Monday, August 23, 2010

I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?

I ideally want to tone up my tummy and hips and i dont realy know any good ways to do so in a reasonably short space of time, does anyone have and eating advice or little exercises i can do that actually work?!?! I also dont know what to wear, im a size 12-14, 5'7, dark hair, fairly broad, curvy sort of figure, but i dont want to look like ive tried too hard or like i havent made any effort. PLEASE HELP!!I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
Umm to be honest it'll probably have to wait till after the date. Working out isn't the ';quickest'; resolution. You will have to find an exercise that fits you; I would look up some core workouts. Make sure they are ';core'; (these are the best for upperbody/ab workouts). They involved pushups with variations, supermans, crunches, squats, etc. Good Luck!I have a date coming up and i need some help please. Physical looks advice...body and clothes etc?
Jump rope is a really quick, fun, and easy exercise that burns a lot of calories. Jump till your heart's content!

I need some dating advice, i need help can someone help me??

I'M 13 AND I NEED SOME DATING ADVICEI need some dating advice, i need help can someone help me??
what kind of advice specify and i will answer furtherI need some dating advice, i need help can someone help me??
my dear u are just 13.....


whats there in dating or falling in love?


u have many other proper work to do such as studying and fulfilling ur responsbilities as a child to ur parents....


rather than dating, just hang out with ur friends.....


enjoy go shopping with them, go for a movie, have luch or dinner together...


enjoy ur youth fully....


all the best...
Firstly I don't really think you should worry about dating at 13.


Secondly BE YOURSELF.


People will like you for who you are, and if you're a fake, they fall in love with the fake, but not you. Be genuine.





Good Luck!

I'm a guy, where can I get REAL dating advice?

I broke up with my girlfriend 9 months ago and I haven't had any luck with talking to girls. I think all this being nice and considerate stuff is not working for me. What are the ';players'; who are good with women using?I'm a guy, where can I get REAL dating advice?
It may appear that ';players'; are good with women, but for the most part they don't hold any long term potential. And eventually a woman will realize she wants a guy who IS kind and considerate. Therefore, you shouldn't ';false advertise'; by trying to be someone you're not. You deserve to be with someone who likes you for who you truly are.I'm a guy, where can I get REAL dating advice?
I highly recommend checking out Christian Thorne! He's the authority when it comes to learning how to appoach and meet women CORRECTLY! This stuff is not common knowledge in popular culture. Christian has done an amazing job at exposing behind attracting women the right way!
Read ';The Game'; by Neil Strauss. That'll get you started. ;)
Ask your father... fathers r always the best to learn from may it be there mistakes or there advise its still a learning experiounce
www.mysterymethod.com


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http://www.bristollair.com/


http://www.fastseduction.com





check out the forums etc, tons of good information. Join a lair in your area as well, they will take you out and help you work on your skills with girls, confidence and other sticking points.





enjoy!
Type ';dating advice'; or ';attachment theory'; into a search engine.





Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation. You need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting her telephone number or a date. The number one dating advice for women is ';play hard to get';.





Obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.
If you have any friends who are girls, they're probally gonna know what is best for you.
Dude, by using the word 'player' you are immediately casting yourself into the ';avoid me like the plague bin';.





My first advice would be not to act desperate. Not as in begging for sex desperate - but as acting too keen. Ladies can smell guys like these a mile off and will disregard you. It sounds like you're looking hard. That right guys, this is why you won't stand a chance.





As soon as you're going out with a girl and couldn't care less whether you pull a chick or not they can't get enough of the 'taken' man.





When looking for potential girlfriend material, don't look too hard or look to be 'trying'. You really need to be following up leads. Leads as in talk to every woman regardless of how unattractive she may be. Follow up every opportunity to a night out, or to a party or anything for that matter. Again when meeting groups of ladies try not to focus your attention on the queen bee, talk to her lesser average friends to win her approval or perhaps one of the other more attractive ladies.





I know this has been done to death, but be you. Don't be a gibbering nervous wreck but act like you don't care. She could be a model. Whatever! Chat to her ugly mate and she'll be much more interested in you.





Second piece of advice would be, always be on top form looks wise. Don't just put on your best shirt and shoes Friday and Saturday night. Look your best everyday, because now you are using every minute of every day just in case you do meet someone you like. Chances are you could meet that person when you are looking like **** and there in blown a chance. So many guys think they are going to meet the girl on a night out. Chances are it's going to be the new girl in the office or at college of something.
You can't.

Why do guys give the worst dating advice?

and relationship advice. it's like they have NO clue!Why do guys give the worst dating advice?
generalizing is probably the worst thing you can do.





depends on the guy you ask and his personal experience.





it also depends on what your asking...





but is there a question in here other than flaming guys?





i think what your doing is listening to the advice you want to hear. all the advice guys give comes from their personal experience and may be more realistic than your fantasy romance world. advice isnt something you always want to hear.Why do guys give the worst dating advice?
It's simply not true.





In general guys will give worst dating advice to girls who want to get guys. In general girls will give worst dating advice to guys who want to get girls.





Why? Because when a guy gives a girl dating advice he is not giving her advice on how to get a guy he is telling her ';this is what I like in a girl'; or that is what he think he is doing what he is really doing is going ';This is what I THINK I like in a girl.';





Notice the difference. When ever a guy around here says ';girls I need dating advice, I like this girl what should be do?'; nearly every girl says ';oh just be nice and sweet to her.'; Well of course that is what girls say because that is what they think they want, but girls have never tried to pick girls up so they don't know if that actually works, only guys knows what actually works on girls.





So guys do not give the worst dating advice many give great dating advice but if you are a girl and want to know what to do with a guy, girls are the ones who are going to know how to get the results you want because they have tried what works and what doesn't.
because we dont, and the advice we give is stuff that WE GUYS would like to do, not YOU GIRLS! we just use the trial and error method in dating. If she likes it, good then thats an ok dating place, if she doesnt, then its not. That's how we work :D
It's because they don't have a clue, and that don't worry about that. It's usually the ones that have no dating experience that give the bad advice.
Why do girls complain all the time about everything as if the whole world is personally against them?





I think it's because we don't spank them enough.





