. They won't make a difference in a short period of time. I'm sure you look fine anyway--he already asked you out, right? He must think you're attractive. Just be yourself. Not too much makeup. Make sure you smell good and have good breath.
okay first you kind of need to calm down things will work out if its a date hes into you. second wear something that looks nice or great but makes you feel comfortable something like a blue dress. and try not to be nervous maybe talk to a friend before he picks you up and let them calm you down or just listen to some soft music
If your personality is good he's probably not even going to worry about your physical appearence.
You should wear something tight or so.
Dating advice ladies opinion ?
how do you like a guy to approach you if you happen to catch his eye do you like the players or the honest guys, the one who beats around the push or the straightforward approach Dating advice ladies opinion ?
Definitely honest guys. I prefer a unique smart guy who isn't afraid of being different and doesn't try to be cool around all his guy friends. And being straight forward is way better, but not too straight forward get what i mean?lipgloss
Definitely honest guys. I prefer a unique smart guy who isn't afraid of being different and doesn't try to be cool around all his guy friends. And being straight forward is way better, but not too straight forward get what i mean?
Dating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
Wouldn't bother me any. As long as I can visit your home and not see the place cluttered with his pictures and memories. Just be honest and disclose this when the time is right (like if he asks if you've ever been married) and certainly don't dwell in the past.
Besides, to me single means you are not currently attached. So saying ';single'; wouldn't be an outright lie.Dating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
yea sort ofDating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
I wouldn't be (that is, of course, if you didn't intentionally kill your husband). If you are going to have any lasting relationship, he'll find out anyway. You don't need to stress the fact that you are a widow. This may scare away some guys who might think that you are not over your husbands death. I think if someone asks you your marital status, saying widowed is perfectly fine. It says I once was married but my husband passed away. You don't need to give more details than that until he and you are both comfortable.
I would not be scared. The only concern would be if you were really ready to date. Its kind of like dating someone who has been seperated.
Besides, to me single means you are not currently attached. So saying ';single'; wouldn't be an outright lie.Dating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
yea sort ofDating advice - are guys scared when they hear a woman is a widow? Should I say single instead?
I wouldn't be (that is, of course, if you didn't intentionally kill your husband). If you are going to have any lasting relationship, he'll find out anyway. You don't need to stress the fact that you are a widow. This may scare away some guys who might think that you are not over your husbands death. I think if someone asks you your marital status, saying widowed is perfectly fine. It says I once was married but my husband passed away. You don't need to give more details than that until he and you are both comfortable.
I would not be scared. The only concern would be if you were really ready to date. Its kind of like dating someone who has been seperated.
Any guys need dating advice ?
i think i have the answer for you and it has something to do with smells!! just post me your question and i would be happy to help you wherever i can!!Any guys need dating advice ?
hey i have chronic diarrhea so I always poop in my pants. Is the smell of poop scaring away the babes cuz I think my manhood is big.Any guys need dating advice ?
two points woo hoo
hey i have chronic diarrhea so I always poop in my pants. Is the smell of poop scaring away the babes cuz I think my manhood is big.Any guys need dating advice ?
two points woo hoo
I need some dating advice?
I need some help, I've been on a bunch of dates, and I'm a shy guy. What are some ways that I can open up and talk to a girl on a date, what are some good ice breakers? That sort of thing, what kind of things do girls want to hear or talk about on dates. Thanks!I need some dating advice?
Girls like to express their feelings, so try less talking and listen. Girls don't like to have anything to do with nasty pranks such as ';armpit farting';. Be honest and open up to her when she wants your opiion on something or asks you if she looks OK? I, being a teenager, hate it when my bf akes me feel like I'm being lied to. On your next date, give her a box of chocolates and flowers to set a perfect conversation piece. And remember to always be respectful!I need some dating advice?
first off how is it that if you're such a shy guy you have a lot of dates? that has to be some type of oxymoran.
Talk about the first thing that comes to mind. Nothing innapproriate but a girl can honestly make a conversation on just about anyhting....seriously
I say talk a bit about yourself nothing so intimate that you'll scare yourself along with the girl but something light then see were it goes from there
Say she is beautiful... Say what you like seeing her. Eyes, hair etc. You should watch some romactic movies lol.
Girls like to express their feelings, so try less talking and listen. Girls don't like to have anything to do with nasty pranks such as ';armpit farting';. Be honest and open up to her when she wants your opiion on something or asks you if she looks OK? I, being a teenager, hate it when my bf akes me feel like I'm being lied to. On your next date, give her a box of chocolates and flowers to set a perfect conversation piece. And remember to always be respectful!I need some dating advice?
first off how is it that if you're such a shy guy you have a lot of dates? that has to be some type of oxymoran.
Talk about the first thing that comes to mind. Nothing innapproriate but a girl can honestly make a conversation on just about anyhting....seriously
I say talk a bit about yourself nothing so intimate that you'll scare yourself along with the girl but something light then see were it goes from there
Say she is beautiful... Say what you like seeing her. Eyes, hair etc. You should watch some romactic movies lol.
I need some dating advice.....please help?
so monday is me and my gf 1 year anniversary. for it i was going to write her something romantic and special. but i dont know if it should be a poem, a song, a note, or something else. what would i write in it and how would i give it to her. please help.I need some dating advice.....please help?
i think u should rite a letter
and write how u feel
and talk 2 her abt it also
tell her how u feel abt her and make her feel special if thats wat u feel abt her
=]
and also get her a little gift with it
it doesnt have to be big...but if u want it to b big then go 4 it
goood luck
hope that halped
=]
%26lt;3I need some dating advice.....please help?
this is really cute you want to do this for her!
i think the most romantic thing a guy can do for a girl is write her a song and sing it to her. all you have to do is sing about why she is so special to you.
here are, in my opinion, some of the most romantic songs ever, study these:
i don't want to miss a thing - aerosmith
i'll be - edwin mccain
collide - howie day
when you look me in the eyes - jonas brothers
Well if your considering writing something then it means you have a talent and passion for writing. She will love a poem just write what's in your heart maybe sum up the past year you have been together and how you feel about the time you have spent together so far.
As far as giving it to her if your planning a special lunch or dinner date then give it to her during that time.
Get some card stock and make it a nice card.
I would write down everything you think of when you think of her even if it sounds stupid to you, it will be her favorite thing. Also maybe just take her out to spend time with her to dinner it doesn't have to be really expensive though. or you can fix dinner for her. Good Luck. IT all depends on what kind of people you are and how old you are too. If she is like my best friends then she is not thins hopeless romantic kind so then just ask her that you would like to do something special for her can she give you ideas. You also know her better then we do obviously so you'll think of something great for her.
well if you can sing good id say write her a song and sing it to her. but i think a simple note stating why you love her so much, and even write about the good time you have had with her.
take her to a nice restaurant they type where you have to dress up itll show that you want to do something special for her and show her how much your anniversary means to you.
heres a poem
Remember the first flush of love
that drew you powerfully together?
It still feeds the unassailable bond
that makes your marriage so secure.
Remember all the qualites about each other
you found so endearing?
They are still there,
and new ones create sweet surprises.
Remember thinking that this love
would last forever?
Your love has strengthened and grown
into eternal affection and admiration.
Years from now, you'll look back
at this anniversary
and realize you love each other
more than ever.
Happy Anniversary!
I think You should write everything you feel for her and have felt for her in the past year and everything you love about her and how you need her in your life. [Make sure it's all truthful] You Should then send your message to your local radio station and they'll read it to her. Or you could go crazy and write it in chalk outside on her driveway or a road she walks by and make sure she see's it[But use chalk!]
(: That'd be lovely.
My fianc茅 left notes all around the house (bathroom, bedroom, kitchen, hallway, etc.) describing all of our most precious moments. He didn't put them out in obvious places. He hid them like inside my laptop, so I'd see it when I opened it, and inside the medicine cabinet. It was really sweet. Then, when I made it to the kitchen, he had breakfast on the table complete with candles and roses. It was super sweet.
i would say write her a really sweet long letter. i know i would love that. and i would put in it why you like her, or love her. your favorite moments with her, all the good times you guys have had, adn what you want to do with her in the future. just tell her how much she means to you :)
a Diamond is a girl's best friend:-) If you can't afford that then a dozen red roses and a nice bottle of wine with a nice card stating you love her. Most of all give her the attention she needs and deserves for putting up with you for a year.. Kidding.. Good Luck Jd
Write something from your heart. What she means to you. How she has changed your life for the better. How she makes you feel. Once you write it, find someone that does calligraphy and have them copy it and present it to her in a special envelope.
Dude..don't ask for someone to give an idea, or it won't be your gift to her. it will be someone else's. you think of what you want to do, and what ever it is she will love it because it is from you.
Right her a poem! I am a sucker for poems! ha ha
Right stuff in it about her.. like how sweet she is and how every time you look at her your heart races...
Kiss her and hold her hands and while you are doing that slip it in her pocket or in her hand.
I think you should write something that has got to do with her, like how beautiful she is or her personality. you should not write it on anything and tell her by face so she will think it you meant it from the heart
if you can sing and play, write a song. it is so much more special than a note or poem.
I would write her a poem, something form your heart and lay it on a table and leave a path of rose pedals to your bed where there you are lying there.
Hope this helps
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If she likes to write herself you could get her a nice journal and write it inside of that.
write a poem telling about all your first kisses,hand-holding, and all that other first stuff.she would love it.
All your ideas are really sweet and like have a romantic dinner. And then in whatever you write tell her how you feel about her etc
i hope your getting her somthing nice to go along with the poem song or note boo
listen to ur heart
i think u should rite a letter
and write how u feel
and talk 2 her abt it also
tell her how u feel abt her and make her feel special if thats wat u feel abt her
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and also get her a little gift with it
it doesnt have to be big...but if u want it to b big then go 4 it
goood luck
hope that halped
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%26lt;3I need some dating advice.....please help?
this is really cute you want to do this for her!
i think the most romantic thing a guy can do for a girl is write her a song and sing it to her. all you have to do is sing about why she is so special to you.
here are, in my opinion, some of the most romantic songs ever, study these:
i don't want to miss a thing - aerosmith
i'll be - edwin mccain
collide - howie day
when you look me in the eyes - jonas brothers
Well if your considering writing something then it means you have a talent and passion for writing. She will love a poem just write what's in your heart maybe sum up the past year you have been together and how you feel about the time you have spent together so far.
As far as giving it to her if your planning a special lunch or dinner date then give it to her during that time.
Get some card stock and make it a nice card.
I would write down everything you think of when you think of her even if it sounds stupid to you, it will be her favorite thing. Also maybe just take her out to spend time with her to dinner it doesn't have to be really expensive though. or you can fix dinner for her. Good Luck. IT all depends on what kind of people you are and how old you are too. If she is like my best friends then she is not thins hopeless romantic kind so then just ask her that you would like to do something special for her can she give you ideas. You also know her better then we do obviously so you'll think of something great for her.
well if you can sing good id say write her a song and sing it to her. but i think a simple note stating why you love her so much, and even write about the good time you have had with her.
take her to a nice restaurant they type where you have to dress up itll show that you want to do something special for her and show her how much your anniversary means to you.
heres a poem
Remember the first flush of love
that drew you powerfully together?
It still feeds the unassailable bond
that makes your marriage so secure.
Remember all the qualites about each other
you found so endearing?
They are still there,
and new ones create sweet surprises.
Remember thinking that this love
would last forever?
Your love has strengthened and grown
into eternal affection and admiration.
Years from now, you'll look back
at this anniversary
and realize you love each other
more than ever.
Happy Anniversary!
I think You should write everything you feel for her and have felt for her in the past year and everything you love about her and how you need her in your life. [Make sure it's all truthful] You Should then send your message to your local radio station and they'll read it to her. Or you could go crazy and write it in chalk outside on her driveway or a road she walks by and make sure she see's it[But use chalk!]
(: That'd be lovely.
