So I have the worst luck with guys so far i have had guys cheat on me , a guy used too beat me up, a guy forgot my name, a guy cheated on me with a guy!, guys who try to have sex with me well im sleeping/ passed out, and more then one of my ex's is currently in jail, all these guys seem wonderful when i meet them and every time i think oh they are some much nicer then the last guy and everytime they end up worse so my question is do i do it are they nice guys until they meet me or am i just a horablle judge of caractor? and either way how can i have beeter relshipsGuys. I need advice- I think i turn every guy i date into a complete a**hole...?
Maybe you ought not to rush into things. Get to know the guy and then make character judgments.
And in order to meet educated guys takes a class. Your last two sentences: ';....am i just a horablle judge of caractor? and either way how can i have beeter relships'; speaks to not doing your homework.
And you don't do your homework with guys.Guys. I need advice- I think i turn every guy i date into a complete a**hole...?
you need to work on you. maybe you can talk to a relationship expert. or better yet...try this website...
www.heartless-bitches.com look under the manipulator files (right column) and you will find all the information you need to how to detect the wrong kind of person.
You have to change your energy. It seems like you attract jerks. You can change the equation. Nothing you do should make a man beat you or try to have sex with you without your consent.
Maybe change the way you meet men. I've met wonderful guys when I least expected it at parks, supermarkets, networking events and church.
Don't give up. Your Mr. Right is out there for you!
Take your time with them, and don't get involved too quickly. Watch what they say, and if it matches up with what they do. Sounds almost as if you are jumping into these relationships wihout really getting to know the people you are dealing with.
make no commitment to any of the boys you meet, and definitely DON'T sleep with them, until you can be reasonably confident they are good, straightforward SAFE gentlemen.
FYI - this is a process that can take months, not days or weeks.
i am sure there is a good guy out there, its hard finding good guys.
honey you don't turn them into @ssholes...they came to you that way, it just took a while for it to show up!
good luck on that and stop hanging out at the bars! lol!
Please do yourself and the rest of the world a favor, dont have any children until you figure this all out.
OMG, Jenny...that is the funniest headline ever...I'm cracking up and I'm at work...geez, you can't be funny...
Perhaps the issue is that you keep meeting guys are full of sh!$ when they meet you. Maybe you just haven't met a real man yet that's true from day one...
Yes, maybe you have a malfunctioning loser-dar....
i think that you should try slowing down on the guys a lil and well try making some guy friends instead believe you me chilling will us guys has its plus for it gives lil insights as in what the average guy may present. so it may help in the picking of a guy who may present such features that you will find ok and well at least you will have a idea of what to expect from us.
as to you being a bad judge when to guys well simply take a god look at tat guy and well take time to get to him instead of doing certain things with them first.
Where do you meet these guys?
try meeting guys at the library lol cant go wrong their
It is not by mere chance that you always land the 'winners'! There is something in your personality that attracts men that are not the best choices, to say the least! We often tend to subconsciously punish ourselves for things we feel are our faults. It is not easy pinpointing exactly what is is in out lives that makes us be this way. There is nothing better than the aid of a seasoned professional to help you sort this out. Try to seek the advice of one before you end up really hurt or worse! Good luck!
Not you is them they are just pretending to be nice to get in your pants.
Get yourself a nice Canadian guy.
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