Rule of Thumb!
Who exactly is ';you guys?'; ... are you talking about yahoo users? Because not all of us give the same answers. Some really are good advice. Others, not so much. It depends on the person who's writing it.
They don't, as far as women's views go. Women go on a date to start profiling a guy for a future. Men go on a date in hopes of getting some.
because guys dont care, only girls understand b/c they actually care and arent afraid to talk about their feelings and relationship. thats why guys advice compared to girls sounds worse
That a girl! Just group us all together as though we are ALL like that ! Your attitude and generalization will get you a nice long clueless life of bad relationships and loneliness. No one will ever be good enough for you Princess!
this is a useful video telling why: http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=g0dIpYw75j鈥?/a>
maybe because of that, we have no clue, besides that women are the one who have to be worry about how to get us.
What do you mean, give me some examples.
Thats not so true...
because they hate people
lol i kno but i hav no idea y though its kinda dumb =S

I'm going on my first date soon and he might want to have sex and I don't know if i'm ready..Any advice?

You shouldn't under any circumstances have sex with a boy on the first date, Especially your first date ever. If you do, he won't respect you, and you will feel pretty crappy about yourself. Make sure you value yourself enough to know that anyone who wants to have sex with you on a first date doesn't really like you, they just want sexual gratification. Self respect is seriously lacking in our society right now, just look at all of the posts on this site about people getting pregnant, and diseases from having sex. Love yourself, respect your body, and save sex for a serious relationship.I'm going on my first date soon and he might want to have sex and I don't know if i'm ready..Any advice?
Just say no! Come on you can do it!I'm going on my first date soon and he might want to have sex and I don't know if i'm ready..Any advice?
If you ';don't know if you are ready'; then YOU ARE NOT READY!!! Certainly, don't ever have sex on the first date. Sex is for adults that know each other.
Say NO!! First of all, you won't be respected if you give it up on the first date, and will be labled as easy to put it politely. Second of all Don't ever do something that you are not ready for even if it's the 101st date.
First date no way.
I'm only going to say this one time. Never, never, never, never.....and I mean NEVER have sex on your first date. Your entire future reputation depends on it. As well as your self esteem.
The fact that you are asking Yahoo! Answers for advice on this is probably a sure sign that you are not ready.





Especially if this is your first date ... ever.





Besides, what if you get to know this person and decide you really don't like them. Wouldn't you feel foolish for having sex with him if you realize he is someone you can't stand?





Hang out. Have fun. Be friends first. There is plenty of time to have sex later on in life.





There really is definitely no harm in waiting and waiting. But there is harm in rushing into it and realizing ';he ain't the one'; and, in the worst case, accidentally getting pregnant.
Don't give it to him on the first date. You'd be deemed ';easy'; if you did
even as easy as me I didn't give it on the first date. When you're ready, you'll know. Some people are as fast as 2nd date. I did it about 3 weeks after the 1st date. Some people dated 4 years and never had sex. So there's no such thing as too late for sex. You can wait. If he pressure you, explain it to him. If he still pressure you, dump him.
say, No...and keep it that way until you are ready to have a serious relationship...ome that u know will be long term. these days men are so lucky, hey get to chose from so many women, and to many of them it is just a game of how many women they can have sex with...


after he has sex with you, he may tell you that you are the only one but you never know... stay innocent for as long as possible...finish school and start building your career...


and stay in an atmosphere where their are a lot of people, go on a double date, and never end up at each others house when no one is home..then u won't feel pressured.... i wished someone would have talked to me...


and always keep this in mind... u never know if that person has a disease...when u are ready u have to inspect that thing..lol...ask him to let u see his latest hiv test results...stay sweet
yes yes and yes. and can i join? dont forget to video tape it if you do.
Despite what others on this ';answer'; service have said, having sex on the first date doesn't have to be the reputation despoiling event others make it out to be.





If you're not sure about wanting to get it on, I'd recommend doing something atypical to ';protect'; yourself: don't shave your legs. It will allow you a sufficient amount of emotional strength to deny yourself the pleasure of humping this guy.

I'm going on a date tomorrow with a guy I REALLY like. Can you give me some advice?

We are both in our early 20's.





I REALLY like this guy, and I don't want to ruin things......





I need some ';catch and keep him'; dating advice.I'm going on a date tomorrow with a guy I REALLY like. Can you give me some advice?
the best dating advice I've ever been given was to be yourself, and it worked i used to try to put on an act when going on a date and the relationship might last a few weeks but then either i got sick of acting and ended it r they saw through the act, but it never lasted anyway. I'm now in a great relationship for the last 3 years and couldn't be happier. I'm not trying to be something I'm not, just being me and he likes that!!I'm going on a date tomorrow with a guy I REALLY like. Can you give me some advice?
Well, of course, you want to look your best and be on time. Don't dress too provocatively. Don't talk about an ex! Ask questions so he can talk about himself.. Be interested. Some girls never give a guy a chance to get a word in. Smile. If you both can relax and have fun, he'll likely want to see again...and soon. Don't gossip. Wear a light scent , not an overpowering perfume. Get a pedicure and manicure. Make it a memorable night. End it with a sweet kiss on the cheek. Hope you have a wonderful time getting to know each other.
On a date with a guy you really like. I hope this works for you. Be cool, sassy and sexy. Smile often, be attentive, be a good listener, don't talk too much about yourself unless he ask. Be funny but not silly. And of course, be on your best look but never overdo it. Not too much make up. Simple, classy casual outfit will do.
Just be yourself and he will either like you or not. But don't pretend to be something that your not because it's exhausting to keep it up for a long time.
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  • Who knew so many had good dating advice?

    It is quite amazing I know, but everyone's had to go through dating at one time or another so we all know what you're going through now.

    ADVICE PLEASE!! Im really crazy about this girl but she wont date me?

    Ive liked this girl at our local youth club for like a year. We were good mates til 3 months ago when i told her i fancyed her and really liked her and want to know if she will go on a date? She just smiled and laughs she told everyone to but i dont mind them knowing. We used to hug and hold hands and stuff but thats stopped now because she says i dont really like her! I keep telling her i do and ive told my mum and dad about her they want me to leave her alone but i cant! i get butterflys when im around her, we used to speak on the phone everyday but now she doesnt always answer and when she does she just seems difficult to talk to? I asked her what can i do to make sure she knows i really like her, i think ive fallen in love with her and this is killing me! She said think of something inventive to show her i like her, ive bought her flowers , chocolates, necklace and other things. Im quite overweight but before she said i was cute, is this stopping her liking me? Im feelin sick!ADVICE PLEASE!! Im really crazy about this girl but she wont date me?
    Don't buy her stuff, make her stuff.


    Cook her something.





    You might try leaving her alone for a bit. She might feel like you are overwhelming her. Give her some time, and then talk to her again.

    Teen Christian Dating Advice Please?

