Ladies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?

We going out on our fourth date. We have fun together, and the conversation is great. we've been going out once a week. She has yet to call me in between dates. I call her every couple of days just to chat and to set up the next date. She always answers when I call and seems excited to talk. Am I over analyzing this? Guess I haven't picked up on any clues on to what she thinks of me, other than that we have fun together. Ladies...please let me know your thoughts and how you handle dating a new guy. ThanksLadies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?
um...it sounds great...youre definietly overanylizingLadies....need advice on a girl I've just started to date?
maybe next time after your date. tell her to call you or text you and see if she does.. maybe she just got used to you being the first one to make contact. it's still new maybe she doesn't wanna feel like she's bothering you..





OR she could just not be looking for anything serious.
If she's willing to go out on a fourth date she doesn't hate you. If you want her to call you, then back off a little. Don't ask her out the following week. Give her a little time you miss your company.
you arent over analyzing it..if you are the kind of guy you say you are, she is probably really excited
Well the fact that she picks up and seems excited is good. From what you're saying, I think that you're just overanalyzing the situation. Bottom line..with caller i.d. she wouldn't pick up her phone if she didn't want to talk to you and there probably wouldn't have been a fourth date. The reason she's probably not calling you is that she's afraid to seem overzealous. NO guy likes a too clingy girl and she's more than likely avoiding that stigma with you. Here are some tips to watch with her body language on your next date:





Does she lean in towards you when you are conversing?


If she does, that indicates an interest in what you are saying as well as you.





Does she touch your arm, hand, or knee as she responds to something you've said?


If she's initiating physical contact with you, that indicates that she is interested. Often, when a woman is interested in a man, she will find some way to make contact with him becasue it is how we are biologically built. It indicates a level of comfort with someone whom our bodies consider a potential mate.





When you have a conversation, do her facial expressions mimic your own?


For instance, if you raise your eyebrows to indicate surprise when you are telling a story, does her face also show some sort of surprise. If that is the case than you have her full attention.





Overall, I would probably say that you're just being overly concerned. I hope that the tips help and good luck!
she could just be a busy person, does she have a job? maybe shes been bogged down. Also, she could be worried about seeming clingy, and thats why she doesn't call you and lets you call her. THEN theres the other option that she wants to know that you want her bad, so she is playing hard to get. I wouldn't over-analyse it, because if she didn't want to be with you or she didn't like you then she probably wouldn't sound excited to talk and she wouldn't continue to go out with you. good luck and don't worry, sounds fine to me!
your definitely over analyzing if she didn't like you she wouldn't have answered your calls. she might not have called you yet, because she is shy, and worries that you won't pick up.
Sounds like she does enjoy your company. Maybe she's just taking it slow. Or she likes the fact that you call her. If I were to start dating new guys I would defiantly feel more comfortable with him calling me. From what you say I don't think you should have any worries!!
she may be scared to call you. Just keep calling her and see whats up, take her on another date, but if you think its not going anywhere you will soon find out by another week or so.
as long as she sounds excited to talk to you each time i think shes in to you!!
I think she really likes you.


I can't be sure, though
Sounds like she likes you. Maybe she is just trying to not come on too strong. Why don't you ask her, or kiss her?
So, you both consider them dates? If she thot it was just hanging out then, Uh Oh. So, if you haven't kissed her or done anything serious, lay low for now.
I'm not a girl but you're obviously something new and special for her and she likes being with you, so I'd say that, if you like her back, to keep on doing what you've been doing in previous dates, and then ask if she'd like to go out with you. She seems interested.
You're blind or dumb. Or both. She likes you, well, what else do you need? An airplane with a flag saying YOU'RE HOT!?
I think she likes you, maybe she isn't the type to take the lead the relationship As you get to know each other, maybe talk about how you feel with her.





Hope it goes well.
seems like everything is going well.


i also think that this girl really likes you


maybe keep what you're doing but as time goes on, try your best to not seem desperate
I have the habit of getting to involved and too quickly (and I don't mean sexually) I f i like someone I always want more. And I usually scare them off. So now I have gotten in the habit of letting the guy set the pace, at least at first. Feel her out. wait a lil longer to call if she sees that you didn't call maybe she will pick up and call you.





If it really bothers you tell her after your next date that the next move is hers. you'll wait for her call and her plans for the the next date.
She's a girl, she's probably waiting for you call. To make her feel that you are really interested in her. If you are that worried on your next date just bring it up, it's not as hard as people make it out to be.





Most women wont admit it but we like to be pursued, it makes us feel that you are really into us.
some people just prefer to be approached and maybe she don't want to come off as pushy toward you, by calling you and stuff like that.
I feel you're worrying needlessly. You call her a couple times a wk. %26amp; since you've just started dating, you've got to figure you're actually talking to her on your own a couple times a wk. anyway. Don't try to make it ';over kill';. She seems happy to hear from you when you call, so that's definately a good thing. Just give it more time, get to know one another a bit more, %26amp; you'll have more to talk about the longer you get to know her. I think everything sounds fine the way it is now. Don't worry over nothing! Have fun %26amp; everything sounds OK just the way it is for now. All the best to you...:)
Sounds to me like every thing is going fine ,,,, Just don't blow it and try to speed things up ,,,, She's interested or she wouldn't be showing so much attention ,,,, Leave things the way they are and be patient ,,,, Take things at her speed not what you want it to be ,,,, She's allowing you into her life so be happy with what you have so far and don't get greedy ,,,, //
She doesn't want to seem to needy but if she keeps going on dates with you and you all have fun then keep at it she is just being a woman who doesn't want to seem needy pushy or to desperate
honestly, she's probably busy and she might not get that 'call him' vibe from you yet. Just keep trying, and keeping having fun. If it's ment to be it'll get there.
Well duh she hasn't called you. A lady does not call a man in the early stages of dating....she wants to keep you guessing and chasing. Also, don't expect her to date ONLY you at this point. You are just dating and getting to know one another. YOu are not steady or engaged so just keep calling her a couple times a week and seeing her. After a few more dates if she stops answering the phone or starts declining dates then you will know she gave you a chance but feels 'it' just isn't there.
dont suffocate this girl. Girls really dont like that. Be ';Mr. Smooth';. Don't force her to go on a date with you and if your getting a vibe she doesnt wanna go out don't force it down her throat. i guess im trying to say don't be clingy/overwhelming.
She sounds like she is into you. Some girls just don't like calling the guys because they are nervous to call. They think that is your job. Just see how it goes!


good Luck!
as for the calling thing, she waits for you because she wants to be sure you care for her.


the dating new guy thing, it's not a big deal, she just wants to know that YOU want to call HER.


we never really look at it the other way aorund, so if it sounds like she's excited to talk to you, see probably is.


if you have fun together, then she likes you.


dont worry about it and im sure she cares for you as much as you care for her.
She obviously likes you otherwise she wouldnt answer your calls. And if you feel like youre having a good time together then she probably feels the same.





She might be a little worried about looking too keen though i am always cautious of that.
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