I think that it was very simple. It was more of hanging out. I went over to her house, and we watched a movie in her basement, and KINDA snuggled, there was SOME touching, she was leaning on me, and briefly rested her head on my shoulder... its winter and im 14, so hey... thats the best we could do. Anyway, i really need help. it was akward, we just followed eachother around her house the first ten minutes of the 2 hour event. What should we do for the next date? I REALLY like her and she feels the same way... but shes very busy. I had to leave in two hours because she had like a lot of stuff to do, but she said she'd call when she gets back (she guessed it would be pretty late, like late in the evening).... but didnt call back that day. Was it something i did? Please give me some good tips and ill give you best answer?!!Did my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
Take a deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep breathe.
Your date went fine!
It was cute and nice and stilll innocent.
Don't worry about her calling you back.
1. She's busy.
2. Some girls like to wait a little before calling back.
What about next time you take her out to the movies?
Good Luck.Did my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
She'll call you back, don't worry! Like you said she's busy and when she got home she was probably tired and didn't have time to call you. So just sit back, relax, and everything will be ok
Dude it sounds like she likes you, no one would snuggle with someone they don't like. But don't follow her around that might weird her out you know, unless she likes needy people? But she was probably tired or maybe shes not a phone person thats why she didn't call. Talking on the phone is kind of akward for some people! Don't take it personally i dont even like to talk on the phone with some of my best friends but i'm sure shes into you so you should text her or email her! but only once you don't want to be desperate!
It sounds like it went well. How long ago was this? Do you see her at school? Can you call her? Not a lot of girls do the calling afterwards, even though she said she would.
She might be freaking out that you haven't called her!
This is her....talking to her friends.....
';Oh my GOD, he hasn't called me! Why not? Did I say something stupid? He doesn't like me? Sure I said I'd call him, but I shouldn't have to do that! He should have known that I meant HE should call me. OH MY GOD!! Why hasn't he called me? Don't boys know anything?@?!!?
Her friends...
';Boys are STUPID! They're idiots! Loser.....';
The good thing is...when you call her.... You'll be the BEST guy ever!
Where did she go? Out of town? Maybe she's still gone.
If it's been more than 3-4 days, call her. Can you leave a card/note at her house? Maybe a quick ';Been thinking about you, had a great time the other night. Let's get together again soon. I'll call you.'; Then call her.
You certainly haven't been pushy if you've waited this long, so just call her. That is the polite thing to do after a date - - - you should always call.
Take it easy kid. I think the date went find if she kind of snuggled with you and watched the movie. Like you said you are only 14 take it slow. It is cool that you could hang out with her for 2 hours. That should be enough at first. You don't want her to get uncomfortable around you because you all hang out all the time. She is cool and you will get to know her better in the long run. Try to see her like once a week at least and watch a movie go for a burger or something. Get to know her better and get to her HEART by taking interest in her and her hobbies. Girls love it when a guy makes time for their interests and makes her feel special. Take it from someone who knows. Remember you are the LIMITED COMMODITY ON THE EXCHANGE OF LOVE!!! NOT HER !!! If you take your time she will fall right into your hands. GOOD LUCK !!!!
there are3 things that could have happened here:
1.) she forgot
2.) she ';forgot'; as in just wasn't that into you but didn't want to hurt your feelings.
3.) she was tied up in something like practice, was really tired when she got home, or got her phone taken away, etc.
i think no. 2 is the least likely, because you said you guys ';snuggled'; and personally, i wouldn't have done that if i wasn't into someone. i wouldn't be to worried.
you should've kissed her man
Instead of sitting around wondering and worrying if you did something wrong, just pick up the phone and call her. Ask her if she wants to hang out again. If she says 'yeah' then you're cool.
Sounds fine to me. You know it was probably just as akward for her too, but next time do something you both enjoy, if not another movie, really try to get to know each other and it will get easier. She probably felt as though it was too late to call you and that why she didn't. Don't take it too personally. Have fun and don't rush things. Love takes time. Thats the best advice I have.
dude ur first date went great and im sure the only reason she didnt call was cuz she was busy u didnt do anything wrongg..but good luck =)
It sounds like a great first date. They get less awkward...I promise. Just think about this...she is probably feeling the same way that you are. Let her know that you thought it was a great time.
like u said..
she's busy
lol
dw she will call soon
=)
GoodLuck!
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Advice Please. My recent ex is trying to hangout/date a ';friend';?
Me and this guy dated for around 9 months. We started having problems and i was losing feelings for him. I broke up with him and it's been about a month. Well i recently found out that he is trying to get with one of my so called ';friends'; and it hurts more than anything.(We are not good friends, but we do hangout occationally) I can't stand to know that he is with someone else when i have no one. We talked last night and i just don't want to date him, in our previous relationship he tried to control my life and i just can't do that. Now i feel like if they start dating then she will feel like she is superior to me, and that drives me insane!
Any advice on what i should do and how i can prevent feeling like this?Advice Please. My recent ex is trying to hangout/date a ';friend';?
My mom always calls this ';Dirty Pool';. You have to get rid of both of them now.
As far as your feelings. That's another ';hate to tell you, but'; Yeah sorry sister. Your gonna burn on this one for awhile.
In about 2 months though you'll hardly feel a thing and you'll have learned a great lesson. You learn what to look out for with each love that crashes.Advice Please. My recent ex is trying to hangout/date a ';friend';?
He's the controlling one?
if you aren't ready, then say so.
i'm not ready to be friends yet.
Any advice on what i should do and how i can prevent feeling like this?Advice Please. My recent ex is trying to hangout/date a ';friend';?
My mom always calls this ';Dirty Pool';. You have to get rid of both of them now.
As far as your feelings. That's another ';hate to tell you, but'; Yeah sorry sister. Your gonna burn on this one for awhile.
In about 2 months though you'll hardly feel a thing and you'll have learned a great lesson. You learn what to look out for with each love that crashes.Advice Please. My recent ex is trying to hangout/date a ';friend';?
He's the controlling one?
if you aren't ready, then say so.
i'm not ready to be friends yet.
I haven't been on a date in like a kajillion years...so now it's time.any advice for this recovering househag?
No, don't listen to that poor advice from Bella, then you will continue to not get dates. Put on a short skirt and high heals everywhere you go.
Make the first move. Guys don't like ambiguity. Some are just chicken, but they might still be ok. Some just might be thinking of cars or motorcycles and need you to capture their attention.
Work the sashey. Hang out where real single men go, like autoparts stores, car shows, hardware stores, supermarkets, laundrymats, etc.
Only single men are in laundrymats and supermarkets.
Hey, ';the internet is stupid';, the girl is trying to get a date after a kajillion years. Last I checked, once a girl hits 40 years, she's pretty much gettin' a little shrivelly. Guys tend to avoid shrivelly. However, they can look beyond a few years and a few pounds if they can get their laundry and food done. The message here is, the nastier you get on the outside, the nicer you have to get on the inside. For guys, it is similar, but a little different. The older and nastier we get, the nicer we have to be and the more money we need to make. I didn't make the rules. It's just the way it goes.
Anyone who believes something else will be lonely or a freak of nature.I haven't been on a date in like a kajillion years...so now it's time.any advice for this recovering househag?
Treat yourself to a make-up and hair session at a good salon or spa. Go to some dept. stores and see what's on the mannequins. Don't be afraid to try on something very different from what you usually wear. This is going to be a new you.
Now, go to places where men go. Investment meetings and classes, join a ski club, or take a course in wine tasting. Volunteer for Habitat for Humanity and make new friends. You never know who will introduce you to someone. And tell your friends that you are looking. Maybe they know someone perfect for you.I haven't been on a date in like a kajillion years...so now it's time.any advice for this recovering househag?
';Only single men are in laundrymats and supermarkets';
Don't date a guy who thinks once he marries you, that you will do all his laundry and shopping for him.
have fun...relax..be yourself. and don't hunt. you let them do the hunting!
oh...and read He's Just Not That Into You. it helps to spot the idiots and let them go immediately. why waste another minute on a jerk?
Make the first move. Guys don't like ambiguity. Some are just chicken, but they might still be ok. Some just might be thinking of cars or motorcycles and need you to capture their attention.
Work the sashey. Hang out where real single men go, like autoparts stores, car shows, hardware stores, supermarkets, laundrymats, etc.
Only single men are in laundrymats and supermarkets.
Hey, ';the internet is stupid';, the girl is trying to get a date after a kajillion years. Last I checked, once a girl hits 40 years, she's pretty much gettin' a little shrivelly. Guys tend to avoid shrivelly. However, they can look beyond a few years and a few pounds if they can get their laundry and food done. The message here is, the nastier you get on the outside, the nicer you have to get on the inside. For guys, it is similar, but a little different. The older and nastier we get, the nicer we have to be and the more money we need to make. I didn't make the rules. It's just the way it goes.
Anyone who believes something else will be lonely or a freak of nature.I haven't been on a date in like a kajillion years...so now it's time.any advice for this recovering househag?
Treat yourself to a make-up and hair session at a good salon or spa. Go to some dept. stores and see what's on the mannequins. Don't be afraid to try on something very different from what you usually wear. This is going to be a new you.
Now, go to places where men go. Investment meetings and classes, join a ski club, or take a course in wine tasting. Volunteer for Habitat for Humanity and make new friends. You never know who will introduce you to someone. And tell your friends that you are looking. Maybe they know someone perfect for you.I haven't been on a date in like a kajillion years...so now it's time.any advice for this recovering househag?
';Only single men are in laundrymats and supermarkets';
Don't date a guy who thinks once he marries you, that you will do all his laundry and shopping for him.
have fun...relax..be yourself. and don't hunt. you let them do the hunting!
oh...and read He's Just Not That Into You. it helps to spot the idiots and let them go immediately. why waste another minute on a jerk?
Best friend鈥檚 due date is in December. She lives on other coast. Advice on booking flights?
That's the scenario. The challenge is that the actual date of the birth is a big unknown. As everybody knows, the baby can come early; the baby can come late. It seems like booking flights at the last-minute would be extremely expensive. Plus, being around the holidays, flights might not even be available if we wait too long to book. On the other hand, how can we book early? It's also expensive to change a ticket at the last minute.
Anybody have any advice? I'm sure others have been in the same situation. How did you handle this?Best friend鈥檚 due date is in December. She lives on other coast. Advice on booking flights?
Try to come a few days before the due date or a week or two. Depends on how long you can take off from work or whatever.Best friend鈥檚 due date is in December. She lives on other coast. Advice on booking flights?
Quite honestly, the last thing I wanted after I gave birth was visitors. Give her some time to get into a routine with her baby and then see if she even wants you to visit.
If you have to be there to look after other children well then I would book 1 week a head. Other wise if you are going to enjoy the thrill of the new baby with your friend then I would only book a day or 2 before the due date. They are quite good at picking the date with in a day or 2 these days unless the un expected happens. Or you have the choice to book a couple of days after the due date maybe a week even, that gives the dad and mother time to bond with baby and it will be a great pleasure for her to be waiting the day you arrive to show off baby. The mother will be feeling a lot less stress if you wait and it happens to be a week or so later and she will have time to get into her routine.
Anybody have any advice? I'm sure others have been in the same situation. How did you handle this?Best friend鈥檚 due date is in December. She lives on other coast. Advice on booking flights?
Try to come a few days before the due date or a week or two. Depends on how long you can take off from work or whatever.Best friend鈥檚 due date is in December. She lives on other coast. Advice on booking flights?
Quite honestly, the last thing I wanted after I gave birth was visitors. Give her some time to get into a routine with her baby and then see if she even wants you to visit.
If you have to be there to look after other children well then I would book 1 week a head. Other wise if you are going to enjoy the thrill of the new baby with your friend then I would only book a day or 2 before the due date. They are quite good at picking the date with in a day or 2 these days unless the un expected happens. Or you have the choice to book a couple of days after the due date maybe a week even, that gives the dad and mother time to bond with baby and it will be a great pleasure for her to be waiting the day you arrive to show off baby. The mother will be feeling a lot less stress if you wait and it happens to be a week or so later and she will have time to get into her routine.
Advice on what to wear for a HUGE first date?
I'm 24, a middle school teacher, and single. I have been hoping this guy I REALLY like would ask me out forever. Well he finally did. We are going out this weekend to a reasonably nice restaurant his older brother owns. I am scared to death about how to dress. I need to look sexy (rumor has it is the reason he was slow to ask me out is he pictures teachers as frumpy) but I don't want to look slutty.
Im brunette, thin, reasonably big boobed, and have a nice ***....but not very tall (my legs arent great). My general rule is if you show off one thing nicely thats a good thing, but two makes you look slutty. So here is my question, for a first date should I wear:
1) a dress that shows off the cha-chas, but is conservative below the boobs
or
2) wear a conservative top with slacks that show off my butt in a major way?Advice on what to wear for a HUGE first date?
Go with the boobs. First date-- boobs. Next date, the butt. And you're correct, one can be classy (CAN BE), and two is always trashy. And wear some heels. If you're not sure exactly the dress code of the restaurant, just swing by there sometime and have a look at how those dining are dressed. Go with something figure flattering. Yes, be more conservative below the boobs (and don't show too much of them, be classy...) but I would still go with semi-form fitting clothing at least on top. The bottom, either something like a pencil skirt? (But goes below knees). Or dress pants that flow away from your hip and leg.
Good luck! ;)
Edit: whoops, I missed how you had a dress picked out, haha. Yeah, I would go with the dress for this one. But remember the stilettos! ;)Advice on what to wear for a HUGE first date?
Better to go a little more conservative than a little too slutty. And anyways if he likes you, it won't matter what you're wearing, unless it's like a potato sack because if all he likes or doesn't like you for is based on your clothes or features and not actually you, then you deserve a better guy.
p.s. even the sack might still work if he's not too scared by it, just trying to make the point
nice jeans with heels that make your butt look good and a semi-fancy shirt that is pretty low cut.
if you don't have good legs don't wear something that shows your legs!! and don't worry about looking 'slutty' just worry about looking tacky. make sure your clothes don't make you look cheap you knowwwww? like expensive looking stuff.
For God's sake, don't dress in anything that looks like a hooker- or a tube top! ( how I despise those things- they are so horrid)
Yes, if you got 'em- flaunt 'em...the boobs. There are nice classic things out there yet show just enough cleavage!!!!!!!!
Keep it classic.
good luck.
1. If you are at dinner, he will be seeing your boobs, not you butt.
if it's a first date the guy will be look at your boobs you need to show off your boobs.
Wear what you want he should like you for who you are :)
%26lt;3 Nicole
dont wear anythin:) hell enjoy that
I would go with the dress
First let me say congratulations on your upcoming date, you must be so excited! Secondly, I would like to say the most important thing when going on a date is that you feel confident in whatever you're wearing. Don't worry too much about what he'll think, but I think you're right in not wanting to show too much off (a little modesty goes a long way). I think either choice would be fine. I tend to wear dresses quite often, but I'm comfortable in them. How conservative is the top? A little cleavage would probably be nice. I'm going to say go with the dress :) In any case make sure to pick something YOU feel hot and confident in, and that will shine through no matter what. I hope you have a fabulous time!
have you ever considered that this guy might actually want to get to know you better as a person? guys have very vivid and active imaginations.. if they are attracted to you you could wear a sack and they would still be able to visualise whats under it.
so heres the thing, be yourself, dress femininely but dont show cleavage or a whole lot of leg.... wear something that skims your shape all over but isnt tight or short or plunging....
i suppose it depends on what you want too. if you just want a fling then show off anything you like. if you want to go slowly and find out about him too, then dress like a lady. sexy isnt revealing its who you are.
Im brunette, thin, reasonably big boobed, and have a nice ***....but not very tall (my legs arent great). My general rule is if you show off one thing nicely thats a good thing, but two makes you look slutty. So here is my question, for a first date should I wear:
1) a dress that shows off the cha-chas, but is conservative below the boobs
or
2) wear a conservative top with slacks that show off my butt in a major way?Advice on what to wear for a HUGE first date?
Go with the boobs. First date-- boobs. Next date, the butt. And you're correct, one can be classy (CAN BE), and two is always trashy. And wear some heels. If you're not sure exactly the dress code of the restaurant, just swing by there sometime and have a look at how those dining are dressed. Go with something figure flattering. Yes, be more conservative below the boobs (and don't show too much of them, be classy...) but I would still go with semi-form fitting clothing at least on top. The bottom, either something like a pencil skirt? (But goes below knees). Or dress pants that flow away from your hip and leg.