    Okies so I am 15 and I really like this guy. I'm planning to ask him out and kiss him before the end of school... So... I'm a really strong Christian believer and I just want to know... is it okay for you to like make out or french kiss and stuff like that with your boyfriend before marraige? Please I really need to know before next week :S I really like him and hes Christian too so if I just kiss him then he might get mad and and ahh!! Please please help. ThankiesTeen Christian Dating Advice Please?
    If you value yourself and you want to stay on God's side of the line, do not go out with guys one on one before you are ready to start thinking about marriage. The course you are on is set by the world, not Jesus. French kissing is definitely not something to engage in with anyone but your husband...AFTER he marries you.





    Many nice Christian kids like you and this young man you are talking about end up in sin when they do what you are talking about.





    Please listen to a guy who has been there. To a girl, kissing, even ';french'; kissing, is something that doesn't seem that big of a deal. Trust me, to a guy, it is very sexual.





    You do not want to be the cause of this young man (or yourself) sinning a very grievous sin, I am sure you don't.





    Until you are ready, at age 21 or older to get serious about finding a marriage partner, just go on group dates with good Christian kids who are chaperoned by a parent or youth pastor. You will stay out of trouble that way.





    Get the idea of making out or kissing out of your head. It will lead to sin, even pregnancy. At 15, you don't want to mess up your life and feel the weight of guilt that comes from sexual sin.





    I was one of those who thought that kissing or making out was ok. Here's what happens; Each date, the excitement increases, the point you left off at the last date becomes the starting point for the next date, leading you ever closer to the eventual goal of Satan, to get you to lose your virtue. Before you know it, the little tiny shade of gray grows darker by imperceptible degrees, until you are both into the blackest black. Your self worth is destroyed and you feel the remorse and regret and shame that did not need to happen.





    I know. It happened to me. My girlfriend and I ended up in a situation where we thought she might be pregnant, so we got married in a rush to hide our shame and sin. We didn't have the nice wedding we dreamed of because we could not celebrate with our friends and families this hurry up shotgun wedding. I am still ashamed of that and how our parents and brothers and sisters were hurt and ashamed. Eventually, she divorced me because she never loved me. Part of that was because I didn't love her enough to honor her virtue before we got married.





    The exciting feelings that come to us as a result of our attraction to the opposite sex is given to us from God as a wonderful gift. It keeps husbands close to their wives and children and wives close to their husbands. It is a beautiful way to bond and share the deepest, most intimate feelings we have for our spouse. But it is to be used only within the bonds of matrimony.





    I am 50 now and I am dating a wonderful woman who is also very beautiful and desirable to me. I have committed with her to not kiss or even hold hands before marriage. I know that I have only so much self control and that I have to watch myself so I don't repeat the mistake I made in my first marriage. Kim has agreed that we should be very careful about physical intimacy before marriage. She honors me for wanting to stay clean and pure so that on our wedding night everything will be right and we can rejoice with God that our love is pure and undefiled. We will have all the excitement that we have waited for and our consciences will be clean.





    I pray that you will wait for the proper time to indulge in these beautiful pleasures that await you.





    I pray in Jesus name, amen.Teen Christian Dating Advice Please?
    no it's not okay to kiss more than a peck
    Kissing is fine. Just be careful, some people say that kissin' is not a big deal but in reality, it is cuz it's a gateway to everything else that follows. It's naive to think that nothin' could happen. Just let him know how you feel, kisses are the best when they just happen, not when they are planned.
    Ok, easy there sister. I'm a Christian, too. I think dating is ok. (Even though,personally I'm not interested in it.) You sound kind of...freaky. Saying you are planning to kiss him before school is out! I think little kisses, on the cheek,lipsare ok. French kissin with your boyfriend isn't un-Christian. But it's not particurally modest. Don't do it! You might take him by suprise and scare him away, if you care about him. Date him for a while before you take action like that.
    its all up to you and what you believe. as long as youre not publicly displaying it all over the place. but if you wanna go technical, it only says you cant have sex before marriage
    You asked this already.





    You can do pretty much anything except have sex (and this includes french kissing and whatnot). Just save the sex for when you're married.





    :-) have fun.
    You already asked this. Just be patient, you will get more answers.
    well i been raised to have no sexual intercourse before marriage i dont see how a french kiss or makeing is considered sexual... but yea if u really are scared ask ur parents or ask your churchs priest..... its just innocent kissing....


    GoodLuck


    AirsoftDude
    Ok, yes, in the NIV bible, it says you can do anything sexual (w/o having sex) as long as it doesn't lead you into having sex. so basically, you can do practically anything, just not THE thing. Your welcome

    I'm a guy, where can I get REAL dating advice?

    I broke up with my girlfriend 9 months ago and I haven't had any luck with talking to girls. I think all this being nice and considerate stuff is not working for me. What are the ';players'; who are good with women using?I'm a guy, where can I get REAL dating advice?
    I highly recommend checking out Christian Thorne! He's the authority when it comes to learning how to appoach and meet women CORRECTLY! This stuff is not common knowledge in popular culture. Christian has done an amazing job at exposing behind attracting women the right way!I'm a guy, where can I get REAL dating advice?
    wait, no! dont stop being nice and considerate!! please dont give up, there are already waaay too many jerks a.k.a. ';players'; out there and girls need real men like you.





    you just arent meeting the right women. maybe you're looking in the wrong places e.g. bars, clubs, etc. try not too focus too much on finding a girl, and more on doing things u like to do. (rockclimbing...working out...volunteering...anything) more than likely you will find a REAL woman that respects your caring qualities AND shares your interests at one of these places (that you rockclimb/work out/volunteer/etc.)





    goodluck :)
    You need a bigger wallet.
    i think this is a pretty good place for advice and dont try to be a player -here you can see how girls dont like players





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





    really just be nice and sweet and make her laugh and flirt with the girl you like , it iwll work with the right girl and mostly any girl will fall for a guy who sincerely cares about her.
    Singlesnet is good, have fun sweet!
    I definitely don't suggest the ';player'; methods. They're jerky and rude, and you definitely won't attract a girl by telling her that she looks ';pretty fine, ho.'; The whole ';gangster-rapper'; thing is a major turnoff, with the whole ';my girl'; crap. I feel used when someone tells me that, like I'm just some kind of toy to him.





    Players aren't really good with women, they just get laid alot. If you want a good girl that will stick by your side, 1) Don't use skeevy pick up lines. It makes you look like a perv and disgusting (i.e: Are your pants made of Windex? 'Cause I can see myself in them.) No. 2.)Try being friends with her before getting into a relationship. It'll buy you more time to get to know what she likes and she'll like you more than she would with a hookup.