My fianc茅 left notes all around the house (bathroom, bedroom, kitchen, hallway, etc.) describing all of our most precious moments. He didn't put them out in obvious places. He hid them like inside my laptop, so I'd see it when I opened it, and inside the medicine cabinet. It was really sweet. Then, when I made it to the kitchen, he had breakfast on the table complete with candles and roses. It was super sweet.
i would say write her a really sweet long letter. i know i would love that. and i would put in it why you like her, or love her. your favorite moments with her, all the good times you guys have had, adn what you want to do with her in the future. just tell her how much she means to you :)
a Diamond is a girl's best friend:-) If you can't afford that then a dozen red roses and a nice bottle of wine with a nice card stating you love her. Most of all give her the attention she needs and deserves for putting up with you for a year.. Kidding.. Good Luck Jd
Write something from your heart. What she means to you. How she has changed your life for the better. How she makes you feel. Once you write it, find someone that does calligraphy and have them copy it and present it to her in a special envelope.
Dude..don't ask for someone to give an idea, or it won't be your gift to her. it will be someone else's. you think of what you want to do, and what ever it is she will love it because it is from you.
Right her a poem! I am a sucker for poems! ha ha
Right stuff in it about her.. like how sweet she is and how every time you look at her your heart races...
Kiss her and hold her hands and while you are doing that slip it in her pocket or in her hand.
I think you should write something that has got to do with her, like how beautiful she is or her personality. you should not write it on anything and tell her by face so she will think it you meant it from the heart
if you can sing and play, write a song. it is so much more special than a note or poem.
I would write her a poem, something form your heart and lay it on a table and leave a path of rose pedals to your bed where there you are lying there.
Hope this helps
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If she likes to write herself you could get her a nice journal and write it inside of that.
write a poem telling about all your first kisses,hand-holding, and all that other first stuff.she would love it.
All your ideas are really sweet and like have a romantic dinner. And then in whatever you write tell her how you feel about her etc
i hope your getting her somthing nice to go along with the poem song or note boo
listen to ur heart
Went on one date with a woman, now she's coming off super strong. Advice?
I'm 28, and I was introduced to a 25-year-old woman via text last Wednesday (through a new friend). In the days following, we texted back and forth and decided to meet up on Saturday for dinner/drinks. We could get to know each other and all that ... fun! Turns out my brother and sister and their dates were at the bar on a double-date, so we all hung out. My date and I hit it off, and we wound up kissing before the date was over. Cool, right?
Okay, the morning after the date she sends me a photo of the breakfast she made (she likes to cook), and texts, ';Wish you were here.'; Later in the day, she texts ';Had a great time! Can't wait to meet the rest of your family!'; I thought: Kind of soon after one date, meeting the folks and all, but whatever. The next few days, she texts me every time she wakes up, asks if I'm going to call her (';I get off work at 1 p.m., will you call me?';), etc. And I'm thinking ... I like you, and I can tell you really like me, but I don't want to feel like I HAVE to call you; like it's a task. Kinda heavy. Again, I keep it to myself.
The other night we're chatting and finally I tell her I don't want to rush into things. I just want to get to know her, relax, no pressure. I'm not dating anyone else, just saying I want to go slow. She said there is some pressure because ';we're not really dating anymore.'; She followed that up by saying she knows what she wants in life, she doesn't want to just date anymore and she wants four kids (not saying with me, but stating). Wow, that scared me. It's been ONE date!
So we're meeting up this weekend because I promised her early in the week I would (and I don't want to be a jerk and not go). Her friends and their dates will be there....drinks at her place, then a movie. She told me the other day (didn't ask me) that I was going to spend the night and then drive home after, because she lives 30 minutes away from me. And I was like, um, no ... I have plans on Sunday (and don't you remember my ';take it slow'; comment 10 minutes ago?). So, well, now I'm not too excited about Saturday anymore. I'm definitely getting the pushy, rush, rush, rush vibe from her ... and I had no idea who she was a week ago! I love the idea of settling down, falling in love and all ... but over time. Not 1-2-3 we're a serious item.
Is it me? I always over-think things, but this seems pretty obvious. She may be SUPER excited, and I know she likes me a lot, which is great, but still ... slow down, right? What's the rush? Why can't we hang out and just get to know each other? Just .... date. Baby steps and all that. I don't want to start picking out His and Her towels, lol.
What do you think ... is she just super excited or a little nutty? And what should I do on Saturday? I was just going to be myself, try and have fun, still be flirty so it's not crazy awkward and just keep an eye on how she acts.
Thanks!Went on one date with a woman, now she's coming off super strong. Advice?
sounds like she is super desperate.Went on one date with a woman, now she's coming off super strong. Advice?
Personally I dont think I would go Saturday. This girl sounds creepy and stalker-like. If you get in too deep you might never be able to get away. I mean one date and she is chasing you already. I think i would stay far and clear of this one. Its not like you didnt tell her you wanted to take things slow and now she is telling you to spend the night. She just doesnt get it and is set on one track so run from this one.
Desperation should not disqualify people answerer number one, get off your high horse!
Tell this woman that it is too soon to rush into things, and she is 25 so she is still quite young. Tell her that you both need more time together, but not too much, to get to know each other. You can't break up, you can't be together every hour of every day, neither of those things will work. You need to take it easy; that is the best way to get to know someone.
Okay, the morning after the date she sends me a photo of the breakfast she made (she likes to cook), and texts, ';Wish you were here.'; Later in the day, she texts ';Had a great time! Can't wait to meet the rest of your family!'; I thought: Kind of soon after one date, meeting the folks and all, but whatever. The next few days, she texts me every time she wakes up, asks if I'm going to call her (';I get off work at 1 p.m., will you call me?';), etc. And I'm thinking ... I like you, and I can tell you really like me, but I don't want to feel like I HAVE to call you; like it's a task. Kinda heavy. Again, I keep it to myself.
The other night we're chatting and finally I tell her I don't want to rush into things. I just want to get to know her, relax, no pressure. I'm not dating anyone else, just saying I want to go slow. She said there is some pressure because ';we're not really dating anymore.'; She followed that up by saying she knows what she wants in life, she doesn't want to just date anymore and she wants four kids (not saying with me, but stating). Wow, that scared me. It's been ONE date!
So we're meeting up this weekend because I promised her early in the week I would (and I don't want to be a jerk and not go). Her friends and their dates will be there....drinks at her place, then a movie. She told me the other day (didn't ask me) that I was going to spend the night and then drive home after, because she lives 30 minutes away from me. And I was like, um, no ... I have plans on Sunday (and don't you remember my ';take it slow'; comment 10 minutes ago?). So, well, now I'm not too excited about Saturday anymore. I'm definitely getting the pushy, rush, rush, rush vibe from her ... and I had no idea who she was a week ago! I love the idea of settling down, falling in love and all ... but over time. Not 1-2-3 we're a serious item.
Is it me? I always over-think things, but this seems pretty obvious. She may be SUPER excited, and I know she likes me a lot, which is great, but still ... slow down, right? What's the rush? Why can't we hang out and just get to know each other? Just .... date. Baby steps and all that. I don't want to start picking out His and Her towels, lol.
What do you think ... is she just super excited or a little nutty? And what should I do on Saturday? I was just going to be myself, try and have fun, still be flirty so it's not crazy awkward and just keep an eye on how she acts.
Thanks!Went on one date with a woman, now she's coming off super strong. Advice?
sounds like she is super desperate.Went on one date with a woman, now she's coming off super strong. Advice?
Personally I dont think I would go Saturday. This girl sounds creepy and stalker-like. If you get in too deep you might never be able to get away. I mean one date and she is chasing you already. I think i would stay far and clear of this one. Its not like you didnt tell her you wanted to take things slow and now she is telling you to spend the night. She just doesnt get it and is set on one track so run from this one.
Desperation should not disqualify people answerer number one, get off your high horse!
Tell this woman that it is too soon to rush into things, and she is 25 so she is still quite young. Tell her that you both need more time together, but not too much, to get to know each other. You can't break up, you can't be together every hour of every day, neither of those things will work. You need to take it easy; that is the best way to get to know someone.
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i need to know a good gift for a guy (24 years old)!, not really dating but still im stuck lolDoes anybody need dating advice ask me I'm good with that?
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