Good luck! ;)
Edit: whoops, I missed how you had a dress picked out, haha. Yeah, I would go with the dress for this one. But remember the stilettos! ;)Advice on what to wear for a HUGE first date?
Better to go a little more conservative than a little too slutty. And anyways if he likes you, it won't matter what you're wearing, unless it's like a potato sack because if all he likes or doesn't like you for is based on your clothes or features and not actually you, then you deserve a better guy.
p.s. even the sack might still work if he's not too scared by it, just trying to make the point
nice jeans with heels that make your butt look good and a semi-fancy shirt that is pretty low cut.
if you don't have good legs don't wear something that shows your legs!! and don't worry about looking 'slutty' just worry about looking tacky. make sure your clothes don't make you look cheap you knowwwww? like expensive looking stuff.
For God's sake, don't dress in anything that looks like a hooker- or a tube top! ( how I despise those things- they are so horrid)
Yes, if you got 'em- flaunt 'em...the boobs. There are nice classic things out there yet show just enough cleavage!!!!!!!!
Keep it classic.
good luck.
1. If you are at dinner, he will be seeing your boobs, not you butt.
if it's a first date the guy will be look at your boobs you need to show off your boobs.
Wear what you want he should like you for who you are :)
%26lt;3 Nicole
dont wear anythin:) hell enjoy that
I would go with the dress
First let me say congratulations on your upcoming date, you must be so excited! Secondly, I would like to say the most important thing when going on a date is that you feel confident in whatever you're wearing. Don't worry too much about what he'll think, but I think you're right in not wanting to show too much off (a little modesty goes a long way). I think either choice would be fine. I tend to wear dresses quite often, but I'm comfortable in them. How conservative is the top? A little cleavage would probably be nice. I'm going to say go with the dress :) In any case make sure to pick something YOU feel hot and confident in, and that will shine through no matter what. I hope you have a fabulous time!
have you ever considered that this guy might actually want to get to know you better as a person? guys have very vivid and active imaginations.. if they are attracted to you you could wear a sack and they would still be able to visualise whats under it.
so heres the thing, be yourself, dress femininely but dont show cleavage or a whole lot of leg.... wear something that skims your shape all over but isnt tight or short or plunging....
i suppose it depends on what you want too. if you just want a fling then show off anything you like. if you want to go slowly and find out about him too, then dress like a lady. sexy isnt revealing its who you are.
I am going on a date tomorow night and i relly like this girl what advice can you give me?
No anal on the first date!I am going on a date tomorow night and i relly like this girl what advice can you give me?
Don't say anything shovenistic or stupid. Bring her one flower (like a rose or a tulip etc.) not a whole dozen. I think one is sweeter. Also, notice something about her like the way she did her hair, her eyeshadow, her shoes, or even the way she has painted her nails. Girls don't expect guys to notice little things that they spend so much time on, so if you compliment her on it, she will see that you are someone who is different and who will treat her special.I am going on a date tomorow night and i relly like this girl what advice can you give me?
DO NOT drug her and sodomize her. that's totally tacky.
Be yourself and have a good time.
keep it real and try to be very nice and sweet to her and also please don't forget to be a gentlemen
BE YOURSELF...and don't forget the breath mints...hahahaha
pack serious heat.
what ever you do. don't act too shy! It is unattractive because if the girl feels she always has to make the moves then it's awkward. Then again don't come on too strong either that might push her away a little.... just act like yourself, ask about some info on her but don't be too nosey and try not to have that awkward silence, if you have to.. say something totally random and show your sense of humor.. it will spark up the convo again and keep her interested and also make her feel comfortable knowing that you two can talk about anything and everything and it be totally cool... no matter how weird it seems to someone else... If you both are interested don't hold back and don't keep each other guessing or leading one another on...be truthful and if it doesn't work out then.. you can atleast say... hey i gave it my best shot.. and you two could possibly be really good friends
Hope that helped! :)
Just relax and don't put a lot of pressure or expectations on the date. If you put too much weight on the results you will mess it up.
Ask her a lot of question about her and her life try to get to know her, make good eye contact and keep the converstation going, you know how we love to talk! Also letting her know how beautiful she looks is always a plus, but dont over do it that can cross into the creepy department. Also pay for dinner open doors for her even the car door and kiss her goodnight. All winners in my book!
on personal matters like this... never, ever take advice form anyone. That is my advice.
be true to you !! =)
be nice!
Do something that allows you to talk to each other and get to know each other well. Talk about her, not yourself the whole time
Be polite, open doors for her
Pay for dinner
Don't bring up sore subjects
Don't let your passion run away with you at the end of the night. If you believe the time is right, give her one kiss.
Don't talk about your ex gf's.
breathe. but remember that 90 percent of nevousness doesn't show. the 10 percent is barely noticable. and because you are nevous means you care so why should you worry
b urself
Ask her about herself, talk about yourself. compliment what shes wearing and call her 'beautiful'. good luck :)
if she is going on a date with you that means she kind of likes you so just be yourself and if she likes that she will fall in love with who you are not what you have!
you need to brush up on your spelling and grammar. Anyways, be yourself. If she can't accept you for who you are, then she doesn't need you or you her. When people put on a front, that's when you become mislead about the true person.
Dress nice, for first impressions do count. Be a gentleman, don't move too fast. Ask for the first kiss, hold her hand, but don't have roaming hands. Let the conversation and activity come from the heart. Say a prayer and let God guide you. ASk her where she wants to go and what she wants to do. Don't be afraid to tell her if something is not you. BE HONEST!!
just be your self but not completly gross!!!!
that is comin from a girl!!
Be yourself!!!!eye lips
Don't say anything shovenistic or stupid. Bring her one flower (like a rose or a tulip etc.) not a whole dozen. I think one is sweeter. Also, notice something about her like the way she did her hair, her eyeshadow, her shoes, or even the way she has painted her nails. Girls don't expect guys to notice little things that they spend so much time on, so if you compliment her on it, she will see that you are someone who is different and who will treat her special.I am going on a date tomorow night and i relly like this girl what advice can you give me?
DO NOT drug her and sodomize her. that's totally tacky.
Be yourself and have a good time.
keep it real and try to be very nice and sweet to her and also please don't forget to be a gentlemen
BE YOURSELF...and don't forget the breath mints...hahahaha
pack serious heat.
what ever you do. don't act too shy! It is unattractive because if the girl feels she always has to make the moves then it's awkward. Then again don't come on too strong either that might push her away a little.... just act like yourself, ask about some info on her but don't be too nosey and try not to have that awkward silence, if you have to.. say something totally random and show your sense of humor.. it will spark up the convo again and keep her interested and also make her feel comfortable knowing that you two can talk about anything and everything and it be totally cool... no matter how weird it seems to someone else... If you both are interested don't hold back and don't keep each other guessing or leading one another on...be truthful and if it doesn't work out then.. you can atleast say... hey i gave it my best shot.. and you two could possibly be really good friends
Hope that helped! :)
Just relax and don't put a lot of pressure or expectations on the date. If you put too much weight on the results you will mess it up.
Ask her a lot of question about her and her life try to get to know her, make good eye contact and keep the converstation going, you know how we love to talk! Also letting her know how beautiful she looks is always a plus, but dont over do it that can cross into the creepy department. Also pay for dinner open doors for her even the car door and kiss her goodnight. All winners in my book!
on personal matters like this... never, ever take advice form anyone. That is my advice.
be true to you !! =)
be nice!
Do something that allows you to talk to each other and get to know each other well. Talk about her, not yourself the whole time
Be polite, open doors for her
Pay for dinner
Don't bring up sore subjects
Don't let your passion run away with you at the end of the night. If you believe the time is right, give her one kiss.
Don't talk about your ex gf's.
breathe. but remember that 90 percent of nevousness doesn't show. the 10 percent is barely noticable. and because you are nevous means you care so why should you worry
b urself
Ask her about herself, talk about yourself. compliment what shes wearing and call her 'beautiful'. good luck :)
if she is going on a date with you that means she kind of likes you so just be yourself and if she likes that she will fall in love with who you are not what you have!
you need to brush up on your spelling and grammar. Anyways, be yourself. If she can't accept you for who you are, then she doesn't need you or you her. When people put on a front, that's when you become mislead about the true person.
Dress nice, for first impressions do count. Be a gentleman, don't move too fast. Ask for the first kiss, hold her hand, but don't have roaming hands. Let the conversation and activity come from the heart. Say a prayer and let God guide you. ASk her where she wants to go and what she wants to do. Don't be afraid to tell her if something is not you. BE HONEST!!
just be your self but not completly gross!!!!
that is comin from a girl!!
Be yourself!!!!
I used to date Jon, is it ok to ask him for advice about other guys?
I dated Jon offT and on for several years, but we go to different colleges a distance apart. I dont know how he feels about me now but he was always the go to person, when i had a problem i needed help with. We havent talked for awhile but I trust his advice and I would like to ask him for some relationship advice with another guy. He has told me about other girls in his life but usually added comments like, she is beautiful, like you..... or she reminds me of you.... etc. He is the one who broke off the friendship with me, saying he didnt think he could do a long distance relationship and he had to be able to ';talk to'; the person he was dating. I dont want to impose on him but he is the only one I feel like i could talk to. Should I try to contact him?I used to date Jon, is it ok to ask him for advice about other guys?
Call him and chat for a while. Don't just blurt out your question, it will make him feel used. Talk and catch up then slowly ease your question into the conversation. Most likely he will feel needed in your life if you seek out his advice.I used to date Jon, is it ok to ask him for advice about other guys?
So you're asking if you should talk to your ex about advice on your current relationship?
My answers would be most definitely. =]]
Just have a conversation opener...Don't start off with what you really want to get out of him. Give him a few days. talk to him...but not too much, we don't want him to think you're annoying.
The way you described him was enuff to tell that he's a sweet-heart and he still cares for you. He didn't really want to break up with you...he just couldn't handle a long distance relationship....which is more common than you think. =D
So talk to the guy. Just make sure you take it slow =]]
鈾ikki
hell no cause with comments like that he might still like you and his advise could be misleading because of his feelings or could cause you to be confused about the relationship with you and him
i don't see why not. he seems like he'll be there for you, but try to leave out comments like ';i love him so much'; or anything like that, which would make him feel bad or jealous. just keep it general. it sounds like he's a pretty good friend. good luck.
NO! Jeez.. he is moving on with his life. Leave him alone. It should be obvious to you since he's the one that broke it off. You are only using this as an excuse to be around him. Get new friends, if you don't have any already. You are college-age, learn to make your own decisions.
Call him and chat for a while. Don't just blurt out your question, it will make him feel used. Talk and catch up then slowly ease your question into the conversation. Most likely he will feel needed in your life if you seek out his advice.I used to date Jon, is it ok to ask him for advice about other guys?
So you're asking if you should talk to your ex about advice on your current relationship?
My answers would be most definitely. =]]
Just have a conversation opener...Don't start off with what you really want to get out of him. Give him a few days. talk to him...but not too much, we don't want him to think you're annoying.
The way you described him was enuff to tell that he's a sweet-heart and he still cares for you. He didn't really want to break up with you...he just couldn't handle a long distance relationship....which is more common than you think. =D
So talk to the guy. Just make sure you take it slow =]]
鈾ikki
hell no cause with comments like that he might still like you and his advise could be misleading because of his feelings or could cause you to be confused about the relationship with you and him
i don't see why not. he seems like he'll be there for you, but try to leave out comments like ';i love him so much'; or anything like that, which would make him feel bad or jealous. just keep it general. it sounds like he's a pretty good friend. good luck.
NO! Jeez.. he is moving on with his life. Leave him alone. It should be obvious to you since he's the one that broke it off. You are only using this as an excuse to be around him. Get new friends, if you don't have any already. You are college-age, learn to make your own decisions.
How do you ';Date';? I'm a 28 year old woman seeking advice from the pro's!! :) Help?
I’m a 28 year old woman and I’ve been on two dates with a guy I actually really like. It’s very rare that I meet a guy with a personality so similar to my own. I would have to say he is the first guy I’ve ever met with a personality exactly like mine. I have a sick sense of humor yet I’m very light hearted and extremely outgoing, unshy… I’m just an extrovert to the fullest extent and being around him the last 2 times has just been a blast.
Anyway, I’m on here because I want to see him again. Last night he told me to call him sometime and I told him, “You call me! You have my number!!” he laughed and said, “Okay.. okay… I’ll call you.” Now, I find myself wondering WHEN and IF he’s going to call again. I haven’t felt like this in god-only-knows how long and I have no idea how to deal with it. I don’t want to pick up the phone and call him, mostly because I want to see if he approaches me. What should I do here? Help me! I’m so not used to this dating thing!!!
How do you ';Date';? I'm a 28 year old woman seeking advice from the pro's!! :) Help?
if you have the exact same personality then you should know hen he is going to call you...when would you call him?
And, how did you go on dates with out calling each other?
if it gets to the weekend and still no call...';accidently'; call him on your cell while your engaged in a conversation about something funnie or interging with one of your friends...he will probally listen for a while and then hang up and call you back...just act suprised!How do you ';Date';? I'm a 28 year old woman seeking advice from the pro's!! :) Help?
Well you told him to call you. Most likely it will be a few days so do not start worrying that he is not going to call because the holiday is here. If he does not call by Sunday then I suggest picking up the phone and calling him.
Well don't get your hair all in a knot just yet. This is the holidays, if he doesn't call he's probably out with close friends or family. Give him a week to call (that is if you want him to make the first move). If you can't fight the urge to call him, THEN JUST CALL HIM. I'm 23 and I have always been straight forward with a guy if I really like him.
That is really the best way to go, if he likes you then the sooner you can be together, if he's not into you - then the less you'll be miserable wondering if he is.
Good luck!!
Lol. You're deffinitely all out of whack for this guy. I would suggest just wait till Friday and if he hasn't called, emailed or texted, then call him. It's not the 60s anymore. Womens lib says you can do anything a guy can do. That includes calling him. Ask him to go out for a drink.
Best of luck!!
Anyway, I’m on here because I want to see him again. Last night he told me to call him sometime and I told him, “You call me! You have my number!!” he laughed and said, “Okay.. okay… I’ll call you.” Now, I find myself wondering WHEN and IF he’s going to call again. I haven’t felt like this in god-only-knows how long and I have no idea how to deal with it. I don’t want to pick up the phone and call him, mostly because I want to see if he approaches me. What should I do here? Help me! I’m so not used to this dating thing!!!
How do you ';Date';? I'm a 28 year old woman seeking advice from the pro's!! :) Help?
if you have the exact same personality then you should know hen he is going to call you...when would you call him?
And, how did you go on dates with out calling each other?
if it gets to the weekend and still no call...';accidently'; call him on your cell while your engaged in a conversation about something funnie or interging with one of your friends...he will probally listen for a while and then hang up and call you back...just act suprised!How do you ';Date';? I'm a 28 year old woman seeking advice from the pro's!! :) Help?
Well you told him to call you. Most likely it will be a few days so do not start worrying that he is not going to call because the holiday is here. If he does not call by Sunday then I suggest picking up the phone and calling him.
Well don't get your hair all in a knot just yet. This is the holidays, if he doesn't call he's probably out with close friends or family. Give him a week to call (that is if you want him to make the first move). If you can't fight the urge to call him, THEN JUST CALL HIM. I'm 23 and I have always been straight forward with a guy if I really like him.
That is really the best way to go, if he likes you then the sooner you can be together, if he's not into you - then the less you'll be miserable wondering if he is.
Good luck!!
Lol. You're deffinitely all out of whack for this guy. I would suggest just wait till Friday and if he hasn't called, emailed or texted, then call him. It's not the 60s anymore. Womens lib says you can do anything a guy can do. That includes calling him. Ask him to go out for a drink.
Best of luck!!
Is anyone available to give me dating advice/girl advice? Please help!?
Let me know how I can message you with my questions/concerns. Thanks!Is anyone available to give me dating advice/girl advice? Please help!?
you can IM me or email me.
you can IM me or email me.