    Sorry if my advice sounds too much like what you've heard before, but it's just some general advice that generally works generally well. In general.
    so maybe you dont want answers from girls but.....


    luck isnt a factor when talking to girls...theyll either like you or they wont. theres no tricks or rules to follow really, just be respecful and polite.... and be the charmer that you know you can be.
    You don't want to listen to the 'players' they are usually full of bullshit anyway. Listen to girls what they want in a man. Firstly they want to be attracted to the looks, so make sure you are dressed reasonably fashionably and your hair is clean and well styled (perhaps you could go to a barber and get a new look). Then they want to see a nice smile. As long as you take an interest in them and listen to what they say and talk in a lighthearted and amusing way without being a prat or going on about boring things like your collection of Starwars models or your stamp collection, then you will begin having comfortable conversations which will develop as you go along. And yes, please continue to be nice and considerate.

    ADVICE i'm a senior in hs, and not allowed to date but me and this guy really liked eachother and i screwed up

    so theres this guy i really like...and we kinda ended up likeing each other a lot...but w/out directly letting eachother know? and he asked me if i liked him and i just kinda let something i shouldn't have fall out of my mouth. b/c see...im not allowed to date. i'm a senior in high school, but my parents dont allow me to date. so when he asked me that everything in my mind just kinda jumbled and i said no. and after i said that...i just got the worst feeling. does that kinda make since though? anyways, now things totally arent the same. we'll say hi to each other in passing, but...he wont even look at me when he walks by sometimes. and i know he knows i'm there. i just dont know what to do. anyone have any advice? anyone who's been there before? thanksADVICE i'm a senior in hs, and not allowed to date but me and this guy really liked eachother and i screwed up
    (ugh, my parents are strict too %26gt;%26lt;)


    just tell him the truth: that your parents dont let you date, and that the only reason you said those things was to not hurt his feelings but that other words just came out because you really do like him, but you dont want to disobey your parents.


    %26amp;%26amp; duh if hes flirting with girls right in front of you it means he really does like you and hes just trying to show you that ';he can find someone else';, even though he obviously likes you.


    %26amp; if things dont work out, well im sorry but there are many people put there and your life has just barley begun.





    hope everything turns out great :PADVICE i'm a senior in hs, and not allowed to date but me and this guy really liked eachother and i screwed up
    Just tell him the truth, that you like him but aren't allowed to date, so that's why you said no even though you didn't mean it.





    Then, go to your parents and invite them to the twenty first century
    go up to him and say ';hey, um sorry, i didn't mean what i said i really do like you, but i said no, because well this is embarrassing but i'm not allowed to date.'; If he doesn't believe say you swear you like him and your not lieing. If he laughs becuz u can't date he is not the guy for you and just move on. If he likes you back maybe you could hang out some this summer. Ask your parents if u can date since your pretty much almost in college. You should be able to have freedom and date. Maybe soon your be able to date. Good Luck with the guy and I Hope It Works Out!!!!!Good Luck!!!!
    Whoa, why aren't you allowed to date at your age?? If you're not already 18, won't you be very soon? Your parents should ease up a bit I'd say. When are you ';allowed'; to date then?? I'd totally be breaking that rule, or at least talking to my parents about changing it. They can't control you after you reach the age of 18. Yes you live under their roof, but if they hold onto you too tight you'll just end up rebelling and moving out anyway.





    Why don't you just talk to the guy and explain this to him. Tell him you have no experience with dating and got nervous but that you do like him. Seems pretty easy to me. If he likes you back he'll think it's cute that you got all jumbled in front of him.

    Needing some dating advice?

    So, i asked this girl that i liked to come with me to a concert on the beach. Im pretty sure she also likes me. This seemed like a really good idea at the time but now i feel it might be awkward and im getting pretty nervous. I dont want to ruin my chances by having a shitty date with her but i feel like i might lose my opportunity if i dont go on it. Can anyone give me some advice?Needing some dating advice?
    Ok I was really nervous about my date too. Odds are, if she likes you she is just as nervous as you are. Once you are together just relax. You probably won't do too much talking considering you will be at a concert. Afterwords, maybe you should walk on the beach with her and maybe hold her hand? Just be yourself because if she likes you than that's what she is looking for.Needing some dating advice?
    OF COURSE YOU SHOULD GO! If you like this girl then I say go for it. It sounds like your just getting nervous. If your worried about having a bad date then you going to put that into your head. Buy her some flowers or something so she knows you really care and just be yourself. If it was meant to be theb it will be. She is probably just as nervous as you are. Good luck!
    just act normal and not weird...say some funny stuff. and not like corny jokes. stuff that really is funny. be yourself and if she likes you, she'll try to make it work too! good luck!
    the only advice i can give is go and be urself...if she likes u then u can relax and have a good time with her..good luck man and definitely go on the date with her
    just treat her like shes any other friend of yours. imagine its just a friendly thing between buddies
    just go and be normal and idk talk communicate
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  • Hey Girls, I need some dating advice?

    I'm a shy, but very nice normal guy (about 5'9';) in my 20s and I've always found tall, attractive (blue-eyed) blondes with a great personality and bigger feet than me who likes sports very sexy...since I have blue eyes and like sports....However, I don't know how to find someone who fits my type since I work late all the time (including weekends) and if I did I wouldn't know how to approach her without seeming weird...would you be able to help me out????





    P.S. I will report those who have smart *** comments or guys that have remarks in a queer fashion...seriously.Hey Girls, I need some dating advice?
    dont be so picky! i mean good for you that you know what you want because most of these days people have no clue what they are lookig for but... i think you are being a little too specific. and about the being shy... use it to your advantage! i find guys who are alittle shy sexy...(not that i am hitting on you in anyway). but make sure you have confidence along with it. it is a fine line to have confidence and be shy but it can be done. beleive in yourself and know you are worth the girls but you dont have to be a cocky *** about it thats were the shyness is sexy. hope you get what i am saying... and good luck!Hey Girls, I need some dating advice?
    this article tells you of some great responses to girls and how to approach and talk to them
    well i had the same problem so my friend told me about kimberly so i called her and she helped me so much its not even funny i owe my life to her check it out i know she will help you www.KimberlysLoveSpells.com and dont be scared she wont hurt you its not black magic or anything it all good
    Try eHarmony.com ... you cand find a lot of people on there.


    You will always feel weird approaching someone that you're interested in, but it's self-confidence that really pays off.


    And although you find that certain type of woman attractive, try and keep your eyes open for all other prospects ... someone who you may not even give a second glance to could be someone whom you could get lost in.
    first thing: confidence. it's probably the hottest trait in a guy. second: stop discarding all the many beautiful/ wonderful/ smart/ short/ non-blonde girls around you simply because they don't fit your mental image of perfection. try gettting to know a gal's personality and you might be surprised. looks are superficial and hell, for 8 dollars i could be a blonde. good luck!
    Well, it could be difficult if you work all the time. A good general rule, with women my age (35) anyway, is to simply be yourself.

    Need some major advice on how to go about asking for a second date please?

    Well, Saturday I had my first date with this girl I met. I got her simple flowers, took her out to eat half doors to her (just being a gentlemen). I picked her up and paid of course. Then we went back to my house and watched a movie, I let her lay on the bed and sat on the chair because I didn't want her to think I was trying anything, and she told me to com lay by her so we. Cuddled the whole movie until I kissed her, and she said she was wondering when I was going too. Anyway things started to get a lttle intense so I asked her if she thinks we should stop and she agreed. So after another couple hours I took her home and asked if the first date went well enough for a second and she said yes. Now I asked her yesterday if she wanted to make plans for today since she's off work twice and all she said is ';I don't know';. Now I'm fine with by wanting to wait but I really don't want to keep pestering her and scare her away!





    My question is when should I ask again for a second date so that I still seem interested but not anoting at the same time? (she has her daughter all next week and this week she's child free).Need some major advice on how to go about asking for a second date please?
    Ask her in the middle of the week straight up with an idea of what you want to do. If it's going out to eat or going to a movie. Then you have a concrete question and can see what she says. Or you could always ask her if she's upset about what happened and if appropriate you could tell her that you would slow things down if it is moving too fast.

    How could i look better cause i have a date on Sunday so please help me n give me some advice.?

    please help me i dont have much timeHow could i look better cause i have a date on Sunday so please help me n give me some advice.?
    the best a woman looks to me is smilling and genuinely happy --pricelessHow could i look better cause i have a date on Sunday so please help me n give me some advice.?
    dont forget , simplicity is beauty
    Dont wear that stupid hat...











    Oh, good..you've taken it off. That's better.

    What are some real good dating advice?

    i am dating this guy who is 1yr younger then me and we get along very well.What are some real good dating advice?
    Be yourself!

    Girls, need your advice on the whole asking out a girl for a date thing!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP!!!!!! THANKS?

    Well i really like this girl and she knows cause i kinda told her...


    And, well, now its really hard for to talk to her one on one, but not when im w/ freinds and others already in a convo. It sucks sooooo much cause at the pasta dinner our team had for track, she said hi and i dint know it was her so i turned smiled and went down stairs, and i heard someone say (prob her), he never talks to me, then some one said, well maybe he doesnt like you, and she said, no its not that maybe hes just...??????? Well idk wut she said but i gotta talk to her!!!!! badly!! I just want to ask her out and take her to the movies and get somethin to eat after. So i was really wanting to know, is alright if i just walk up to her and just str8 up ask her out to the movies for the weeekend or...


    Should i bring up track, ask why she didnt come, and then say something like well now we dont have track im free on the weekends and was kinda wonderin if you wanted to go the movies with me on theweekend?





    Is that alright? When is best to ask her, and how???





    BTW-


    today in health i was sittin next to her (she sat next to me a few classes back and has stayed since along with her friend) and i was copyin somtin off da board. Wut i dint notice was how close she was to my hand... I was just tappin a beat from a song in my head and i saw her hand w/ a pen liughtly tappin near my hand and i just moved mine a little closer until i could feel the wind from the pen on my fingers. IS that a really good thing? Is she tryin to tell me somethin.





    This all new to me cause im not only a little shy, but she the first girl that i felt for like this. I care for her a lot! Im almost fifteen if that helps!Girls, need your advice on the whole asking out a girl for a date thing!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP!!!!!! THANKS?
    Well it depends on what kind of girl she is. Some girls like guys to be kinda shy when they ask a girl out cuz then they feel like they are something special but other girls are looking for a guy with confidence. I personally like guys who are a little shy but otherwise are confident. That way you get a little of both. I hope that helps.Girls, need your advice on the whole asking out a girl for a date thing!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELP!!!!!! THANKS?
    Im a girl who has been through this a million times I think you should just tell her how you feel and it will probally work out


    hope my answer helped
    I think you should just tell her exactly what you just told us.
    ask her point-blank. look her in the eyes and just say wanna go to the movies this saturday or watever your gonna do
    wow i think she likes you.


    ask her in a very sweet way or with a poem if she says yes, or with a rose or a teddy bear! its so romantic!





    lots of love, sarah





    if u want more help, read the first (and second) question under my profile it asks a very similar question and leave your thoughts.
    start with are you upset if so see if you might of done something. if so tell her how sorry you then say if your not to mad at me would you like to go wherever with me. if it is not you talk about it then ask her if she wants to go wherever.
    be direct dont hint around. We dont like playing the guessing game. Be creative dont go to some boring movie and dinner. You need to do something out of the box it doesnt need to be expensive just creative, romantic, or sweet, and if possible make it something fun that she might laugh a lot during that way even if things dont go smoothly she will remember how much she laughed and be more willing for date #2
    okk what I think you should do is just straight out ask her out. Or if you dont want 2 do that maybe hint it a little, like bring it into a conversation, like maybe you guys are talking about track be like ';Hey you going to the track meet this week?'; if she says yes be like ';Well, maybe after do you wanna catch a movie and go to dinner?'; Just do it casually, and dont worry this isnt the only time you are going to ask her out!


    Well hoped I helped!





    -Star
    Just walk up to her when she's by herself not with friends and tell her'; It's time we went out on a date'; then smile at her. If she says no then she's not interested. If she seems even remotely interested then she likes you.

    Dating help advice under age 17?

    im at a time where people wanna ask you out, but im not allowed to date till im 17. I started hanging out with this one guy, and we seem to like each other, but im dreading he'll ask me out cause i'll have to say no. Advice? not to hurt anyone.Dating help advice under age 17?
    um if he asks and you explain it hed be upset that he cant have you but i dont think hed feel like he was rejected.Dating help advice under age 17?
    Just tell him the truth, and if he really fancies you, he will wait around for you.
    Just say yes and date anyways!


    =D


    Or, explain to him why you can't date him.
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  • HELP! My due date is here and no baby!! My docotor even stripped my membranes 2 weeks ago. Any advice?

    I am ready for this little guy to be here!!! Plus I am MISERABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! My doctor will induce next week, but hopefully this little guy comes sooner!!!HELP! My due date is here and no baby!! My docotor even stripped my membranes 2 weeks ago. Any advice?
    Be patient...God knows best!HELP! My due date is here and no baby!! My docotor even stripped my membranes 2 weeks ago. Any advice?
    unfortunately all you can do is what the doctors have probably already told you...walking, sex, nipple stimulation. I was stripped twice and never went into labor. but my son was HUGE (9lbs 4 oz...i'm only 5'1) so they induced me just a day after my due date. good luck, though. i know how uncomfortable you must be.
    he'll come when hes ready
    My first was 10 days late. I was 0cm 0% effaced and that was with my membranes striped too. but once i was induced i delivered in less than 12 hours (start to finish) and i don't mean the i'm in aggony labor i mean the are real contractions that aren't 5 mins apart unlike my last that had me in ';labor'; for 2 weeks.
    I know you're not going to believe me, but RELAX! Your baby will come when he is ready to come. Get some rest and lots of sleep because soon enough your son will be here and you'll wonder what sleep was and what you ever did before he came along! He'll be here sooner than you think, you won't be preggo forever, I PROMISE!


    Good Luck!!
    Go out for a long walk..
    Well, from experience I was in the same situation and I went out dancing. Danced all night long had water to drink and the next day I was in the hospital having my daughter.





    Good Luck
    don't worry about it .. i know you are really ready for this baby to come out
    relax baby comes when ready.....
    Due dates are really just an estimate, and most are off by a week or more (doctors assume a 28 day cycle - some are more or less than that, also women are usually not exactly correct on the first day of their last missed period, etc). It's not like a bill payment, unfortunately. Of course you're miserable, everyone is at this stage, but it's nature's way of making sure you don't object when it comes time to go into labor (ha!).





    Get some rest, drink lots of fluid, have sex if you're both into it, double check your hospital bag, buy another package of diapers, stock up on frozen meals for when you get home, write in your journal, watch some cute chic flicks - it'll be next week before you know it.

    My Brothers Girlfriend wants to date me and i am not sure what to do,advice?!?!?

    I am 19 and my brother was 16 and well his girlfriend was 18 and well i lost my brother 4 months ago due to a seizure. And well ever sense then, my brothers girlfriend has been clingy to me and like she keeps hitting on me and cant leave me alone. I feel so wrong and it feels wrong to date my brothers girlfriend. I keep telling her NO but she wont lay off of me so i am not sure what to do, because any time i see this girl i am in tears because she reminds me of my brother so much. Advice?My Brothers Girlfriend wants to date me and i am not sure what to do,advice?!?!?
    You guys are very vulnerable right now. She might have started having feelings for you when you where the shoulder to cry on and vice-versa. If there's something there then I would suggest to wait. Tell her to wait. Out of respect and because you dont want to jump into s.t so quick and emotional. Just talk to her about it. Wait it out a little bit to see how you really feel. Basically give you and that girl some space. It will clear your head and you will ultimately know what to do and how you really feel when she's not all over you. If she goes to your house without notice then take some fresh air. I'm sorry for your loss.My Brothers Girlfriend wants to date me and i am not sure what to do,advice?!?!?
    She might just be sad about the loss. Maybe you should sit her down and tell her that you and her dating probably isn't the best way to handle the situation. Of course you understand the hurt she is feeling so tell her you understand. Tell her you will be there, but its not acceptable to date. Losing the one you love is hard, and maybe feeling love again is just her way of dealing with it.





    Hope I helped, and i'm so sorry about your brother. WIsh you the best of luck
    Rest In Peace to your brother, sorry to hear that





    You just gotta tell her exactly why you dont want to.. and if you still want to be friends with her bro, than do that





    but it's all on you, My advice to you is if it were me I wouldnt date her, but if she really loved my brother I'd be there for her and always have her back as long as I knew her, it's just outta respect for what her and my bro had, if he protected her I'd do the same, except it wouldnt be out of the same love my bro had for her, it'd be a different love that isnt sexual you know ?? my opinion is just tell her what you feel
    tell her no more and try ur hardest to avoid her hope u kinda helped

    I'm going on a date with a junior and I'm scared! I need advice!?

    Okay so I'm a freshman boy and I'm going to see Stepfather with this really cute junior. This is a picture of me


    http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs094.snc3/16139_1252546919972_1418495763_788882_7245910_n.jpg





    How much cologne should I wear? What type of shirt should I wear? I was thinking a polo and a pair of blue skinny jeans. I have braces, is this a concern? Should I ask her out after the movie? If she wanted to go just with me and her does that mean she likes me? Should I try to make out with her at the movie? Please help!!





    Thanks!I'm going on a date with a junior and I'm scared! I need advice!?
    I would definitely say to keep it casual maybe a polo and blue skinny jeans with some nice shoes/sneakers.





    I would say to wait till the second or third time that u guys hang out to ask her out but thats up to u.


    Is this the first time u guys are hanging out wel li guess it depends on the mood and stuff stuf flike making out should b in the moment like how it feels if it feels right go for it.I'm going on a date with a junior and I'm scared! I need advice!?
    Ok, I can't pull up your photo but it doesn't matter what we think of you, it's obvious she likes you. On the cologne issue, less is best. After you apply it to your face, wash your hands so they don't smell all night. If you look good in skinny jeans, wear them if not, wear other pants. Ask her if she wants to go get something to eat after the movie. Are you driving? Don't make out in the movies. Holding hands is ok. I tell ya, if I was sitting behind someone making out I would tap them on the head and say take it someplace else, movies are expensive. Take things slow. Laugh, talk get to know each other.
    calm down. she likes you. wear very little cologne. take things easy. in the theater dont try to make out with her. simply let her know youre there. arm around her. dont be nervous just stay relaxed. definitely ask her out after. nothing crazy or ridiculous. just casual. ice cream is good. BE CONFIDENT!!!!!! dont be shy!!!! things will go great. maybe try a nice gentle kiss in the theater. or at the end of your date. but dont rush things. and good catch bro older girls are better :)

    Virgin dating advice please?

    I am a virgin I am 18 %26amp;%26amp; want to start dating seriosuly but these days its really hard to find a good guy who understands that %26amp;%26amp; will be faithful to me.does anyone have any advice personal experience a dateing website anything to help me out in my dilema of a LOVE%26lt;3 life? Thanks ^_^Virgin dating advice please?
    I'm 22 and still a virgin too, but I'm in no rush to date/have sex, but that's just me. I think some people like us are just ';late bloomers'; and there's nothing wrong with that at all. Keep in mind that you're only 18, not 80.


    Besides, I know plenty of girls who are your age that are good looking and are still virgins who've never had a serious relationship. Don't be like those girls or guys for that matter who only want to have sex just because ';everyone else is doing it.'; As long as you respect yourself enough, you will meet the right person who will treat you right.Virgin dating advice please?
    An annoying conjuction that many myspace people use. It makes absolutely no sense to use an ampersand twice in a row, but people just do it to be trendyXcore.





    The ';%26amp;%26amp;';, ';%26lt;3';, and ';x{insert random number}'; is the trifecta of stupid annoying myspace **** that, when combined, creates a truly horrific sentence.
    to freddie k. what city you in and can u introduce me to your lady friends?lol
    whats with the %26amp;%26amp; thing?..well anyways go on match.com thats like a really popular dateing site heres the link


    http://www.match.com/matchus/
    it's hard to start dating seriously at that age unless you find the right guy. most people are just ';having fun'; at that age. start talking to more guys and get practice. then pick one that you like lol

    My Brothers Girlfriend wants to date me and i am not sure what to do,advice?!?!?

    I am 19 and my brother was 16 and well his girlfriend was 18 and well i lost my brother 4 months ago due to a seizure. And well ever sense then, my brothers girlfriend has been clingy to me and like she keeps hitting on me and cant leave me alone. I feel so wrong and it feels wrong to date my brothers girlfriend. I keep telling her NO but she wont lay off of me so i am not sure what to do, because any time i see this girl i am in tears because she reminds me of my brother so much. Advice?My Brothers Girlfriend wants to date me and i am not sure what to do,advice?!?!?
    Don't date her. Probably, the only reason she is being clingy towards you is because you remind her of your brother, just as she reminds you of him. It would be wrong and disrespectful to have a romantic relationship with her when your brother was when he passed. However that doesn't mean you can't be friends with her, but don't pass that line.


    Best of luck, and I am very sorry about your brother.My Brothers Girlfriend wants to date me and i am not sure what to do,advice?!?!?
    first off, there is nothing intrinsically wrong with dating your brother's girlfriend after he has passed on. (in fact, ancient Hebrew tradition held that if a man passed on without offspring, the eldest brother in the family was obligated to marry his widow - a bit extreme, that, but you see what I mean). of course, there are be some difficult emotions for you to untangle here. If you are attracted to her, but feeling guilty about your brother, don't - your brother would want both you and her to be happy, and there's no disrespect to him so long as you honor his memory. if you're not interested, or the situation makes you feel too uncomfortable, then you should sit her down and tell her that you're still grieving over your brother, and that you feel uncomfortable being that affectionate with her. be gentle with her, though; she obviously has a lot of emotional trauma over this herself, and you don't want say something that will make her feel worse.
    If you do not wish to date her. Stay away from her. It is sad and she misses your brother but if you start loaning your shoulder, before you know you will be drawn to her and it won't take much time to get involved. That's how it all starts. Rest is up to you. Sorry about the loss of your brother.
    she is missing your brother also, maybe you can be a comfort to each other without dating, just be friends. so sorry to hear about your loss.
    tell her u cant date her u would feel like ur betraying ur bro and that u can just get thro it together without dating

    Some dating advice please?

    I'm an amateur to dating and have a question...I asked someone out on a date...we've been a couple of dates. But there's been no touching/kissing. I'm extremely shy and am afraid to make the first move. But they haven't tried anything with me so it doesn't make it any easier. Next time I see them, what do you recommend I do? We get along great and the chemistry is there...but I'm scared stiff to go for the kill.Some dating advice please?
    Just hug or hold hands. Take it slow and don't do something you aren't comfortable with. Don't do it because you feel like you have to, do it because you want to and because it feels right. Otherwise, it's meaningless.Some dating advice please?
    man be your self dont over react start with basic hold her hand then hug then when it's the right moment you will know it
    U gotta find a way to touch her without it being awkward. Hug her when you first see her. Hold her hand when your alon or something. Once you get touching her out of the way you will be fine
    dont be dramatic about it...just inch your way towards it. dont all of a sudden go for a kiss...maybe touch her now and then and maybe you'll get closer and then lean in for a kiss
    simple touch will do...smtng like hand to hand, then go higher to elbow, then friendly touch of a shoulder , neck ,, move on ...each step will give you some food to think and feel certain confidence ets...ets..( she will obvsly show you some understandable signes of acceptance or rejection...)


    friendly me
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  • I need some flirting/dating advice. Help?

    I'm going to the movies this weekend with a guy I like as well as a bunch of our friends. I think he likes me, but sometimes he acts the same way around other girls. How can I find out without being too obvious? Should I try to be more flirtatious at the movies? Or is he just playing the field? Help please!I need some flirting/dating advice. Help?
    be a little flirty at the movies by like sitting next to him and walkin near him when ur walkin around ... and like what id do is throw some popcorn at him in like a flirty way (make sure he wont freek out 1st)





    goodluckk i hope i helpedd!

    I need some good dating advice.?

    I get rejected by every girl that I ask out and I just got rejected recently can anyone give me some advice?I need some good dating advice.?
    You need to get to know these girls better before you ask them out, and know that you stand a good chance with them. If you get the vibe that they like you back, they are less likely to reject you.I need some good dating advice.?
    that can be ruff to ask out someone and always get rejected but maybe-you need to pick girls who are less attractive then what you have been rejected by try looking at girls personality and make looks a plus

    GUYZ, NEED ADVICE. did i let it go too far onthe 2nd date?

    well im boricua and usually date other hispanics or asians. never really dated a white guy who isn't from the city until now. I'm usually not an open person when it comes to my feelings just because i don't want to look vulnerable so i tend to keep the image of being a stron g willed girl and im usually not the cuddling type atleast at first. well on our first date, which i thought was just going to be as friends, we saw a movie and basically in the end he tried holding my hand(which was a little weird and awkward for me on the first date. Then our second date towards the end of the night he went in for a kiss(i was feeling him so i went along). Kissing lead to a little touching in the upper area only but then i pulled away from his lips and said i'd better get going.





    * I JUST WONDER IF I LET IT GO TOO FAR BEING ONLY THE SECOND DATE? Im not TOO CONCERNED ABOUT THE KISSING I THINKS ITS THEE BOOBAGE PART...(nice word to use huh lol)


    **wHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT KISSING ON THE SECOND DATE AND MAYBE SECOND BASE IN REGARDS TO MY SITUATION?


    ***surprisingly i actually like this guy and didnt want to start things off the way i do when i just want a guy to mess with. DO U THINK HE MAY HAVE THE WRONG IMPRESSION OF ME? OR SHOULD I EXPLAIN MY THOUGHTS TO HIM? by the way im 19 yrs old in case it mattersGUYZ, NEED ADVICE. did i let it go too far onthe 2nd date?
    OK, it was a small incident where I don't think too much could be made out of it. A little exploration never hurt, but you might want to mention it to him how you feel IF he brings it up FIRST. The worst thing you could do is bring it up with him and show that it is the only thing that reminds you of him. Communication is key, but if you feel it went to far, keep it friendlier and not as open on the third date. If he asks why the distance, just tell him how you felt and that you hope he doesn't think less of you. The ball will be in your court and you'll be able to decide whether or not it goes further. Remember, if he is a true gentleman, he won't force his hand. Just go with your instincts, but do not get carried away and make a decision you will regret in the future. I hope this helps. Let me know if it does. Take care and God bless.GUYZ, NEED ADVICE. did i let it go too far onthe 2nd date?
    You went to far slow down life wont end in a week...


    well at least i hope so ...


    maby your right ....


    AHHHHHHH PANIC ATTACK EVERYONE RUN AROUND LIKE CHICKENS WITH THERE HEADS CUT OFF





    please awnser my question too


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    I think your fine, you might want to let him know that you dont let things go that far on the second date just to see what he might say.
    Well, I think you should tell him how you feel and he should understand you if he was the right guy, try not to go far on your first dates!!!! GOOD LUCK!
    be yourself, only you know what feels comfortable for you.
    You did the right thing pulling away, if he likes you alot and respects you he totally will understand that. Good luck
    Well i would suggest you to tell him your thoughts so that way he knows whats up


    Good Luck!
    ok im 14 and im a gurl but i no like everything 1st i d like to say i lov the word boobage PLUS 2 FOR U hehe (dont u luv that phraese) ok anyway yea i think he might have far as i freak myself i would have enjoyed it and maybe played along if i new the guy for a while so yea i dont think t was to far but if u feel uncomfartablee then tell him that ur just not that freaky so hell understand ur discomforsts and comforts u no (YES I NO I GIV GREAT +VICE)
    I date white guys, there usually like this. They try to go as far as they can go with a girl, it doesn't mean he only wants sex from you, it's just a typical thing with white guys. I'm a girl and personally i don't think you went to far it kinda normal for white culture. But if you feel like you did then you probably did, whatever the case don't feel too bad you seem pretty well grounded for a 19yr old, spanish girls like myself, we have morals, so i can see why the question. Anyways Good Luck!
    Personally, it sounds like you were playing a little hard to get... That strategy works up to a point. Once you start getting intimate (aka kissing in your case) with someone, then you really need to put the games aside...





    As far as kissing... I always recommend it on the first date if there is a connection... The main reason to wait is to become more comfortable with the person. If the connection is already there, then why wait??





    As far as the wrong impression... The ';You had better be going'; comment was probably a little over the top, but I would doubt that would ruin the deal if he was interested. Meaning, if he is interested, he will no doubt be in touch...

    Can some on give me advice on dating and boy troubles?

    so there is this boy in my grade and his not very attractive and he asked me out today and i told him no but i feal really bad and i also Fral bad because i could have been false flirting with him. i am not a big flirt with every guy i see and i was accidental so i don't know what to so and is always looking at meCan some on give me advice on dating and boy troubles?
    Just be friendly to him and reassure him that you want to be friends, but you are not interested in dating. Also, here is a great site for dating advice: http://www.datingtips247.com Maybe they can give you better advice. Good luck!

    I need some tips for a first date with this guy I have only known for 2 weeks! Please give me some advice!?

    I am worried it will be awkward and weird, and i'd like to kiss him at some point, but is that too forward?! eek! I'm nervous!I need some tips for a first date with this guy I have only known for 2 weeks! Please give me some advice!?
    Take it slow, there is no time to rush. Relax and enjoy yourself think of him as a best friend and let it flow, you will be fine.I need some tips for a first date with this guy I have only known for 2 weeks! Please give me some advice!?
    relax and try to have a good time. you don't want to fuss so much that you end up feeling miserable at the end of the night from trying to hard. guys also want to see the girl at ease and confident, just be careful not to seem arrogant. if you want to kiss him go for it! just don't go too fast so that it ruins the rest of the relationship. don't worry about awkward silences either, if there is a silence just let it be because sometimes it's for the better. try to be comfortable, because if you're dating him feeling comfortable would be ideal.
    you don't need to rush!relax,ltake it easy and enjoy yourself!

    Hey I need some dating advice?

    I am 23 years old and I just met this chick who i thinks really into me we met at a bar and got drunk togearther she kissed me so I think I like her but this other girl who I don't like too much saw us togeather and has been kind of mean to her for no reason she likes me too I thnk but I only have one heart to give ones hot the others drunkHey I need some dating advice?
    The hot one is jealous of the drunk one and if you kissed her, what would you expect? Just because you kissed someone while drunk doesn't necessarily mean you like her. Don't mistake drunkeness for affection. Decide which one you'd like to be with--WHILE SOBER!
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  • My due date was yesterday...My water hasn't broken....no loss of mucous plug...no contractions...any advice???

    I am scheduled to be induced tommorrow.....My due date was yesterday...My water hasn't broken....no loss of mucous plug...no contractions...any advice???
    not much longer now.





    Remember to breath tomorrowMy due date was yesterday...My water hasn't broken....no loss of mucous plug...no contractions...any advice???
    My only advice is to make sure you have everything packed for tomorrow... and eat good today because you may not get to eat at all tomorrow. I was induced at 7am and at 6pm they took me in for an emergency c-section (my blood pressure kept dropping.) and I hadn't eaten since dinner the night before (they tell you nothing to eat after midnight) and I didn't get to eat until midnight that night (my hospital had what they call midnight chow so I was lucky) Otherwise just relax. You'll most likely have him sometime tomorrow.... Good Luck %26amp; CONGRATS!
    congrats!!!!!
    Congrats! Good luck and everything will be fine. It won't start to hurt really bad until after they break your water. Just make sure to have something to try to keep your mind off of it (not that anything will help!!!) and remember, the end product is SOOOOOO worth it!
    hot curry, and rampant sex.....are said to work.





    Seems a bit soon for induction though - here they wait at least a week after your due date......
    Just going to have to wait! At least you will be induced and the Doc will probably break your water at some point in labor.
    Enjoy your day today! Relax, take a soothing bath. Mentally prepare for you new little one!





    If you want to help bring labor on naturally or try and dialte.. WALK WALK WALK! