What Advice Would You Give Someone Who Wants to Date a Young Man With a Child?

I recently met this guy, he is absolutely amazing in every single way. When we met he had just got out of a relationship with his ex, who recently found out she was pregnant. I am 20 and the guy is 21 yrs. old. He is actually not sure that the child is his bc the mother cheated on him. However he is being a man and is doing everything he can for the child (who hasn't been born yet). He even wants 2 get full custody of the baby if it is his when it is born. I personally believe that this shows that he is facing his responsibilities. Although him and the ex are not together he still does what he is supposed to do and treats very nicely.





So my question is, do you think it is a bad idea for me to get involved with him? Like I said, he's really a great person, but I am wondering that if him and I get together how things are going to be. Has anyone else ever been in this situation? Is it really too much baggage?What Advice Would You Give Someone Who Wants to Date a Young Man With a Child?
I think that it's nothing wrong with getting involved with a man with an child because as long as he loves and respects you it should be no problem and he sounds pretty great from your account so give it a chance and the only thing that you need to worry about is the mother of the child because she could either be an problem or no problem at all.What Advice Would You Give Someone Who Wants to Date a Young Man With a Child?
Too much baggage!! Dont do it! It will be DRAMA and heartache!! His ex and child will meddle in your life and it will drive you crazy. Get out now before you really get attached.





Youre young and have no children. There are plenty of guys out there who are nice, amazing and who don't have children.
Open your eyes and look at this ';great guy'; again. If you still see the pigs flying over his head, you need a better glasses.
I dated a guy with 2 kids %26amp; it was a nightmare but that was because of his ex. I couldn't take it anymore truthfully. It sounds like your boyfriend %26amp; his ex are getting along okay though if they're both dealing with the pregnancy together. If it is his child %26amp; he wants to seek full custody then she might flip out %26amp; make your lives miserable. You'll never know until you get in the relationship. There is no telling what their behavior will be like at any given moment. It's definitely more difficult than your standard relationship at your age but if you like the guy you may as well give it a shot.