Did my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
I think that it was very simple. It was more of hanging out. I went over to her house, and we watched a movie in her basement, and KINDA snuggled, there was SOME touching, she was leaning on me, and briefly rested her head on my shoulder... its winter and im 14, so hey... thats the best we could do. Anyway, i really need help. it was akward, we just followed eachother around her house the first ten minutes of the 2 hour event. What should we do for the next date? I REALLY like her and she feels the same way... but shes very busy. I had to leave in two hours because she had like a lot of stuff to do, but she said she'd call when she gets back (she guessed it would be pretty late, like late in the evening).... but didnt call back that day. Was it something i did? Please give me some good tips and ill give you best answer?!!Did my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
No it was nothing you did. to be all truthful i wasnt there but she could have thought u were boring. OR she could have thought u werent interestid maybe by some type of body language or awkwardness you might have had. Next time just relax be yourself and go somewhere fun. that you both like doingDid my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
She is busy I'd wait a little more before I question it. Did you talk about what she likes to do on your date? That is what you do on the first date. Talk about her. Trust me.......girls love to talk about themselves and that gives you ammo for the next date. Then you know what she likes and can make the plans yourself. Girls love a guy that can take charge and make a fun day doing what they love. So try to talk to her more about her
try taking her on a REAL date. just hanging out at her house doesn't count, because you didn't do anything out of the ordinary. Take her to a movie, or go bowling with a group of friends, something besides hanging out at her house.
sounds like the date went pretty well...it's possible she didn't have time to call you, there are a number of reasons she could be acting this way though.... Try saying funny things, and if somethings awkward...think of something to say! haha! sorry...that's probably not very helpful...anyway! Keep in mind it WAS a first date though, it'll get better... HOPE this helped!
don't call her first .... must patient n wait until she gets back to u.... n that's yr chances .... good luck ...
well if you're 14 she probably does like you, but feels awkward around you now.
it depends how experienced in realtionships she is.
dont try and move things too fast.. she might get put off.
it probably wasnt something you did... if girls dont like guys they usually dont let them touch them lol
No it was nothing you did. to be all truthful i wasnt there but she could have thought u were boring. OR she could have thought u werent interestid maybe by some type of body language or awkwardness you might have had. Next time just relax be yourself and go somewhere fun. that you both like doingDid my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
She is busy I'd wait a little more before I question it. Did you talk about what she likes to do on your date? That is what you do on the first date. Talk about her. Trust me.......girls love to talk about themselves and that gives you ammo for the next date. Then you know what she likes and can make the plans yourself. Girls love a guy that can take charge and make a fun day doing what they love. So try to talk to her more about her
try taking her on a REAL date. just hanging out at her house doesn't count, because you didn't do anything out of the ordinary. Take her to a movie, or go bowling with a group of friends, something besides hanging out at her house.
sounds like the date went pretty well...it's possible she didn't have time to call you, there are a number of reasons she could be acting this way though.... Try saying funny things, and if somethings awkward...think of something to say! haha! sorry...that's probably not very helpful...anyway! Keep in mind it WAS a first date though, it'll get better... HOPE this helped!
don't call her first .... must patient n wait until she gets back to u.... n that's yr chances .... good luck ...
well if you're 14 she probably does like you, but feels awkward around you now.
it depends how experienced in realtionships she is.
dont try and move things too fast.. she might get put off.
it probably wasnt something you did... if girls dont like guys they usually dont let them touch them lol
Is anyone available to give me dating advice/girl advice? Please help!?
Let me know how I can message you with my questions/concerns. Thanks!Is anyone available to give me dating advice/girl advice? Please help!?
you can IM me or email me.
you can IM me or email me.
Did my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
I think that it was very simple. It was more of hanging out. I went over to her house, and we watched a movie in her basement, and KINDA snuggled, there was SOME touching, she was leaning on me, and briefly rested her head on my shoulder... its winter and im 14, so hey... thats the best we could do. Anyway, i really need help. it was akward, we just followed eachother around her house the first ten minutes of the 2 hour event. What should we do for the next date? I REALLY like her and she feels the same way... but shes very busy. I had to leave in two hours because she had like a lot of stuff to do, but she said she'd call when she gets back (she guessed it would be pretty late, like late in the evening).... but didnt call back that day. Was it something i did? Please give me some good tips and ill give you best answer?!!Did my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
No it was nothing you did. to be all truthful i wasnt there but she could have thought u were boring. OR she could have thought u werent interestid maybe by some type of body language or awkwardness you might have had. Next time just relax be yourself and go somewhere fun. that you both like doingDid my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
She is busy I'd wait a little more before I question it. Did you talk about what she likes to do on your date? That is what you do on the first date. Talk about her. Trust me.......girls love to talk about themselves and that gives you ammo for the next date. Then you know what she likes and can make the plans yourself. Girls love a guy that can take charge and make a fun day doing what they love. So try to talk to her more about her
try taking her on a REAL date. just hanging out at her house doesn't count, because you didn't do anything out of the ordinary. Take her to a movie, or go bowling with a group of friends, something besides hanging out at her house.
sounds like the date went pretty well...it's possible she didn't have time to call you, there are a number of reasons she could be acting this way though.... Try saying funny things, and if somethings awkward...think of something to say! haha! sorry...that's probably not very helpful...anyway! Keep in mind it WAS a first date though, it'll get better... HOPE this helped!
don't call her first .... must patient n wait until she gets back to u.... n that's yr chances .... good luck ...
well if you're 14 she probably does like you, but feels awkward around you now.
it depends how experienced in realtionships she is.
dont try and move things too fast.. she might get put off.
it probably wasnt something you did... if girls dont like guys they usually dont let them touch them loleye lips
No it was nothing you did. to be all truthful i wasnt there but she could have thought u were boring. OR she could have thought u werent interestid maybe by some type of body language or awkwardness you might have had. Next time just relax be yourself and go somewhere fun. that you both like doingDid my first date go well? PLEASE HELP?!? EVERYONE ANSWER!!! I need advice!!??
She is busy I'd wait a little more before I question it. Did you talk about what she likes to do on your date? That is what you do on the first date. Talk about her. Trust me.......girls love to talk about themselves and that gives you ammo for the next date. Then you know what she likes and can make the plans yourself. Girls love a guy that can take charge and make a fun day doing what they love. So try to talk to her more about her
try taking her on a REAL date. just hanging out at her house doesn't count, because you didn't do anything out of the ordinary. Take her to a movie, or go bowling with a group of friends, something besides hanging out at her house.
sounds like the date went pretty well...it's possible she didn't have time to call you, there are a number of reasons she could be acting this way though.... Try saying funny things, and if somethings awkward...think of something to say! haha! sorry...that's probably not very helpful...anyway! Keep in mind it WAS a first date though, it'll get better... HOPE this helped!
don't call her first .... must patient n wait until she gets back to u.... n that's yr chances .... good luck ...
well if you're 14 she probably does like you, but feels awkward around you now.
it depends how experienced in realtionships she is.
dont try and move things too fast.. she might get put off.
it probably wasnt something you did... if girls dont like guys they usually dont let them touch them lol
Went on first date. Not sure if she is interested. Much needed advice!?
I went out for lunch and drinks with this girl on Saturday and this was the first time we met. The date went well, and after the date was over she said I should give her call somtime. Later on that night she text messaged me, and we exchanged a few text messages Sat. night. However, on Sunday night I called her and she did not answser my call and I havent heard from her since. What should I do? Call her again? Text her? Help!Went on first date. Not sure if she is interested. Much needed advice!?
She might just be on vacation with her parents but call her just in case.
She might just be on vacation with her parents but call her just in case.
GIRLS: Can someone give dating advice?
im a freshman and i really like this girl whos a sophomore. ive seen her around and in drama reharsels, and weve made eye contact and laughed with each other and had a connection...i just havent talked to her yet becuase i dont no how to inititiate the conversation. im more or less in her 'league' considering shes not that popular of a soph.
just what do i say to kick it off? and how do i get over my 'fear'?GIRLS: Can someone give dating advice?
find a common interest or ask about someting coming up...
eg ';Hey did you watch the footy last night?'; ';Are you in the school marathon next week?'; ';You gonna go to Jessi's party on saturday?';GIRLS: Can someone give dating advice?
Check out this place
http://ggrls.only4u.info
It's going be useful to you
just what do i say to kick it off? and how do i get over my 'fear'?GIRLS: Can someone give dating advice?
find a common interest or ask about someting coming up...
eg ';Hey did you watch the footy last night?'; ';Are you in the school marathon next week?'; ';You gonna go to Jessi's party on saturday?';GIRLS: Can someone give dating advice?
Check out this place
http://ggrls.only4u.info
It's going be useful to you
Girls only : dating advice ;guys can answer if they give advice on what guys like-and do?
i need help !! what do you do on a date to make the guy want to kiss you and how do you get the guy to kiss you and go fartherGirls only : dating advice ;guys can answer if they give advice on what guys like-and do?
well if i were you and i have a boyfriend right now it depends on how far you are in the relationship if its a first date and when he walks you to your door then give him a little kiss on the cheek and say you had a really great time that's what i did and look where i'm at now but actually make the kiss the last thing you do be mysterious.Hope it's works for you like it did myself.Girls only : dating advice ;guys can answer if they give advice on what guys like-and do?
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......... lol imma dude. and speaking from every guy's stand point we want that night to end with a kiss nuff said.. Maybe more but the kiss gives that accomplishment.. But I don't know most things girls will do is walk me to the car when we're leaving(Walking to the car sends the sign)... A longer then usual hug(sends the message). You look at my face or you look up at me still in my arms(thats kiss me :P) ..
1. Walk him to the car.Or walk him to your door his door either one works. Just walk to where ever hes going. :P (If in car shoot just kiss him :P)
2.Hug him make it more passionate and longer:P
3. Look up at him. Or look at his lips..
if the guy doesnt pick up on this he is either WAY beyond shy or just never kissed before.. :P there epic fail :P
Also you know getting the kiss in gives me the self accomplishment.. Like boo ya.. Not that imma brag a bout it boosts ego.. SO yeah just know that most guys dont go on a date to go on a date.. Kissing or more is what we go out with you for :P
Im a guy. But unlike others i want u to be ur self. n if u want to go for it. i missed a chance for one because i was scared and i didnt get another chance for 4 months
You take control grab him and kiss him, than take his shirt off
well first off, you need to find a good guy. second, you just flirt and flirt and flirt. make sure you smell good too and do'nt go overboard on trying to look good or w/e. you need to be yourself, don't over do it. just have fun, and if he kisses you then he kisses you. if he doesn't, he's not worth it and it's time to find a new date. and going farther after a date usually doesn't happen on the first date unless it's a one night stand.
good luck
stare into their eyes:)
Why is this girls only? No one knows guys better than guys.
So anyways, guys like to kiss girls that smell good. That sounds kinda funny, but it's true. So you'll need a really sexy perfume. But I don't know what to do to get a guy to go further.
Look into the eyes
Lean in a little bit
and hope for the best
Be aggressive and take control of the situation
as long as the guy likes you, you just give him hints... if he's sort of shy, well, you can always make the first move... no offense...
just pucker up and kiss him... movie dates are good for this.
if you want him to go further... well just ';do unto others as you would have them do unto you'; :-}
Laugh at his jokes.
Touch his face.
Stroke his hair.
Offer him a massage.
Look into his eyes.
Wear a cute outfit.
Let him know how you feel.
Be confident.
Guys like girls. Period. okay maybe not all of them lol. If you know he likes you then go for it. Dont be shy. If you want to kiss him go ahead %26amp; do it yourself. He might be afraid of you pushing him away %26amp; thats probably why he hasnt kissed you yet. I never used to kiss anyone, only liked to be kissed. but if you know he guy likes you, then there's no reason to think he'd reject you. All you need to do is just give him a peck on the lips. If he goes for that %26amp; he wants more trust me he'll go back for more :)
hope this boosts your confidence =D
Just stare into his eyes and flirt, lean in close when yall are talking and maybe throw in a compliment about sexy he is or how full and luscious his lips are. if he doesn't kiss you after that, then just go for it, take control and kiss him. A lot of guys dig girls who know what they want and know how to get it.
talk about close things like romance books/movies that stuff it will be sure to turn him on
stare deeply into his eyes then stare at his lips and lean forward to his body if he does kiss you to keep it going hold on to hi head/hair and when he lets go pull back and say im not done yet
well if i were you and i have a boyfriend right now it depends on how far you are in the relationship if its a first date and when he walks you to your door then give him a little kiss on the cheek and say you had a really great time that's what i did and look where i'm at now but actually make the kiss the last thing you do be mysterious.Hope it's works for you like it did myself.Girls only : dating advice ;guys can answer if they give advice on what guys like-and do?
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......... lol imma dude. and speaking from every guy's stand point we want that night to end with a kiss nuff said.. Maybe more but the kiss gives that accomplishment.. But I don't know most things girls will do is walk me to the car when we're leaving(Walking to the car sends the sign)... A longer then usual hug(sends the message). You look at my face or you look up at me still in my arms(thats kiss me :P) ..
1. Walk him to the car.Or walk him to your door his door either one works. Just walk to where ever hes going. :P (If in car shoot just kiss him :P)
2.Hug him make it more passionate and longer:P
3. Look up at him. Or look at his lips..
if the guy doesnt pick up on this he is either WAY beyond shy or just never kissed before.. :P there epic fail :P
Also you know getting the kiss in gives me the self accomplishment.. Like boo ya.. Not that imma brag a bout it boosts ego.. SO yeah just know that most guys dont go on a date to go on a date.. Kissing or more is what we go out with you for :P
Im a guy. But unlike others i want u to be ur self. n if u want to go for it. i missed a chance for one because i was scared and i didnt get another chance for 4 months
You take control grab him and kiss him, than take his shirt off
well first off, you need to find a good guy. second, you just flirt and flirt and flirt. make sure you smell good too and do'nt go overboard on trying to look good or w/e. you need to be yourself, don't over do it. just have fun, and if he kisses you then he kisses you. if he doesn't, he's not worth it and it's time to find a new date. and going farther after a date usually doesn't happen on the first date unless it's a one night stand.
good luck
stare into their eyes:)
Why is this girls only? No one knows guys better than guys.
So anyways, guys like to kiss girls that smell good. That sounds kinda funny, but it's true. So you'll need a really sexy perfume. But I don't know what to do to get a guy to go further.
Look into the eyes
Lean in a little bit
and hope for the best
Be aggressive and take control of the situation
as long as the guy likes you, you just give him hints... if he's sort of shy, well, you can always make the first move... no offense...
just pucker up and kiss him... movie dates are good for this.
if you want him to go further... well just ';do unto others as you would have them do unto you'; :-}
Laugh at his jokes.
Touch his face.
Stroke his hair.
Offer him a massage.
Look into his eyes.
Wear a cute outfit.
Let him know how you feel.
Be confident.
Guys like girls. Period. okay maybe not all of them lol. If you know he likes you then go for it. Dont be shy. If you want to kiss him go ahead %26amp; do it yourself. He might be afraid of you pushing him away %26amp; thats probably why he hasnt kissed you yet. I never used to kiss anyone, only liked to be kissed. but if you know he guy likes you, then there's no reason to think he'd reject you. All you need to do is just give him a peck on the lips. If he goes for that %26amp; he wants more trust me he'll go back for more :)
hope this boosts your confidence =D
Just stare into his eyes and flirt, lean in close when yall are talking and maybe throw in a compliment about sexy he is or how full and luscious his lips are. if he doesn't kiss you after that, then just go for it, take control and kiss him. A lot of guys dig girls who know what they want and know how to get it.
talk about close things like romance books/movies that stuff it will be sure to turn him on
stare deeply into his eyes then stare at his lips and lean forward to his body if he does kiss you to keep it going hold on to hi head/hair and when he lets go pull back and say im not done yet
Anyone have advice for meeting/dating German men?
I am a Canadian who is going to be living in Germany for a working holiday and want some advice for meeting/dating German men. I have heard that they are very emotionally detached and it's hard to know if they are interested in you. I have great respect for German art, culture, and writing but I am worried this element of the culture will be difficult for me! Advice?Anyone have advice for meeting/dating German men?
Meeting men is the same in any country. If you extrude confidence and dress well, and are reasonably pretty, you will not have to do anything to get men to want to meet you.Anyone have advice for meeting/dating German men?
learn to love weiner snitzshel and yeiger, other than that, i didnt even know germans had art or writing (other than mein compf and einstein)
I think you will find that they are like men anywhere don't believe all you are told people just tend to generalize
Don't date Germans. Want a reason? I can tell you 7,000,000 :(
Meeting men is the same in any country. If you extrude confidence and dress well, and are reasonably pretty, you will not have to do anything to get men to want to meet you.Anyone have advice for meeting/dating German men?
learn to love weiner snitzshel and yeiger, other than that, i didnt even know germans had art or writing (other than mein compf and einstein)
I think you will find that they are like men anywhere don't believe all you are told people just tend to generalize
Don't date Germans. Want a reason? I can tell you 7,000,000 :(
Omg i just found out my friend likes my ex alot and she wants to date him and hes coming to me with advice?
okay i asked her and shes like i like him alot but i cant date him cuz hes your ex and i was like o and then he messages me and is like im confused and i wa slike about wat amd he was like about this girl and i thought it was me but then he was like oh its yellie and im like um well its my fault and he just was like i gtg call me later
should i call him??Omg i just found out my friend likes my ex alot and she wants to date him and hes coming to me with advice?
