I'm a senior in High School and I've never had a date Guys are intimadated by me because Im christian? advice?

you know, the guys that feel that way about you will one day realize just how special you are, lil' sis you are a child of God. thrust in Him and the order He wants things to be in your life. when the time is right God will put that very special guy in your life so the two of you will be as one serving Him. it will happen, just trust in Gods timng. may God bless you and just be faithful and very thankfull you have the values that i believe is in you.





p.s. send me an invite to the weddingI'm a senior in High School and I've never had a date Guys are intimadated by me because Im christian? advice?
Intimidated seems to be the wrong word. It depends a lot on your personality and reputation, but by and large, guys avoid devout Christian chicks for two reasons.


1) They're a dead end, sexually. No guy in high school is looking for the girl he wants to raise a family with. He wants to fall in love, have fun, graduate, and then go out and explore what the world has to offer.


2) They can be a huge burden if they impose their morals and ethics on guys who live by different rules.


So it's really not intimidation-- it's that, at least to them, your religion makes you absolutely no fun.I'm a senior in High School and I've never had a date Guys are intimadated by me because Im christian? advice?
Don't be arrogant and don't talk about 'being' a Christian. Just live the life and have faith. If it is meant to be, it will happen.
Be yourself. These things happen naturally. Being a christian has nothing to do with it.
My advice would be to get very involved in Christian socialities and other events and such and try to meet guys who share your faith and views in life.
I doubt that that's the only reason.
Show them that just because your Christian it doesn't mean you can't be fun! =)





It helps to not always talk about ur religions, too.
They are probably afraid of being proselytized.





I am a different religion than most people in my area (Buddhist), and rather content with it. I certainly would not want to go out on a date with someone who wants to tell me all about their religion, but not hear about mine. I get proselytized all the time, and politely telling them to go away doesn't always work.





I am not sure if this describes you or not. Intimidated? Probably not. Not wanting to get into a discussion about whose religion is ';better';-more likely.
If u believe in ur value then why u care for those guys?


u will get a very loving husband. marry later just concentrate on ur career.


dont get tempted
I'm a senior in High School too. Isn't being a senior great?
What school do you go to? I've never heard of that kind of discrimination, but hey if you're fine or I like you for some reason, I'll ask you out.


:)
they're intimidated of you because ur a christian? i think you've got this all wrong.
Why are they intimidated because you're a Christian?





But if you really want a date, I guess you'll have to take the first step. Ask a guy instead of waiting for him to ask you.
Ever hear of Joshua Harris? He wrote the book, ';I Kissed Dating Goodbye'; -- it's a terrific read! You'd find it encouraging.
Intimidated? No.





You don't get asked out because you probably won't put out. Why bother?
Don't impose your beliefs on anyone...
find a male that you are friends with and ask him out or get one of your female friends to set you up with a guy
i think then u should ask god fur help tell him u don't want to be disobeying him but u don't know what to do and if it talke u bein disobeindent then don't go out srry but dat's all that advice i can give u
I don't see why christians sin too! I'm a Roman Catholic and I sin every day! I try not too but it feels so right, you know the ';smooth road to hell';
Nikki had good advice.
ther not intimidated by you, ur just ugly sry it coukd have happened to anyone
Find a nice guy who has the same spiritual beliefs as you do. If they don't share your beliefs at least somewhat then you will not have that much in common with them in the end.


Find a nice guy at Church or through Christian sponsored activities. Trust me on this one. He will eventually come along.


Pray about it in the mean time. Not pray for it but pray for God's will for you. If a man is in the plan it will happen.
dont be christian its a man made religion it might not even be real just be you dont live your live on maybes
join the real world and stop living in fantasy world of made up religion, there not intimated they think your an idiot
a lot of people are christian that date. so unless you are trying to force your personal beliefs on people, thats not it probably. are you shy or have trouble talking to guys? you're still young enough where i wouldn't worry about it. high school guys are sometimes jerks anyway
Intimidated? Probably not. Annoyed? Definitely.
You mean there are no Christians boy at your school ?? I smell a rat..
Sin.
Their not intimidated because your christian they are because your weird and proably ugly!
we have only one life (at least thats what 'your kind' think) and so far you have done a pretty good job of screwing it up because your chrisitian!
Just make a list of guys you find attractive. Make a list from best to worst (worst of the best that is). Then, starting from the top of the list, approach each one individually and ask him whether he knows someone who might be interested in dating you.





I think you might learn that some of those guys have been afraid to ask you for a date, not because you are Christian, but because they think you are too good looking and smart for them, and they are afraid you will reject them and cause them embarrassment.





When you ask, if the guy seems lost for words, it might be because he's trying to quickly figure out how to tell you that he would be interested and still not risk the possibility that you will laugh at him and say something insulting such as-- not you stupid, I meant someone else. So, you need to help him out while he's in his stupor. Ask him if he might be one of those guys who might be interested. Then say, you know, just for maybe one date to see how it turns out. Watch for facial expressions. They tell a story. If his expression is sending a ';go away' signal. Just wave him off, shake your head, and say forget I asked for your advice as you walk away.





I think this approach will give you an opportunity to feel him out and save face if he is not interested, and it will also give him an opportunity to respond favorably without fear of losing face if he's worried that you might be just toying with him.





What are you waiting for? Go for it.