NO DON';T CALL HIM!! He has moved on. Don't let him toy with your emotions.Omg i just found out my friend likes my ex alot and she wants to date him and hes coming to me with advice?
if it bothers you that they go out. tell your freind this. mabye u dont watn her too because u want to get back wit him some day. u have a right to stand up for your feelings. u go girl good luck
okay, and ex is an ex...you were finished with him, let him go... i would tell my friend that he is fair game...i don't think i would call him...why would you want to do that? let well enough alone...don't try to be friends with him, he is an ex!
Let go of the relationship you had with your ex, and let them have a go at it. If they really like each other then you shouldn't stand in their way. And you won't lose them as friends either.
no.. i you just signrf up in yahoo answers..!
Nothing wrong with that - he's your ex and you've moved on since the break up. Give your blessings!
should i call him??Omg i just found out my friend likes my ex alot and she wants to date him and hes coming to me with advice?
NO DON';T CALL HIM!! He has moved on. Don't let him toy with your emotions.Omg i just found out my friend likes my ex alot and she wants to date him and hes coming to me with advice?
if it bothers you that they go out. tell your freind this. mabye u dont watn her too because u want to get back wit him some day. u have a right to stand up for your feelings. u go girl good luck
okay, and ex is an ex...you were finished with him, let him go... i would tell my friend that he is fair game...i don't think i would call him...why would you want to do that? let well enough alone...don't try to be friends with him, he is an ex!
Let go of the relationship you had with your ex, and let them have a go at it. If they really like each other then you shouldn't stand in their way. And you won't lose them as friends either.
no.. i you just signrf up in yahoo answers..!
Nothing wrong with that - he's your ex and you've moved on since the break up. Give your blessings!
What kind of tricks or advice can you give me about the first date?
see i like this guy through my best friend and saw/met him only once. we've talked through aim alot and decided to go to the mall together alone. is this a date? im thinking it is! but what do i do. i would like tips or tricks like bumping you arm into his to see if he'll hold your hand. (thats the only one i got) i have been on dates before but this one seems more special im 16 and i wish this guy could me my boyfriend. o ya he's 16 too. so if you can help please do. thanxsWhat kind of tricks or advice can you give me about the first date?
Remember that first dates are normally conducted to see how much you like someone - not due to their outward appearance, but things that one might not necessarily know without a face-to-face confrontation.
Instead of looking for tips and advice about forcing someone to like you, look for ideas and traits that you share in common with this person. You can build on those common factors to continue to add to your relationship with him.eye lips
Remember that first dates are normally conducted to see how much you like someone - not due to their outward appearance, but things that one might not necessarily know without a face-to-face confrontation.
Instead of looking for tips and advice about forcing someone to like you, look for ideas and traits that you share in common with this person. You can build on those common factors to continue to add to your relationship with him.
Dating Advice: Do I have to pay for everything???
Me and this girl I've been seeing are going to a theme park tomorrow. My question is: Do I have to pay for all her $hit? I wouldn't mind paying if the food wasn't like $10+ each meal.
Should I ask her if we could split everything? Should I just buy everything for both of us? Help me out.Dating Advice: Do I have to pay for everything???
She should offer to pay. I do normally. But on the other hand if a man asked me to pay half, I would think that is sooo unattractive!Dating Advice: Do I have to pay for everything???
Yes, you do.
Get used to it.
Feminism is a fraud.
It means women get equality when it benefits them.
And all the things that benefit them that are NOT equal, stay just as they have always been.
And this is one of them.
I've dated about 35 women, and I've had to pay for every single date, even with women who made 2-3 times what I did.
Should I ask her if we could split everything? Should I just buy everything for both of us? Help me out.Dating Advice: Do I have to pay for everything???
She should offer to pay. I do normally. But on the other hand if a man asked me to pay half, I would think that is sooo unattractive!Dating Advice: Do I have to pay for everything???
Yes, you do.
Get used to it.
Feminism is a fraud.
It means women get equality when it benefits them.
And all the things that benefit them that are NOT equal, stay just as they have always been.
And this is one of them.
I've dated about 35 women, and I've had to pay for every single date, even with women who made 2-3 times what I did.
Girls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
Im 37 years old
girl is similar age
shall the guy offer and pay for Meal On the first date..............lol
Advice From Girls NeededGirls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
dude, pony up. you know, or you should, that the guy ALWAYS pays on the first date, particularly if you want ANY shot at all at a second.Girls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
it's etiquette for the guy to pay on the first date, just shows your a gentleman.
But for all other dates the usual rule is whoever suggests the date treats the other person.
But more often than not my fella and I often split it or argue over who's going to pay (he gets annoyed when I try and be Miss independent and pay!!)
i think u should offer to pay 4 it if u were the 1 that asked her more likely to get a 2nd date too, but make sure u dont end up payin all the time!! after uz can go halfs or u can cook she brings bottle etc..
Expect to pay for the whole meal, but if she offers to go halves, as all good modern women should, then its a bonus.
mm I'd expect you to pay
but I wouldnt mind if it was 'posh' or plain
have fun
Who asked who to go on this date?
If I ask the guy, I pay....or at least try to-usually most of the time(about 99%) , the guy refuses to let me and argues with me about it until I give in and let him pay. But if the guy asked me, he is in charge of the bill-although I do still dig for my wallet and make an effort to throw in tip at the very least. And if it was a bad date and I don't plan on seeing him again? I will suggest splitting the check down the middle.
you should pay for her! She may have offered, but I promise it will impress her and make her feel valued if you pay until you two get closer and more comfortable
yes lol its a code. it shows that you're kind, caring and a gentleman
I would say goys pay for the meal. If your aren't sure, you can ask her, ';Would you like to pay? Or should I?';
Its nice to but see how the date goes, if its not working out then go ';Dutch';, if it is and you fancy treating her, then do it.
You should pay on the first date.
dur yeah!!!
I was forced to watch reruns of Beauty and the Geek with my GF, and on there, they had a quiz, I guess it was part of elimination. One of the questions was who should pay on the first date and the correct answer, according to the book they used was who ever asked for the date. So, I guess if the woman asks the guy, then she should pay, however, I strongly disagree to this and think the guy should pay no matter what.
guys should pay the 1st night!!!!
Yes you should!! :-) to be honest blokes tend to pay for things on the first few dates! My boyfriend paid for everything for about the first month! Then I started to pay for things! Suppose it just seems natural that the bloke pays- although it shouldnt really be like that!!!
If you asked her out %26amp; booked the table then you should pay.If she offers to pay half then insist that you asked her out so it's on you.If you do go out on another date %26amp; she wants to chip in or treat you then thats cool.
girl is similar age
shall the guy offer and pay for Meal On the first date..............lol
Advice From Girls NeededGirls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
dude, pony up. you know, or you should, that the guy ALWAYS pays on the first date, particularly if you want ANY shot at all at a second.Girls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
it's etiquette for the guy to pay on the first date, just shows your a gentleman.
But for all other dates the usual rule is whoever suggests the date treats the other person.
But more often than not my fella and I often split it or argue over who's going to pay (he gets annoyed when I try and be Miss independent and pay!!)
i think u should offer to pay 4 it if u were the 1 that asked her more likely to get a 2nd date too, but make sure u dont end up payin all the time!! after uz can go halfs or u can cook she brings bottle etc..
Expect to pay for the whole meal, but if she offers to go halves, as all good modern women should, then its a bonus.
mm I'd expect you to pay
but I wouldnt mind if it was 'posh' or plain
have fun
Who asked who to go on this date?
If I ask the guy, I pay....or at least try to-usually most of the time(about 99%) , the guy refuses to let me and argues with me about it until I give in and let him pay. But if the guy asked me, he is in charge of the bill-although I do still dig for my wallet and make an effort to throw in tip at the very least. And if it was a bad date and I don't plan on seeing him again? I will suggest splitting the check down the middle.
you should pay for her! She may have offered, but I promise it will impress her and make her feel valued if you pay until you two get closer and more comfortable
yes lol its a code. it shows that you're kind, caring and a gentleman
I would say goys pay for the meal. If your aren't sure, you can ask her, ';Would you like to pay? Or should I?';
Its nice to but see how the date goes, if its not working out then go ';Dutch';, if it is and you fancy treating her, then do it.
You should pay on the first date.
dur yeah!!!
I was forced to watch reruns of Beauty and the Geek with my GF, and on there, they had a quiz, I guess it was part of elimination. One of the questions was who should pay on the first date and the correct answer, according to the book they used was who ever asked for the date. So, I guess if the woman asks the guy, then she should pay, however, I strongly disagree to this and think the guy should pay no matter what.
guys should pay the 1st night!!!!
Yes you should!! :-) to be honest blokes tend to pay for things on the first few dates! My boyfriend paid for everything for about the first month! Then I started to pay for things! Suppose it just seems natural that the bloke pays- although it shouldnt really be like that!!!
If you asked her out %26amp; booked the table then you should pay.If she offers to pay half then insist that you asked her out so it's on you.If you do go out on another date %26amp; she wants to chip in or treat you then thats cool.
Girls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
Im 37 years old
girl is similar age
shall the guy offer and pay for Meal On the first date..............lol
Advice From Girls NeededGirls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
dude, pony up. you know, or you should, that the guy ALWAYS pays on the first date, particularly if you want ANY shot at all at a second.Girls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
it's etiquette for the guy to pay on the first date, just shows your a gentleman.
But for all other dates the usual rule is whoever suggests the date treats the other person.
But more often than not my fella and I often split it or argue over who's going to pay (he gets annoyed when I try and be Miss independent and pay!!)
i think u should offer to pay 4 it if u were the 1 that asked her more likely to get a 2nd date too, but make sure u dont end up payin all the time!! after uz can go halfs or u can cook she brings bottle etc..
Expect to pay for the whole meal, but if she offers to go halves, as all good modern women should, then its a bonus.
mm I'd expect you to pay
but I wouldnt mind if it was 'posh' or plain
have fun
Who asked who to go on this date?
If I ask the guy, I pay....or at least try to-usually most of the time(about 99%) , the guy refuses to let me and argues with me about it until I give in and let him pay. But if the guy asked me, he is in charge of the bill-although I do still dig for my wallet and make an effort to throw in tip at the very least. And if it was a bad date and I don't plan on seeing him again? I will suggest splitting the check down the middle.
you should pay for her! She may have offered, but I promise it will impress her and make her feel valued if you pay until you two get closer and more comfortable
yes lol its a code. it shows that you're kind, caring and a gentleman
I would say goys pay for the meal. If your aren't sure, you can ask her, ';Would you like to pay? Or should I?';
Its nice to but see how the date goes, if its not working out then go ';Dutch';, if it is and you fancy treating her, then do it.
You should pay on the first date.
dur yeah!!!
I was forced to watch reruns of Beauty and the Geek with my GF, and on there, they had a quiz, I guess it was part of elimination. One of the questions was who should pay on the first date and the correct answer, according to the book they used was who ever asked for the date. So, I guess if the woman asks the guy, then she should pay, however, I strongly disagree to this and think the guy should pay no matter what.
guys should pay the 1st night!!!!
Yes you should!! :-) to be honest blokes tend to pay for things on the first few dates! My boyfriend paid for everything for about the first month! Then I started to pay for things! Suppose it just seems natural that the bloke pays- although it shouldnt really be like that!!!
If you asked her out %26amp; booked the table then you should pay.If she offers to pay half then insist that you asked her out so it's on you.If you do go out on another date %26amp; she wants to chip in or treat you then thats cool.
girl is similar age
shall the guy offer and pay for Meal On the first date..............lol
Advice From Girls NeededGirls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
dude, pony up. you know, or you should, that the guy ALWAYS pays on the first date, particularly if you want ANY shot at all at a second.Girls need Advice.......For A Guy.......Who Pays For Meal On The First Date?
it's etiquette for the guy to pay on the first date, just shows your a gentleman.
But for all other dates the usual rule is whoever suggests the date treats the other person.
But more often than not my fella and I often split it or argue over who's going to pay (he gets annoyed when I try and be Miss independent and pay!!)
i think u should offer to pay 4 it if u were the 1 that asked her more likely to get a 2nd date too, but make sure u dont end up payin all the time!! after uz can go halfs or u can cook she brings bottle etc..
Expect to pay for the whole meal, but if she offers to go halves, as all good modern women should, then its a bonus.
mm I'd expect you to pay
but I wouldnt mind if it was 'posh' or plain
have fun
Who asked who to go on this date?
If I ask the guy, I pay....or at least try to-usually most of the time(about 99%) , the guy refuses to let me and argues with me about it until I give in and let him pay. But if the guy asked me, he is in charge of the bill-although I do still dig for my wallet and make an effort to throw in tip at the very least. And if it was a bad date and I don't plan on seeing him again? I will suggest splitting the check down the middle.
you should pay for her! She may have offered, but I promise it will impress her and make her feel valued if you pay until you two get closer and more comfortable
yes lol its a code. it shows that you're kind, caring and a gentleman
I would say goys pay for the meal. If your aren't sure, you can ask her, ';Would you like to pay? Or should I?';
Its nice to but see how the date goes, if its not working out then go ';Dutch';, if it is and you fancy treating her, then do it.
You should pay on the first date.
dur yeah!!!
I was forced to watch reruns of Beauty and the Geek with my GF, and on there, they had a quiz, I guess it was part of elimination. One of the questions was who should pay on the first date and the correct answer, according to the book they used was who ever asked for the date. So, I guess if the woman asks the guy, then she should pay, however, I strongly disagree to this and think the guy should pay no matter what.
guys should pay the 1st night!!!!
Yes you should!! :-) to be honest blokes tend to pay for things on the first few dates! My boyfriend paid for everything for about the first month! Then I started to pay for things! Suppose it just seems natural that the bloke pays- although it shouldnt really be like that!!!
If you asked her out %26amp; booked the table then you should pay.If she offers to pay half then insist that you asked her out so it's on you.If you do go out on another date %26amp; she wants to chip in or treat you then thats cool.
Dating Advice I Need Help?
ok well im 15 and im thinking about asking a guy out. i need to know how to aprouch him were to go and what to do?Dating Advice I Need Help?
go up to him in school and talk casually and when the conversation is slowly dying just say wanna go out.
and if he says yes just smile and give him a kiss.
the mall or movies.
go up to him in school and talk casually and when the conversation is slowly dying just say wanna go out.
and if he says yes just smile and give him a kiss.
the mall or movies.
Dating Advice Needed
I am working with this girl who is okay. I think i like her. Currently, me and her are making fun each other but not intetnionaly. An example of how i do it is by calling her retarded but i don't really mean and i noe she does not take it personally. I also try to help in any way i can with her work. I want to ask her for dinner before we go off to college. Our job ends in a week. HOw can i do this?? any tips and advice. I think i really like this girl. Can you be more detailed. I want to make it romantic and touch her heart at the same time
Dating Advice Needed
N'aw this is adorable. Do something cute or suprise her. Send her a note on your shift, that'll make her smile. Then ask if she's up for a cofffee after work. Hope that helps a little bit, :)
Dating Advice Needed
N'aw this is adorable. Do something cute or suprise her. Send her a note on your shift, that'll make her smile. Then ask if she's up for a cofffee after work. Hope that helps a little bit, :)
Dating advice: This girl I've met?
This girl apparently 'took a shine' to me according to a friend. She accepted my add on Facebook and gave me her number! Great.
Only thing is she said she's very busy at work when I invited her out for coffee. She started a conversation on Facebook with me though. What's the best thing to do for now? Wait 'til things quieten down at work? Is she really that interested?Dating advice: This girl I've met?
http://halfasseddating.net78.net/Index.php idk lolzDating advice: This girl I've met?
that decision is yours to make although i have to say she is interested in you but as a friend and not anything more :) :)eye lips
Only thing is she said she's very busy at work when I invited her out for coffee. She started a conversation on Facebook with me though. What's the best thing to do for now? Wait 'til things quieten down at work? Is she really that interested?Dating advice: This girl I've met?
http://halfasseddating.net78.net/Index.php idk lolzDating advice: This girl I've met?
that decision is yours to make although i have to say she is interested in you but as a friend and not anything more :) :)
Dating Advice pleaaassseee?
I am going to be having my 6 month anniversary with my boyfriend who i have known for 4 years. I would love to make it a special day for him, the only problem is i dont have a lot of money and neither does he...what should i do?Dating Advice pleaaassseee?
movie and a dinner together is perfectDating Advice pleaaassseee?
well i think you should make dinner for him and rent a movie and just tell him how you realli feel about them them take him to the place where he asked you out
movie and a dinner together is perfectDating Advice pleaaassseee?
well i think you should make dinner for him and rent a movie and just tell him how you realli feel about them them take him to the place where he asked you out
Well, me and my girlfriend has been dating for about 3 years now we want to have sex. Any advice?
Well, I don't really know how to do it, and neither does she. So, I was wondering if I should buy anything extra, besides a condom of course, because I already have one. Please and thank you. :]Well, me and my girlfriend has been dating for about 3 years now we want to have sex. Any advice?
I'm old fashioned, but I think it's better to wait until your married. Not only for moral reasons but because it makes things less complicated and less chance of heartbreak.Well, me and my girlfriend has been dating for about 3 years now we want to have sex. Any advice?
There's not much to know if its the first time for both of you I wouldn't worry. Start off slow, when you two are doing anything talk to each other. Tell the other person if that feels good or what they want to try. When in doubt kiss the others persons body its romantic.
Good job on safe sex and LOCK DOORS!
get married
I'm old fashioned, but I think it's better to wait until your married. Not only for moral reasons but because it makes things less complicated and less chance of heartbreak.Well, me and my girlfriend has been dating for about 3 years now we want to have sex. Any advice?
There's not much to know if its the first time for both of you I wouldn't worry. Start off slow, when you two are doing anything talk to each other. Tell the other person if that feels good or what they want to try. When in doubt kiss the others persons body its romantic.
Good job on safe sex and LOCK DOORS!
get married
Dating Advice Please
Ok, I am in my late 20's and I never date a guy unless I already like him. If a guy I'm not into asks me out I always say no. My best friend and my parents both tell me I'm way too picky and that going out for pizza doesn't mean u have to marry the guy and all that. How can I get myself to go out more? I don't wanna be single forever lolDating Advice Please
My mom used to tell me the guy you aren't interested in might end up introducing you to the love of your life. Plus, a great friendship may develop if nothing else, or he might be perfect for one of your friends.Dating Advice Please
You really need to give guys a chance. How do you know you don't really like him if you've just met. Talk to him. Convince yourself that every guy who asks you out could be the one. Also the guy who's like ';see if he's good at sex. like me'; made me crack up. Thanks!
If the guy seems nice, just hangout with him, do something casual. If you dont like him that much, you just leave
Ginger just give a few of the guys a chance and see how it goes from there.
There is no harm in going for a walk or something like that. Just to talk with someone, and get to know them.
see if theyre good at sex. like me
My mom used to tell me the guy you aren't interested in might end up introducing you to the love of your life. Plus, a great friendship may develop if nothing else, or he might be perfect for one of your friends.Dating Advice Please
You really need to give guys a chance. How do you know you don't really like him if you've just met. Talk to him. Convince yourself that every guy who asks you out could be the one. Also the guy who's like ';see if he's good at sex. like me'; made me crack up. Thanks!
If the guy seems nice, just hangout with him, do something casual. If you dont like him that much, you just leave
Ginger just give a few of the guys a chance and see how it goes from there.
There is no harm in going for a walk or something like that. Just to talk with someone, and get to know them.
see if theyre good at sex. like me
I really need dating advice?
Okay, I really like this guy but he's super popular and I'm sorta not. I want to ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection. I've never made myself so vulnerable. How do I ask him out %26amp; if he says no not get hurt?I really need dating advice?
Try http://www.RelationshipFrontiers.com
Try http://www.RelationshipFrontiers.com
What do i start dating outside my race? need good advice?
im 21 yrs old in college and black female ive been having alot of trouble dating black men so ive decided to start dating outside my race....how do i get started? what dating tips should i know??What do i start dating outside my race? need good advice?
just be yourself and meet some new friends, the dating will comeWhat do i start dating outside my race? need good advice?
i dont think u should date a guy specifically by race.
go with the flow :]
just be yourself and meet some new friends, the dating will comeWhat do i start dating outside my race? need good advice?
i dont think u should date a guy specifically by race.
go with the flow :]
Up date on Corky's progress, and still requiring some advice.?
Since my last question I have been feeding Corky three times a day 10mls of formula (in a syringe at correct temp) and have placed weaning pellets at his disposal throughout the day, which he precedes to eat. Each night after his last feed I take the pellets out. Each morning he presents with an empty crop. Thank the Lord!! He has been putting weight on between 1 and 3 grams. My next worry is I don't think he is drinking water? I have been giving him some through the syringe just in case. Is this the right thing to do?Up date on Corky's progress, and still requiring some advice.?
Glad to hear that Corky is feeling better:)
Young birds in the nest don't drink water. All moisture is provided by the parents regurgitation or when handfeeding - from the formula.
Forcing water is never a good idea. They can easily aspirate the liquid.
Since Corky is weaning, he should have dry pellets and weaning food, along with a bowl of fresh water in his cage at all times.
I do not recommend using water bottle dispensers - ever. Most are made of plastic, which hold bacteria. The have float balls which often fail - causing all of the water to leak out, or fail to release the water at all.Up date on Corky's progress, and still requiring some advice.?
Just keep feeding him till he's ready to wean. In the book I'm reading it says a baby will wean them selves when they know it's time kinda like a baby will walk when they're ready. The formula has water in it and you don't let him get dehydrated so if you want to give him some water fine but he doesn't need it unless it gets hot.eye lips
Glad to hear that Corky is feeling better:)
Young birds in the nest don't drink water. All moisture is provided by the parents regurgitation or when handfeeding - from the formula.
Forcing water is never a good idea. They can easily aspirate the liquid.
Since Corky is weaning, he should have dry pellets and weaning food, along with a bowl of fresh water in his cage at all times.
I do not recommend using water bottle dispensers - ever. Most are made of plastic, which hold bacteria. The have float balls which often fail - causing all of the water to leak out, or fail to release the water at all.Up date on Corky's progress, and still requiring some advice.?
Just keep feeding him till he's ready to wean. In the book I'm reading it says a baby will wean them selves when they know it's time kinda like a baby will walk when they're ready. The formula has water in it and you don't let him get dehydrated so if you want to give him some water fine but he doesn't need it unless it gets hot.
This guy I really like asked me on a date...but I thought he liked my friend. Advice?
So I really like this guy named Justin. However, I thought he liked my friend Anna. He always asks about her when we're around him and expresses his interest in her, but never does anything about it. Now I'm not trying to be self-absorbed, but Anna isn't that attractive and has a very LOUD personality (by loud I don't mean fun, I mean obnoxious). So I was disappointed and confused when I found out he liked her (especially since Justin and I have a lot more in common). Anyway the other night we were texting back and forth and started flirting and he asked me to the movies on Sunday and out to eat at a really nice restaurant. Also, another thing. I'm rooming with my friend Liz this fall and he's rooming with us (Justin and Liz were already friends). Could it be that he actually liked me the whole time, but didnt wanna say anything because we're going to be roommates? I'm confused, because this guy is NOT the player type...he likes relationships.
Help?This guy I really like asked me on a date...but I thought he liked my friend. Advice?
maybe he just wants to go to the movies/restaurant as friends
Help?This guy I really like asked me on a date...but I thought he liked my friend. Advice?
maybe he just wants to go to the movies/restaurant as friends
I need a date for a dance this month any ideas I NEED ADVICE!?
i am 13 and the only guy i kissed is 2 years older tha n me but now he is in a different school. he is the only guy that i have ever went on a date with. sice this year he is not here i dont know how to get this really cute guy tp notice me cuz i want to go to the dance with him.every time i try to get his attention he just looks at me with his friends and then continues what he was doing .i need advice badly cuz this guy is to die for what should i do? help me quicklyI need a date for a dance this month any ideas I NEED ADVICE!?
Look pretty, and play hard to getI need a date for a dance this month any ideas I NEED ADVICE!?
OK. . . well all you need to do is go to the dance with your friends, if he really wants to go to the dance with you he'd ask you or you should ask him when theres nobody around.
Just ask him. Unless you look like a heffer, he'll probably say yes.
I don't think he likes you. Talk to the other guy maybe he'll take you. No guy is to die for (thats why women always go first, guys die for us). But talk to the other guy if you went out with him. The other guy if you liek him that bad ask him. And if he says no e like w/e. If he says yes try to hang out with him more but not alot you don't want him to think that you are annoying.
Calm down first! You can also go by yourself and dance with other guys instead of going exclusively. No worries life is short- You could always with your friends and have fun:) Trust me when I was your age I was the same way. hehe Be careful not to act desperate. That is NOT attractive I'm sure you are a pretty and smart girl so just have confidence in yourself. If you want ask him out go for it. But know you can always go alone and have fun too.
Good luck sista!
Let me tell you something my dear; no guy is worth dying for! I hope you remember that.
You are 13, and you shouldnt be worried about going on dates or kissing boys. What is the dance all about? Is it something you absolutely have to attend? At your age, if it's something you have to attend that needs a partner, I'd advice you to grab a cousin of yours and go. Never put yourself under unnecessary pressure. If it's just for fun, rather stay at home than have to stress about finding a partner. Please!!!
I think you need to cool it for a couple of years.
He may not be intrested in you. Find some1 that you like and likes you 2. Some1 that you can talk 2 easily.
Look pretty, and play hard to getI need a date for a dance this month any ideas I NEED ADVICE!?
OK. . . well all you need to do is go to the dance with your friends, if he really wants to go to the dance with you he'd ask you or you should ask him when theres nobody around.
Just ask him. Unless you look like a heffer, he'll probably say yes.
I don't think he likes you. Talk to the other guy maybe he'll take you. No guy is to die for (thats why women always go first, guys die for us). But talk to the other guy if you went out with him. The other guy if you liek him that bad ask him. And if he says no e like w/e. If he says yes try to hang out with him more but not alot you don't want him to think that you are annoying.
Calm down first! You can also go by yourself and dance with other guys instead of going exclusively. No worries life is short- You could always with your friends and have fun:) Trust me when I was your age I was the same way. hehe Be careful not to act desperate. That is NOT attractive I'm sure you are a pretty and smart girl so just have confidence in yourself. If you want ask him out go for it. But know you can always go alone and have fun too.
Good luck sista!
Let me tell you something my dear; no guy is worth dying for! I hope you remember that.
You are 13, and you shouldnt be worried about going on dates or kissing boys. What is the dance all about? Is it something you absolutely have to attend? At your age, if it's something you have to attend that needs a partner, I'd advice you to grab a cousin of yours and go. Never put yourself under unnecessary pressure. If it's just for fun, rather stay at home than have to stress about finding a partner. Please!!!
I think you need to cool it for a couple of years.
He may not be intrested in you. Find some1 that you like and likes you 2. Some1 that you can talk 2 easily.
First date/Follow up...Did I make the right move? Advice Please. Thanks!?
There was a lovely girl doing a short internship near me (she lives 4 hours away) We went out a couple of times on group outings. Then we had dinner one night. She came over to my place the second night. We kissed at end of night. She left for her home the next night. For the next couple of weeks,I felt like she was hard to get a hold of;one night she said she'll call and didnt. I'm in medical residency so my time is limited so I gave up on her because I felt she didnt care. She eventually wrote to me saying that she's been busy. Plus we were on facebook and I could see that she was contacting others so I know she wasnt that busy. I have since removed her as facebook friend (possible mistake) because it bothered me. Anyhow, a friend was telling me I should tried more instead of just kissing. Well...I still think about her alot. BTW we are of different culture backgrounds, she's white and I'm Caribbean, she said had no boyfriend. Maybe I wasnt patient enough? Am I thinking clearlyFirst date/Follow up...Did I make the right move? Advice Please. Thanks!?
You did the right thing.
It's obvious she has no time for you.I'm not condemning her.........she's busy with her own life.
It's time to move on and find someone close by who cares for you and wants to spend time with you.
Good Luck in your residency.I'm sure that comes first anyway.First date/Follow up...Did I make the right move? Advice Please. Thanks!?
Don't sit around and wait for her. If she likes you she will come to you. Just get out there and meet new people.
maybe she wanted a fling while she was there and ur the guy she choose and now that she is home she wants her life 2 go back 2 the way it was b4. leave her alone and let her contact you.
no she is not interested she is banging her man back home and does not have time for boys from the caribbean. she wanted a real man
it was a casual thing....
love just happenes bro it does'nt see your colour and by the way if she is yours than she will be withyou but if she is not than there is nothing you can do ;)
It doesn't sound like you came on to strong, dude....unless she didn't want to be kissed. Did she seem ';into'; the kiss? If a girl was putting me off like that I would surely move on and find some other girl...either she's playing way to hard to get or she's just not interested. If she's playing hard to get it doesn't seem like she's being very nice about it, because it's been a couple of weeks that she hasn't contacted you. I'm guessing that since she took the time to write to you instead of calling, she's probably not interested in going out with you. Sorry dude! :-(
Good luck finding another girl...there's plenty more out there so don't beat yourself up over this one.
You did the right thing.
It's obvious she has no time for you.I'm not condemning her.........she's busy with her own life.
It's time to move on and find someone close by who cares for you and wants to spend time with you.
Good Luck in your residency.I'm sure that comes first anyway.First date/Follow up...Did I make the right move? Advice Please. Thanks!?
Don't sit around and wait for her. If she likes you she will come to you. Just get out there and meet new people.
maybe she wanted a fling while she was there and ur the guy she choose and now that she is home she wants her life 2 go back 2 the way it was b4. leave her alone and let her contact you.
no she is not interested she is banging her man back home and does not have time for boys from the caribbean. she wanted a real man
it was a casual thing....
love just happenes bro it does'nt see your colour and by the way if she is yours than she will be withyou but if she is not than there is nothing you can do ;)
It doesn't sound like you came on to strong, dude....unless she didn't want to be kissed. Did she seem ';into'; the kiss? If a girl was putting me off like that I would surely move on and find some other girl...either she's playing way to hard to get or she's just not interested. If she's playing hard to get it doesn't seem like she's being very nice about it, because it's been a couple of weeks that she hasn't contacted you. I'm guessing that since she took the time to write to you instead of calling, she's probably not interested in going out with you. Sorry dude! :-(
Good luck finding another girl...there's plenty more out there so don't beat yourself up over this one.
Need dating advice please. I've been dating this guy for almost a month and....................?
.....we were hanging out at his place tonight when his ex shows up at his door. He told me they broke up a year because she wanted to see other people. He told me she keeps coming back to him when it doesn't work out for her,.
He is a really cool guy and I do believe what he says.... What should I do? Any advice is appreciated...thanks!Need dating advice please. I've been dating this guy for almost a month and....................?
well he probably really doesnt care about his ex at all since he hasnt taken her back any of the times she has wanted to. if you are ever in contact with her again you really need to put her in her place. she isnt his gf anymore and needs to let him live his lifeNeed dating advice please. I've been dating this guy for almost a month and....................?
well i mean its difficult to handle that kind of thing but just take care of whats yours.
J.D
He is a really cool guy and I do believe what he says.... What should I do? Any advice is appreciated...thanks!Need dating advice please. I've been dating this guy for almost a month and....................?
well he probably really doesnt care about his ex at all since he hasnt taken her back any of the times she has wanted to. if you are ever in contact with her again you really need to put her in her place. she isnt his gf anymore and needs to let him live his lifeNeed dating advice please. I've been dating this guy for almost a month and....................?
well i mean its difficult to handle that kind of thing but just take care of whats yours.
J.D
Is there anyone who can give me advice about dating an older guy ?
Because i'm turning 18 in June and i never had a boyfriend before, never been kissed, or had any personal experiences with a guy so i'm kinda new to this and I don't know anything about relationships at all. and i'm also looking for a older man who's more mature, and respectful towards women who knows how to treat a lady. last but not least, honest.Is there anyone who can give me advice about dating an older guy ?
if you never had a boyfriend or nothing i dont think you should be looking for an older man or any man really wait for them to come to you quit beggin' EWW!!! but i dont think you should date older men especially inexperienced they will take advantage of you mentally and u never had a man so you're gonna be so infatuated and let him you wont see it. dont be in such a rushIs there anyone who can give me advice about dating an older guy ?
Well they're going to have certain expectations of what you should do if you're their girlfriend. I'm not sure if you're going to be ready for them. But there are good ones out there. I like the older ones too, they seem to appreciate us more and aren't as self-centered.
guys are pigs at all ages
but older guys do know how to treat you
but they might not take you serious and might want more than you do
theyve already dated and are ready to settle down.
well hun, 2 be honest if u can find a guy who is older and respectful ask him if he has a brother. all guys r some wat jerks i learned the hard way
go with some1 younger in this case
I don't know what you want to know. What advice do you want? Just look for someone who makes you feel good about yourself and makes you smile age should have nothing to do with it.
there are guys like that i guess, but im not positive. just what ever you do dont go too much older, cause then its just gross. haha
hope this helps
ok first of all make sure to treat him nice make him feel comfortable with you and dress nice in a clothing that would suprise him alot.
old guys are dishonest and dont know how to treat ladies just like the young guys
but the difference is..... they are OLDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
this aint a datin site ..
if you never had a boyfriend or nothing i dont think you should be looking for an older man or any man really wait for them to come to you quit beggin' EWW!!! but i dont think you should date older men especially inexperienced they will take advantage of you mentally and u never had a man so you're gonna be so infatuated and let him you wont see it. dont be in such a rushIs there anyone who can give me advice about dating an older guy ?
Well they're going to have certain expectations of what you should do if you're their girlfriend. I'm not sure if you're going to be ready for them. But there are good ones out there. I like the older ones too, they seem to appreciate us more and aren't as self-centered.
guys are pigs at all ages
but older guys do know how to treat you
but they might not take you serious and might want more than you do
theyve already dated and are ready to settle down.
well hun, 2 be honest if u can find a guy who is older and respectful ask him if he has a brother. all guys r some wat jerks i learned the hard way
go with some1 younger in this case
I don't know what you want to know. What advice do you want? Just look for someone who makes you feel good about yourself and makes you smile age should have nothing to do with it.
there are guys like that i guess, but im not positive. just what ever you do dont go too much older, cause then its just gross. haha
hope this helps
ok first of all make sure to treat him nice make him feel comfortable with you and dress nice in a clothing that would suprise him alot.
old guys are dishonest and dont know how to treat ladies just like the young guys
but the difference is..... they are OLDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
this aint a datin site ..
Went on a first date, went well, exchanged a few texts that evening. Text after a day, no reply. Any advice?
Date was the first time we met.Went on a first date, went well, exchanged a few texts that evening. Text after a day, no reply. Any advice?
Either chase her up or leave itWent on a first date, went well, exchanged a few texts that evening. Text after a day, no reply. Any advice?
Think about wether you really like her or not.
Two choices: 1. just wait untill she texts back, you might find she texts you in a few days with a very good reason of why she couldn't text you back.
2. text her asking if she would like to do it again. plan to go somewhere and plan a date, and see if she replies.
=] x
Call her and if no answer leave a message, if no answer/reply, move on.
go over to her place and ask her whats worng or possibly send her some flowers and ask her out again.
Call her up.. If she says she is busy... Move on... U have a lot ;)
Give it a chance. Wait a week, make sure you dont send it again, or send one saying ';why are you not texting me back';. Relax all should be ok.
see the dating is nothing but a pass time and definitely the expenses will be borne by u as u r male and hence they take all the pleasure of the world by saying just few words which u think is a love. But to very be frank, girls of today are not at all sincere in love so u too either do the same thing with others or dont do dating at all and when the time will come u will get ur partner.Trust ur parents if ur an indian.They will choose the best for u.
Either she is busy, or she really did not think you two clicked.eye lips
Either chase her up or leave itWent on a first date, went well, exchanged a few texts that evening. Text after a day, no reply. Any advice?
Think about wether you really like her or not.
Two choices: 1. just wait untill she texts back, you might find she texts you in a few days with a very good reason of why she couldn't text you back.
2. text her asking if she would like to do it again. plan to go somewhere and plan a date, and see if she replies.
=] x
Call her and if no answer leave a message, if no answer/reply, move on.
go over to her place and ask her whats worng or possibly send her some flowers and ask her out again.
Call her up.. If she says she is busy... Move on... U have a lot ;)
Give it a chance. Wait a week, make sure you dont send it again, or send one saying ';why are you not texting me back';. Relax all should be ok.
see the dating is nothing but a pass time and definitely the expenses will be borne by u as u r male and hence they take all the pleasure of the world by saying just few words which u think is a love. But to very be frank, girls of today are not at all sincere in love so u too either do the same thing with others or dont do dating at all and when the time will come u will get ur partner.Trust ur parents if ur an indian.They will choose the best for u.
Either she is busy, or she really did not think you two clicked.
I'm 16 and need serious help with teen dating advice?
Ok, so on saturday im taking this girl from my sat class out on a date... i m not very good at this but anyway
1)Shes coming to my neighborhood should I
a)take the train back with her
b)take a cab back with her
c)send her in a cab
d)send her on the train...
also, i was thinking about sushi or some type of dinner any suggestions, clothes, flowers? ect...I'm 16 and need serious help with teen dating advice?
aite my ***, let me help you out.
first off take either train/cab back with her( which ever is cheapest on your wallet), sushi would be a kool date actually, no flowers, or candy thats little too much for first date, save that for 2nd or 3rd. clothing hmm wear your best shirt, but comfortable pants, your going be eating and whatever else you at else want to have your elgs and pelvis area comfortable, also bring a sweater so she can use it later on in the date or ride home :). when your in cab/train with her, wrap your arms around her, talk about whatever ya'll be talking about. go for the hug when its her stop, if she wants a kiss, she'll give it too you, if not wait for 2nd and 3rd dateI'm 16 and need serious help with teen dating advice?
i agree with staying with her jeez you cant just leave the girl and oh boy your 16 why can't you drive?
Well anyways doing what she wants is great but you should have a plan just in case she cant decide what to do on a moments notice ( which happens a lot) SOOO
plan it out like flowers are too much for a first date maybe the second.
i think you should wear jeans and a nice t-shirt collared but dont look gay. AND sushi or pizaa is a GREAT idea =)
ok ur 16 does she drive? do you?? dinner and a movie..thats a teen thing sushi??? how old are you
I think a train would be more romantic and i would make sure she likes sushi before you take her to a place that serves it, if it is a first date go out for something simple like pizza or pasta its fun and its a great place to get to know one another. If you really like this girl then I would bring her 1 rose because its sweet and something she will always remember
well no matter what u do go with her ok they dont wanna b alone in a cab or a train ok go with her. She wants to be with u and dont be afraid to show her some affection. well flowers maybe a rose to show her beauty. Clothes make it nice some khacki shorts and a polo dude.
Dinner whatever she likes dude.
you 16 dont over do it, take the train with her maby bring her 1 flower, dinners lame if you do it have somthing planed for after, like a chill spot like park or some where secluded out side so you can talk and kiss if your luckeyhight places with good views are good.
no you just hold her hands and then give her a kiss back home on bus or whatever she takes. If it is night time you could send a cab but if not then no. Take her out don't stay at home.
well you should take a cab back with her for it is more private and she will feel protected by you :D
you should take her out to eat somehwere calm where you guys can talk and get to know eachother.
as for clothes, it really depents where youre going. you don't want to look too dressed up for the place youre gonna go to. As for the flowers, think of her personality. Do you think she would like those? or do you think she would feel weird about it. Girls like flowers for the most part. But you never know.
hehe thats so cute, um, send her in a cab unless she wants you to come, next ask her where she wants to go for food. You don't want to take her to a place that she found out that she wouldn't like. That would make the date uncomfortable. And for entertainment.....outdoor movie place, the park, your favorite place on earth, a cool music place, build a bear (you can have a lot of fun with that! It would be funny too!) a carnival, a racecar track
You know what go with the flow! It would be wierd to go out with a guy that has the whole night planned out. Be spontanious! Its always cool to have a guy like that! Just keep in mind that you want to have fun, go to places both of you like, and surprise her! Dont bring flowers, they die anyway. Go to a random place in the city and have fun!
DO ANYTHING SHE WANTS!
yes i would say take the train with her and find out what she likes and take her on her idea of a perfect date.
Stay with her the entire way.
1)Shes coming to my neighborhood should I
a)take the train back with her
b)take a cab back with her
c)send her in a cab
d)send her on the train...
also, i was thinking about sushi or some type of dinner any suggestions, clothes, flowers? ect...I'm 16 and need serious help with teen dating advice?
aite my ***, let me help you out.
first off take either train/cab back with her( which ever is cheapest on your wallet), sushi would be a kool date actually, no flowers, or candy thats little too much for first date, save that for 2nd or 3rd. clothing hmm wear your best shirt, but comfortable pants, your going be eating and whatever else you at else want to have your elgs and pelvis area comfortable, also bring a sweater so she can use it later on in the date or ride home :). when your in cab/train with her, wrap your arms around her, talk about whatever ya'll be talking about. go for the hug when its her stop, if she wants a kiss, she'll give it too you, if not wait for 2nd and 3rd dateI'm 16 and need serious help with teen dating advice?
i agree with staying with her jeez you cant just leave the girl and oh boy your 16 why can't you drive?
Well anyways doing what she wants is great but you should have a plan just in case she cant decide what to do on a moments notice ( which happens a lot) SOOO
plan it out like flowers are too much for a first date maybe the second.
i think you should wear jeans and a nice t-shirt collared but dont look gay. AND sushi or pizaa is a GREAT idea =)
ok ur 16 does she drive? do you?? dinner and a movie..thats a teen thing sushi??? how old are you
I think a train would be more romantic and i would make sure she likes sushi before you take her to a place that serves it, if it is a first date go out for something simple like pizza or pasta its fun and its a great place to get to know one another. If you really like this girl then I would bring her 1 rose because its sweet and something she will always remember
well no matter what u do go with her ok they dont wanna b alone in a cab or a train ok go with her. She wants to be with u and dont be afraid to show her some affection. well flowers maybe a rose to show her beauty. Clothes make it nice some khacki shorts and a polo dude.
Dinner whatever she likes dude.
you 16 dont over do it, take the train with her maby bring her 1 flower, dinners lame if you do it have somthing planed for after, like a chill spot like park or some where secluded out side so you can talk and kiss if your luckeyhight places with good views are good.
no you just hold her hands and then give her a kiss back home on bus or whatever she takes. If it is night time you could send a cab but if not then no. Take her out don't stay at home.
well you should take a cab back with her for it is more private and she will feel protected by you :D
you should take her out to eat somehwere calm where you guys can talk and get to know eachother.
as for clothes, it really depents where youre going. you don't want to look too dressed up for the place youre gonna go to. As for the flowers, think of her personality. Do you think she would like those? or do you think she would feel weird about it. Girls like flowers for the most part. But you never know.
hehe thats so cute, um, send her in a cab unless she wants you to come, next ask her where she wants to go for food. You don't want to take her to a place that she found out that she wouldn't like. That would make the date uncomfortable. And for entertainment.....outdoor movie place, the park, your favorite place on earth, a cool music place, build a bear (you can have a lot of fun with that! It would be funny too!) a carnival, a racecar track
You know what go with the flow! It would be wierd to go out with a guy that has the whole night planned out. Be spontanious! Its always cool to have a guy like that! Just keep in mind that you want to have fun, go to places both of you like, and surprise her! Dont bring flowers, they die anyway. Go to a random place in the city and have fun!
DO ANYTHING SHE WANTS!
yes i would say take the train with her and find out what she likes and take her on her idea of a perfect date.
Stay with her the entire way.
Guys. I need advice- I think i turn every guy i date into a complete a**hole...?
So I have the worst luck with guys so far i have had guys cheat on me , a guy used too beat me up, a guy forgot my name, a guy cheated on me with a guy!, guys who try to have sex with me well im sleeping/ passed out, and more then one of my ex's is currently in jail, all these guys seem wonderful when i meet them and every time i think oh they are some much nicer then the last guy and everytime they end up worse so my question is do i do it are they nice guys until they meet me or am i just a horablle judge of caractor? and either way how can i have beeter relshipsGuys. I need advice- I think i turn every guy i date into a complete a**hole...?
Maybe you ought not to rush into things. Get to know the guy and then make character judgments.
And in order to meet educated guys takes a class. Your last two sentences: ';....am i just a horablle judge of caractor? and either way how can i have beeter relships'; speaks to not doing your homework.
And you don't do your homework with guys.Guys. I need advice- I think i turn every guy i date into a complete a**hole...?
you need to work on you. maybe you can talk to a relationship expert. or better yet...try this website...
www.heartless-bitches.com look under the manipulator files (right column) and you will find all the information you need to how to detect the wrong kind of person.
You have to change your energy. It seems like you attract jerks. You can change the equation. Nothing you do should make a man beat you or try to have sex with you without your consent.
Maybe change the way you meet men. I've met wonderful guys when I least expected it at parks, supermarkets, networking events and church.
Don't give up. Your Mr. Right is out there for you!
Take your time with them, and don't get involved too quickly. Watch what they say, and if it matches up with what they do. Sounds almost as if you are jumping into these relationships wihout really getting to know the people you are dealing with.
make no commitment to any of the boys you meet, and definitely DON'T sleep with them, until you can be reasonably confident they are good, straightforward SAFE gentlemen.
FYI - this is a process that can take months, not days or weeks.
i am sure there is a good guy out there, its hard finding good guys.
honey you don't turn them into @ssholes...they came to you that way, it just took a while for it to show up!
good luck on that and stop hanging out at the bars! lol!
Please do yourself and the rest of the world a favor, dont have any children until you figure this all out.
OMG, Jenny...that is the funniest headline ever...I'm cracking up and I'm at work...geez, you can't be funny...
Perhaps the issue is that you keep meeting guys are full of sh!$ when they meet you. Maybe you just haven't met a real man yet that's true from day one...
Yes, maybe you have a malfunctioning loser-dar....
i think that you should try slowing down on the guys a lil and well try making some guy friends instead believe you me chilling will us guys has its plus for it gives lil insights as in what the average guy may present. so it may help in the picking of a guy who may present such features that you will find ok and well at least you will have a idea of what to expect from us.
as to you being a bad judge when to guys well simply take a god look at tat guy and well take time to get to him instead of doing certain things with them first.
Where do you meet these guys?
try meeting guys at the library lol cant go wrong their
It is not by mere chance that you always land the 'winners'! There is something in your personality that attracts men that are not the best choices, to say the least! We often tend to subconsciously punish ourselves for things we feel are our faults. It is not easy pinpointing exactly what is is in out lives that makes us be this way. There is nothing better than the aid of a seasoned professional to help you sort this out. Try to seek the advice of one before you end up really hurt or worse! Good luck!
Not you is them they are just pretending to be nice to get in your pants.
Get yourself a nice Canadian guy.
Maybe you ought not to rush into things. Get to know the guy and then make character judgments.
And in order to meet educated guys takes a class. Your last two sentences: ';....am i just a horablle judge of caractor? and either way how can i have beeter relships'; speaks to not doing your homework.
And you don't do your homework with guys.Guys. I need advice- I think i turn every guy i date into a complete a**hole...?
you need to work on you. maybe you can talk to a relationship expert. or better yet...try this website...
www.heartless-bitches.com look under the manipulator files (right column) and you will find all the information you need to how to detect the wrong kind of person.
You have to change your energy. It seems like you attract jerks. You can change the equation. Nothing you do should make a man beat you or try to have sex with you without your consent.
Maybe change the way you meet men. I've met wonderful guys when I least expected it at parks, supermarkets, networking events and church.
Don't give up. Your Mr. Right is out there for you!
Take your time with them, and don't get involved too quickly. Watch what they say, and if it matches up with what they do. Sounds almost as if you are jumping into these relationships wihout really getting to know the people you are dealing with.
make no commitment to any of the boys you meet, and definitely DON'T sleep with them, until you can be reasonably confident they are good, straightforward SAFE gentlemen.
FYI - this is a process that can take months, not days or weeks.
i am sure there is a good guy out there, its hard finding good guys.
honey you don't turn them into @ssholes...they came to you that way, it just took a while for it to show up!
good luck on that and stop hanging out at the bars! lol!
Please do yourself and the rest of the world a favor, dont have any children until you figure this all out.
OMG, Jenny...that is the funniest headline ever...I'm cracking up and I'm at work...geez, you can't be funny...
Perhaps the issue is that you keep meeting guys are full of sh!$ when they meet you. Maybe you just haven't met a real man yet that's true from day one...
Yes, maybe you have a malfunctioning loser-dar....
i think that you should try slowing down on the guys a lil and well try making some guy friends instead believe you me chilling will us guys has its plus for it gives lil insights as in what the average guy may present. so it may help in the picking of a guy who may present such features that you will find ok and well at least you will have a idea of what to expect from us.
as to you being a bad judge when to guys well simply take a god look at tat guy and well take time to get to him instead of doing certain things with them first.
Where do you meet these guys?
try meeting guys at the library lol cant go wrong their
It is not by mere chance that you always land the 'winners'! There is something in your personality that attracts men that are not the best choices, to say the least! We often tend to subconsciously punish ourselves for things we feel are our faults. It is not easy pinpointing exactly what is is in out lives that makes us be this way. There is nothing better than the aid of a seasoned professional to help you sort this out. Try to seek the advice of one before you end up really hurt or worse! Good luck!
Not you is them they are just pretending to be nice to get in your pants.
Get yourself a nice Canadian guy.
I want to PCS sooner than my arrival date to Ft Lewis is AUG 10 please help (first re-enlistment need advice)?
I want to PCS sooner than my arrival date to Ft Lewis is august10 please help. I'm on rear detachment in a stopped loss unit and our unit is due back on January, but the stop loss is over on June 1st (I know most stop loss last for three months after re-deployment). I'd like to leave sooner than before the stop loss is over but any thing before august. would be great. The reason for wanting to leave so badly is my wife is pregnant and her due date is May 4th. We already have one toddler; it just would be so much simpler to move across country with just one baby. Plus, we're all really tired of Ft Drum, after 3 years of being here we're very stir crazy. All still not enough reason for leaving early in colonel鈥檚 eyes. ThanksI want to PCS sooner than my arrival date to Ft Lewis is AUG 10 please help (first re-enlistment need advice)?
burn your babyI want to PCS sooner than my arrival date to Ft Lewis is AUG 10 please help (first re-enlistment need advice)?
yeah, those complaints are really not grounds for an early arrival date. is the colonel the approving authority? i know alot of 4187's get stopped in their tracks because of disapprovals, but if they are not the final authority, they should keep going. i thought that it had to go all the way to the HRC. i know you are ready to get out of there, but traveling with two small children isn't quite so bad. i flew with 3 children under the age of 5 from germany to hawaii by myself. it may be better that your wife has the baby in a place where you know and are comfortable and settled at. trying to move when she is so far along is just going to stress her out.
I understand your reason for wanting to be home for the birth of your child and to help your wife. It is what a good husband and father would want to do.
But obviously you have been in the military long enough to know that the needs of the army supersede all else.
When I served as an Army officer I found that the motto,
';Mission First, People Always' pretty much summed up how things worked. Not much comfort if your situation, I know.
The only thing I can think of is that if, God forbid, your wife's Ob/Gyn certifies that it will be a difficult...perhaps dangerous birth, you might be able to have your Colonel reconsider his decision. That's the best I've got.
Good luck to you and to you wife for a safe delivery.
Form 4187.
It's ninety days of guaranteed stabalization. It's meant to help you. You can waive anything that's meant to help you. The Colonel is perverting the program and using it to serve his own purposes. Talk to his boss.
All you have to do is check with your unit. It's really that easy. Most of the time they LOVE people to come in early. At my husband's first assignment we had a report date of April 6th and he called and asked if he could come earlier and we ended up getting here on Feb 6. It never hurts to ask and plus it shows your initiative to work and that will always reflect well on you! We are Air Force however and not Army but I would think things would work the same! remeber there is always someone higher to go to. I'm sure the Colonel has a boss, ask the Commander of your unit. If the Colonel is the Commander, ayou can ploitely ask the base Commander.
Congrats on the new baby! I hope you and yours enjoy Ft. Lewis!
burn your babyI want to PCS sooner than my arrival date to Ft Lewis is AUG 10 please help (first re-enlistment need advice)?
yeah, those complaints are really not grounds for an early arrival date. is the colonel the approving authority? i know alot of 4187's get stopped in their tracks because of disapprovals, but if they are not the final authority, they should keep going. i thought that it had to go all the way to the HRC. i know you are ready to get out of there, but traveling with two small children isn't quite so bad. i flew with 3 children under the age of 5 from germany to hawaii by myself. it may be better that your wife has the baby in a place where you know and are comfortable and settled at. trying to move when she is so far along is just going to stress her out.
I understand your reason for wanting to be home for the birth of your child and to help your wife. It is what a good husband and father would want to do.
But obviously you have been in the military long enough to know that the needs of the army supersede all else.
When I served as an Army officer I found that the motto,
';Mission First, People Always' pretty much summed up how things worked. Not much comfort if your situation, I know.
The only thing I can think of is that if, God forbid, your wife's Ob/Gyn certifies that it will be a difficult...perhaps dangerous birth, you might be able to have your Colonel reconsider his decision. That's the best I've got.
Good luck to you and to you wife for a safe delivery.
Form 4187.
It's ninety days of guaranteed stabalization. It's meant to help you. You can waive anything that's meant to help you. The Colonel is perverting the program and using it to serve his own purposes. Talk to his boss.
All you have to do is check with your unit. It's really that easy. Most of the time they LOVE people to come in early. At my husband's first assignment we had a report date of April 6th and he called and asked if he could come earlier and we ended up getting here on Feb 6. It never hurts to ask and plus it shows your initiative to work and that will always reflect well on you! We are Air Force however and not Army but I would think things would work the same! remeber there is always someone higher to go to. I'm sure the Colonel has a boss, ask the Commander of your unit. If the Colonel is the Commander, ayou can ploitely ask the base Commander.
Congrats on the new baby! I hope you and yours enjoy Ft. Lewis!
Sex and Dating Advice?
I know it's a little old-fashioned, but I've decided to save sex for when I get married (I have my own religious/moral reasons). My question is, at what point in a relationship should you tell that to your partner. Should it be said up front, or wait a while?
Also, if you have chosen this too, how did it work out in your relationships?
Thanks!Sex and Dating Advice?
finally found a girl to say congrats too! wow I don't believe I've found a girl these that still respect herself like this, that have been said I did knew my gf so well that I did already knew when she wanted to do it. but if it must be told at some point and no wait for it to just come up, say it when u get into the part in the relation when sex talk just start to come up... gratz girl!! :) btw **** you all who think sex is everything abt relationships and compare every relation to a car and u need to test it... a girl's body that u love isn't a damn car for god's sake!Sex and Dating Advice?
Thats good for you and if the guy really loves you then he would really appreciate you. If he doesnt hes not worth you. So anytime when you get to a point where you think things could go on and get serious,. But dont wait too long. Its best if he knows your values up front. You would know when. Just hang on and wait for it. It would be silly to tell that to every guy you date. He would think you forward because maybe he didnt even want to sleep with you. Then on the subject. Its actually a catch 22 situation but what you doing is the best and correct thing to do. But then you have to accept what you getting too. Sex wise. And you will have to be prepared to work at it a lot. And dont expect fireworks from the start. But you will see when you get there. One problem is that guys are sexually active by themselves from a young age (12 or 13) and not all girls are. So guys have a head start in most cases. Its got to do with your body's sexual developement. So many girls have their very first sexual experience when they marry at say 20 and in many cases their bodies never developed sexually. Sexual developement is like reading writing and walking, If you wait till you 20 you will struggle to learn those. Same with sexual developement. So thats what makes it tricky. So my opinion is for girls that want to wait need to do their homework. Like guys. I think girls was made to marry at a very young age but today girls marry later and thats where the trouble could come in with sexual differences.
I also am waiting to be married before i have sex. I didn't really know what i was going to do in tell i met the boyfriend i am with, at this time in my life every one around me is getting pregnant and i don't want that for myself. so that is why i have decided not to have sex in tell marriage. when me and my boyfriend were in the heat of the moment and he started taking off my pants i said to him, ';I am not ready'; and we stopped what we were doing to talk about it. he understands fully and he is 3 years older and is a virgin. we are both now waiting till marriage for sex.
i hope this has answered your question
Brittney
Firstly, I have to congratulate you on your wonderful decision. It is sad that they aren't many people like you and me nowadays. I have chosen this too. Perhaps you should tell your partner what you feel really comfortable about it, when you know it's the right time. As for me, it worked out wonderfully and it's a decision I'm glad I made because I love her so much more now.
I think that's very smart of you to make this decision. Uhm, you should tell them when you've starting the relationship, not twoards the middle, just when you start getting to know eachother. Because you really want to find out if this guy is really going to stick around for that :) You gotta tell him in the beginning, and if he doesnt like it; you know what he wanted from you. If he stays, then this may be the guy ;D
I wouldn't suggest mentioning this on the first date, it could ruin your relationship, create awkwardness, and be a major turnoff. Just let nature take its course while building up your relationship. I'm all for saving sex til marriage. I would mention it the first time he kinda suggests that you ';do it';. Do what your heart tells you but this is my advice. Good luck and stick to your values =]
ok you should not have sex when you not married at all. And im glad that u quite the thing is one day while you with him tell him that, make him understand what u saying and if he say ok its mean that he really love u but if he say no he doesn't love u at all he just want to use u ok try to talk to him that's my advice to u
You should mention that you don't believe in premarital sex up front with your partner before things get serious. You need to know that the two of you are on the same page from the beginning. That way no one gets hurt or disillusioned. Trust. ';-()
It would be unfair to get involved in a relationship with someone and then X amount of time down the road, they want to have sex and you tell them no..... it's best to let 'em know upfront
first , i wanna congradulate you for makin the best choice. be upfront with him. it will let you know if he is intersted in you, or just your body.
AS SOON AS HE TRIES TO MAKE A MOVE.I THINK IS THE BEST THING TO DO,WHAT CAN YOU LOSE BUT MAYBE A GUY THAT IS NOT WILLING TO WAIT FOR WHAT YOU WANT.ITS ALL ABOUT YOU.GO FOR IT.
maybe you could bring it up when you're doing light kissing with him. might soften the blow but it's respectable of you to saw yourself
Mine played out perfectly.
If they love you, if they truly love you then they'll wait with you.
It's your decision. I told mine up front, so he wouldnt try to pull anything.
Good Luck, girl!
I think as soon as you realize that it is going to be a relationship.
when you realise you will eventually have sex, he might not want to have sex either
at the beginning because you and him will be in it for the right reasons and he wont get the wrong idea of you
..good luck with that..let me ask you this first..
would you buy a used car without taking it for a test drive first? or just walk in and buy it and drive off with it??...
since a good healthy sexual relationship is importnat to a marriage..what if your husband is very inadequate in the bedroom and cant satisfy your needs? and your sex life is absolutely miserbale!! what will you do..?? just decide to live that way the rest of your life?
what is it with people thinking they have to wait?? what does that do anyways?? whats the point behind it? to be honest i think any guy would rather have a woman with a little experince and he knows she loves being with him..sexually as well a intimatly and mentally..as much as a guy loves the fact of having a virgin..when it come to marrying her,,Iam sure he wants to make sure all is good in the bedroom department before saying I do,,then later saying what did I do?.....have sex enjoy yourslef..what the point in waiting..what actually do you get from waiting?? it can be a HUGE disapointment, alet down,,but now your married and stuck..ha ha then what?? he will end up cheating ..if the sex life at home sucks and thats a 100% gurantee
Also, if you have chosen this too, how did it work out in your relationships?
Thanks!Sex and Dating Advice?
finally found a girl to say congrats too! wow I don't believe I've found a girl these that still respect herself like this, that have been said I did knew my gf so well that I did already knew when she wanted to do it. but if it must be told at some point and no wait for it to just come up, say it when u get into the part in the relation when sex talk just start to come up... gratz girl!! :) btw **** you all who think sex is everything abt relationships and compare every relation to a car and u need to test it... a girl's body that u love isn't a damn car for god's sake!Sex and Dating Advice?
Thats good for you and if the guy really loves you then he would really appreciate you. If he doesnt hes not worth you. So anytime when you get to a point where you think things could go on and get serious,. But dont wait too long. Its best if he knows your values up front. You would know when. Just hang on and wait for it. It would be silly to tell that to every guy you date. He would think you forward because maybe he didnt even want to sleep with you. Then on the subject. Its actually a catch 22 situation but what you doing is the best and correct thing to do. But then you have to accept what you getting too. Sex wise. And you will have to be prepared to work at it a lot. And dont expect fireworks from the start. But you will see when you get there. One problem is that guys are sexually active by themselves from a young age (12 or 13) and not all girls are. So guys have a head start in most cases. Its got to do with your body's sexual developement. So many girls have their very first sexual experience when they marry at say 20 and in many cases their bodies never developed sexually. Sexual developement is like reading writing and walking, If you wait till you 20 you will struggle to learn those. Same with sexual developement. So thats what makes it tricky. So my opinion is for girls that want to wait need to do their homework. Like guys. I think girls was made to marry at a very young age but today girls marry later and thats where the trouble could come in with sexual differences.
I also am waiting to be married before i have sex. I didn't really know what i was going to do in tell i met the boyfriend i am with, at this time in my life every one around me is getting pregnant and i don't want that for myself. so that is why i have decided not to have sex in tell marriage. when me and my boyfriend were in the heat of the moment and he started taking off my pants i said to him, ';I am not ready'; and we stopped what we were doing to talk about it. he understands fully and he is 3 years older and is a virgin. we are both now waiting till marriage for sex.
i hope this has answered your question
Brittney
Firstly, I have to congratulate you on your wonderful decision. It is sad that they aren't many people like you and me nowadays. I have chosen this too. Perhaps you should tell your partner what you feel really comfortable about it, when you know it's the right time. As for me, it worked out wonderfully and it's a decision I'm glad I made because I love her so much more now.
I think that's very smart of you to make this decision. Uhm, you should tell them when you've starting the relationship, not twoards the middle, just when you start getting to know eachother. Because you really want to find out if this guy is really going to stick around for that :) You gotta tell him in the beginning, and if he doesnt like it; you know what he wanted from you. If he stays, then this may be the guy ;D
I wouldn't suggest mentioning this on the first date, it could ruin your relationship, create awkwardness, and be a major turnoff. Just let nature take its course while building up your relationship. I'm all for saving sex til marriage. I would mention it the first time he kinda suggests that you ';do it';. Do what your heart tells you but this is my advice. Good luck and stick to your values =]
ok you should not have sex when you not married at all. And im glad that u quite the thing is one day while you with him tell him that, make him understand what u saying and if he say ok its mean that he really love u but if he say no he doesn't love u at all he just want to use u ok try to talk to him that's my advice to u
You should mention that you don't believe in premarital sex up front with your partner before things get serious. You need to know that the two of you are on the same page from the beginning. That way no one gets hurt or disillusioned. Trust. ';-()
It would be unfair to get involved in a relationship with someone and then X amount of time down the road, they want to have sex and you tell them no..... it's best to let 'em know upfront
first , i wanna congradulate you for makin the best choice. be upfront with him. it will let you know if he is intersted in you, or just your body.
AS SOON AS HE TRIES TO MAKE A MOVE.I THINK IS THE BEST THING TO DO,WHAT CAN YOU LOSE BUT MAYBE A GUY THAT IS NOT WILLING TO WAIT FOR WHAT YOU WANT.ITS ALL ABOUT YOU.GO FOR IT.
maybe you could bring it up when you're doing light kissing with him. might soften the blow but it's respectable of you to saw yourself
Mine played out perfectly.
If they love you, if they truly love you then they'll wait with you.
It's your decision. I told mine up front, so he wouldnt try to pull anything.
Good Luck, girl!
I think as soon as you realize that it is going to be a relationship.
when you realise you will eventually have sex, he might not want to have sex either
at the beginning because you and him will be in it for the right reasons and he wont get the wrong idea of you
..good luck with that..let me ask you this first..
would you buy a used car without taking it for a test drive first? or just walk in and buy it and drive off with it??...
since a good healthy sexual relationship is importnat to a marriage..what if your husband is very inadequate in the bedroom and cant satisfy your needs? and your sex life is absolutely miserbale!! what will you do..?? just decide to live that way the rest of your life?
what is it with people thinking they have to wait?? what does that do anyways?? whats the point behind it? to be honest i think any guy would rather have a woman with a little experince and he knows she loves being with him..sexually as well a intimatly and mentally..as much as a guy loves the fact of having a virgin..when it come to marrying her,,Iam sure he wants to make sure all is good in the bedroom department before saying I do,,then later saying what did I do?.....have sex enjoy yourslef..what the point in waiting..what actually do you get from waiting?? it can be a HUGE disapointment, alet down,,but now your married and stuck..ha ha then what?? he will end up cheating ..if the sex life at home sucks and thats a 100% gurantee
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Ladies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?
We going out on our fourth date. We have fun together, and the conversation is great. we've been going out once a week. She has yet to call me in between dates. I call her every couple of days just to chat and to set up the next date. She always answers when I call and seems excited to talk. Am I over analyzing this? Guess I haven't picked up on any clues on to what she thinks of me, other than that we have fun together. Ladies...please let me know your thoughts and how you handle dating a new guy. ThanksLadies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?
um...it sounds great...youre definietly overanylizingLadies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?
maybe next time after your date. tell her to call you or text you and see if she does.. maybe she just got used to you being the first one to make contact. it's still new maybe she doesn't wanna feel like she's bothering you..
OR she could just not be looking for anything serious.
If she's willing to go out on a fourth date she doesn't hate you. If you want her to call you, then back off a little. Don't ask her out the following week. Give her a little time you miss your company.
you arent over analyzing it..if you are the kind of guy you say you are, she is probably really excited
Well the fact that she picks up and seems excited is good. From what you're saying, I think that you're just overanalyzing the situation. Bottom line..with caller i.d. she wouldn't pick up her phone if she didn't want to talk to you and there probably wouldn't have been a fourth date. The reason she's probably not calling you is that she's afraid to seem overzealous. NO guy likes a too clingy girl and she's more than likely avoiding that stigma with you. Here are some tips to watch with her body language on your next date:
Does she lean in towards you when you are conversing?
If she does, that indicates an interest in what you are saying as well as you.
Does she touch your arm, hand, or knee as she responds to something you've said?
If she's initiating physical contact with you, that indicates that she is interested. Often, when a woman is interested in a man, she will find some way to make contact with him becasue it is how we are biologically built. It indicates a level of comfort with someone whom our bodies consider a potential mate.
When you have a conversation, do her facial expressions mimic your own?
For instance, if you raise your eyebrows to indicate surprise when you are telling a story, does her face also show some sort of surprise. If that is the case than you have her full attention.
Overall, I would probably say that you're just being overly concerned. I hope that the tips help and good luck!
she could just be a busy person, does she have a job? maybe shes been bogged down. Also, she could be worried about seeming clingy, and thats why she doesn't call you and lets you call her. THEN theres the other option that she wants to know that you want her bad, so she is playing hard to get. I wouldn't over-analyse it, because if she didn't want to be with you or she didn't like you then she probably wouldn't sound excited to talk and she wouldn't continue to go out with you. good luck and don't worry, sounds fine to me!
your definitely over analyzing if she didn't like you she wouldn't have answered your calls. she might not have called you yet, because she is shy, and worries that you won't pick up.
Sounds like she does enjoy your company. Maybe she's just taking it slow. Or she likes the fact that you call her. If I were to start dating new guys I would defiantly feel more comfortable with him calling me. From what you say I don't think you should have any worries!!
she may be scared to call you. Just keep calling her and see whats up, take her on another date, but if you think its not going anywhere you will soon find out by another week or so.
as long as she sounds excited to talk to you each time i think shes in to you!!
I think she really likes you.
I can't be sure, though
Sounds like she likes you. Maybe she is just trying to not come on too strong. Why don't you ask her, or kiss her?
So, you both consider them dates? If she thot it was just hanging out then, Uh Oh. So, if you haven't kissed her or done anything serious, lay low for now.
I'm not a girl but you're obviously something new and special for her and she likes being with you, so I'd say that, if you like her back, to keep on doing what you've been doing in previous dates, and then ask if she'd like to go out with you. She seems interested.
You're blind or dumb. Or both. She likes you, well, what else do you need? An airplane with a flag saying YOU'RE HOT!?
I think she likes you, maybe she isn't the type to take the lead the relationship As you get to know each other, maybe talk about how you feel with her.
Hope it goes well.
seems like everything is going well.
i also think that this girl really likes you
maybe keep what you're doing but as time goes on, try your best to not seem desperate
I have the habit of getting to involved and too quickly (and I don't mean sexually) I f i like someone I always want more. And I usually scare them off. So now I have gotten in the habit of letting the guy set the pace, at least at first. Feel her out. wait a lil longer to call if she sees that you didn't call maybe she will pick up and call you.
If it really bothers you tell her after your next date that the next move is hers. you'll wait for her call and her plans for the the next date.
She's a girl, she's probably waiting for you call. To make her feel that you are really interested in her. If you are that worried on your next date just bring it up, it's not as hard as people make it out to be.
Most women wont admit it but we like to be pursued, it makes us feel that you are really into us.
some people just prefer to be approached and maybe she don't want to come off as pushy toward you, by calling you and stuff like that.
I feel you're worrying needlessly. You call her a couple times a wk. %26amp; since you've just started dating, you've got to figure you're actually talking to her on your own a couple times a wk. anyway. Don't try to make it ';over kill';. She seems happy to hear from you when you call, so that's definately a good thing. Just give it more time, get to know one another a bit more, %26amp; you'll have more to talk about the longer you get to know her. I think everything sounds fine the way it is now. Don't worry over nothing! Have fun %26amp; everything sounds OK just the way it is for now. All the best to you...:)
Sounds to me like every thing is going fine ,,,, Just don't blow it and try to speed things up ,,,, She's interested or she wouldn't be showing so much attention ,,,, Leave things the way they are and be patient ,,,, Take things at her speed not what you want it to be ,,,, She's allowing you into her life so be happy with what you have so far and don't get greedy ,,,, //
She doesn't want to seem to needy but if she keeps going on dates with you and you all have fun then keep at it she is just being a woman who doesn't want to seem needy pushy or to desperate
honestly, she's probably busy and she might not get that 'call him' vibe from you yet. Just keep trying, and keeping having fun. If it's ment to be it'll get there.
Well duh she hasn't called you. A lady does not call a man in the early stages of dating....she wants to keep you guessing and chasing. Also, don't expect her to date ONLY you at this point. You are just dating and getting to know one another. YOu are not steady or engaged so just keep calling her a couple times a week and seeing her. After a few more dates if she stops answering the phone or starts declining dates then you will know she gave you a chance but feels 'it' just isn't there.
dont suffocate this girl. Girls really dont like that. Be ';Mr. Smooth';. Don't force her to go on a date with you and if your getting a vibe she doesnt wanna go out don't force it down her throat. i guess im trying to say don't be clingy/overwhelming.
She sounds like she is into you. Some girls just don't like calling the guys because they are nervous to call. They think that is your job. Just see how it goes!
good Luck!
as for the calling thing, she waits for you because she wants to be sure you care for her.
the dating new guy thing, it's not a big deal, she just wants to know that YOU want to call HER.
we never really look at it the other way aorund, so if it sounds like she's excited to talk to you, see probably is.
if you have fun together, then she likes you.
dont worry about it and im sure she cares for you as much as you care for her.
She obviously likes you otherwise she wouldnt answer your calls. And if you feel like youre having a good time together then she probably feels the same.
She might be a little worried about looking too keen though i am always cautious of that.
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um...it sounds great...youre definietly overanylizingLadies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?
maybe next time after your date. tell her to call you or text you and see if she does.. maybe she just got used to you being the first one to make contact. it's still new maybe she doesn't wanna feel like she's bothering you..
OR she could just not be looking for anything serious.
If she's willing to go out on a fourth date she doesn't hate you. If you want her to call you, then back off a little. Don't ask her out the following week. Give her a little time you miss your company.
you arent over analyzing it..if you are the kind of guy you say you are, she is probably really excited
Well the fact that she picks up and seems excited is good. From what you're saying, I think that you're just overanalyzing the situation. Bottom line..with caller i.d. she wouldn't pick up her phone if she didn't want to talk to you and there probably wouldn't have been a fourth date. The reason she's probably not calling you is that she's afraid to seem overzealous. NO guy likes a too clingy girl and she's more than likely avoiding that stigma with you. Here are some tips to watch with her body language on your next date:
Does she lean in towards you when you are conversing?
If she does, that indicates an interest in what you are saying as well as you.
Does she touch your arm, hand, or knee as she responds to something you've said?
If she's initiating physical contact with you, that indicates that she is interested. Often, when a woman is interested in a man, she will find some way to make contact with him becasue it is how we are biologically built. It indicates a level of comfort with someone whom our bodies consider a potential mate.
When you have a conversation, do her facial expressions mimic your own?
For instance, if you raise your eyebrows to indicate surprise when you are telling a story, does her face also show some sort of surprise. If that is the case than you have her full attention.
Overall, I would probably say that you're just being overly concerned. I hope that the tips help and good luck!
she could just be a busy person, does she have a job? maybe shes been bogged down. Also, she could be worried about seeming clingy, and thats why she doesn't call you and lets you call her. THEN theres the other option that she wants to know that you want her bad, so she is playing hard to get. I wouldn't over-analyse it, because if she didn't want to be with you or she didn't like you then she probably wouldn't sound excited to talk and she wouldn't continue to go out with you. good luck and don't worry, sounds fine to me!
your definitely over analyzing if she didn't like you she wouldn't have answered your calls. she might not have called you yet, because she is shy, and worries that you won't pick up.
Sounds like she does enjoy your company. Maybe she's just taking it slow. Or she likes the fact that you call her. If I were to start dating new guys I would defiantly feel more comfortable with him calling me. From what you say I don't think you should have any worries!!
she may be scared to call you. Just keep calling her and see whats up, take her on another date, but if you think its not going anywhere you will soon find out by another week or so.
as long as she sounds excited to talk to you each time i think shes in to you!!
I think she really likes you.
I can't be sure, though
Sounds like she likes you. Maybe she is just trying to not come on too strong. Why don't you ask her, or kiss her?
So, you both consider them dates? If she thot it was just hanging out then, Uh Oh. So, if you haven't kissed her or done anything serious, lay low for now.
I'm not a girl but you're obviously something new and special for her and she likes being with you, so I'd say that, if you like her back, to keep on doing what you've been doing in previous dates, and then ask if she'd like to go out with you. She seems interested.
You're blind or dumb. Or both. She likes you, well, what else do you need? An airplane with a flag saying YOU'RE HOT!?
I think she likes you, maybe she isn't the type to take the lead the relationship As you get to know each other, maybe talk about how you feel with her.
Hope it goes well.
seems like everything is going well.
i also think that this girl really likes you
maybe keep what you're doing but as time goes on, try your best to not seem desperate
I have the habit of getting to involved and too quickly (and I don't mean sexually) I f i like someone I always want more. And I usually scare them off. So now I have gotten in the habit of letting the guy set the pace, at least at first. Feel her out. wait a lil longer to call if she sees that you didn't call maybe she will pick up and call you.
If it really bothers you tell her after your next date that the next move is hers. you'll wait for her call and her plans for the the next date.
She's a girl, she's probably waiting for you call. To make her feel that you are really interested in her. If you are that worried on your next date just bring it up, it's not as hard as people make it out to be.
Most women wont admit it but we like to be pursued, it makes us feel that you are really into us.
some people just prefer to be approached and maybe she don't want to come off as pushy toward you, by calling you and stuff like that.
I feel you're worrying needlessly. You call her a couple times a wk. %26amp; since you've just started dating, you've got to figure you're actually talking to her on your own a couple times a wk. anyway. Don't try to make it ';over kill';. She seems happy to hear from you when you call, so that's definately a good thing. Just give it more time, get to know one another a bit more, %26amp; you'll have more to talk about the longer you get to know her. I think everything sounds fine the way it is now. Don't worry over nothing! Have fun %26amp; everything sounds OK just the way it is for now. All the best to you...:)
Sounds to me like every thing is going fine ,,,, Just don't blow it and try to speed things up ,,,, She's interested or she wouldn't be showing so much attention ,,,, Leave things the way they are and be patient ,,,, Take things at her speed not what you want it to be ,,,, She's allowing you into her life so be happy with what you have so far and don't get greedy ,,,, //
She doesn't want to seem to needy but if she keeps going on dates with you and you all have fun then keep at it she is just being a woman who doesn't want to seem needy pushy or to desperate
honestly, she's probably busy and she might not get that 'call him' vibe from you yet. Just keep trying, and keeping having fun. If it's ment to be it'll get there.
Well duh she hasn't called you. A lady does not call a man in the early stages of dating....she wants to keep you guessing and chasing. Also, don't expect her to date ONLY you at this point. You are just dating and getting to know one another. YOu are not steady or engaged so just keep calling her a couple times a week and seeing her. After a few more dates if she stops answering the phone or starts declining dates then you will know she gave you a chance but feels 'it' just isn't there.
dont suffocate this girl. Girls really dont like that. Be ';Mr. Smooth';. Don't force her to go on a date with you and if your getting a vibe she doesnt wanna go out don't force it down her throat. i guess im trying to say don't be clingy/overwhelming.
She sounds like she is into you. Some girls just don't like calling the guys because they are nervous to call. They think that is your job. Just see how it goes!
good Luck!
as for the calling thing, she waits for you because she wants to be sure you care for her.
the dating new guy thing, it's not a big deal, she just wants to know that YOU want to call HER.
we never really look at it the other way aorund, so if it sounds like she's excited to talk to you, see probably is.
if you have fun together, then she likes you.
dont worry about it and im sure she cares for you as much as you care for her.
She obviously likes you otherwise she wouldnt answer your calls. And if you feel like youre having a good time together then she probably feels the same.
She might be a little worried about looking too keen though i am always cautious of that.
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Please give advice, about Pictures and real life.. I have a date friday,?
I met someone online he saw over 50?
pictures of me and like what he saw, but the truth of the matter is Im kind of shy in person real real shy, I heard alot that I was unattractive growing up mainly from family.... I hear now that Im cute and or ok...
Now this where it comes in at I would like to know do ppl look better in pictures or in person? I wonder what do you thnk? What if he dont like me in person cause he only saw me from the front and not all angles, sides of my face... What should I do?/Please give advice, about Pictures and real life.. I have a date friday,?
...life is short as it is, now is the time to enjoy - have a good date...
...if there is still doubt, email a current photo with all angles included...Please give advice, about Pictures and real life.. I have a date friday,?
people look very similar to their pictures but those pictures hardly ever capture the essence of a person just them in that moment in time. have some confidence if he likes what he saw then your good. who cares what people said about you before. you are not the same person you may have once been as a kid. people's looks change as they age. for the better and for the worse depending. it seems as if you are one of the lucky ones that age with grace and style.
so dress your best for your date and have fun. let all those insecurities go for just one night and be the attractive person that you are. shyness is ok but when it stops you from living a full life then it is a problem.
Are you looking for a one night stand? if yes, dress up in the sexiest outfit you have and do your best. If no,
We are a package deal. You can look nice when you first meet someone, but ultimately you do not want them to stay with you for that. You can not find someone right for you until you are yourself. Be comfortable, be happy with your own life, then share your life with them. If they like it your looks will be a secondary issue. If they don't like your life, you do not have much of a future together anyway.
Well listen you shouldn't worry because he has the general idea. The thing that is most attractive is self confidence, not conceit or aloofness, but just a nice helping of knowing who you are and where you stand. So (like I have heard so often) Buck up! Forget your family's opinion and try to start liking your Self.
who cares what he thinks. do you like you. if he doesnt' he is a loser. do you know why I write this with no capitals...because of this.eye lips
pictures of me and like what he saw, but the truth of the matter is Im kind of shy in person real real shy, I heard alot that I was unattractive growing up mainly from family.... I hear now that Im cute and or ok...
Now this where it comes in at I would like to know do ppl look better in pictures or in person? I wonder what do you thnk? What if he dont like me in person cause he only saw me from the front and not all angles, sides of my face... What should I do?/Please give advice, about Pictures and real life.. I have a date friday,?
...life is short as it is, now is the time to enjoy - have a good date...
...if there is still doubt, email a current photo with all angles included...Please give advice, about Pictures and real life.. I have a date friday,?
people look very similar to their pictures but those pictures hardly ever capture the essence of a person just them in that moment in time. have some confidence if he likes what he saw then your good. who cares what people said about you before. you are not the same person you may have once been as a kid. people's looks change as they age. for the better and for the worse depending. it seems as if you are one of the lucky ones that age with grace and style.
so dress your best for your date and have fun. let all those insecurities go for just one night and be the attractive person that you are. shyness is ok but when it stops you from living a full life then it is a problem.
Are you looking for a one night stand? if yes, dress up in the sexiest outfit you have and do your best. If no,
We are a package deal. You can look nice when you first meet someone, but ultimately you do not want them to stay with you for that. You can not find someone right for you until you are yourself. Be comfortable, be happy with your own life, then share your life with them. If they like it your looks will be a secondary issue. If they don't like your life, you do not have much of a future together anyway.
Well listen you shouldn't worry because he has the general idea. The thing that is most attractive is self confidence, not conceit or aloofness, but just a nice helping of knowing who you are and where you stand. So (like I have heard so often) Buck up! Forget your family's opinion and try to start liking your Self.
who cares what he thinks. do you like you. if he doesnt' he is a loser. do you know why I write this with no capitals...because of this.
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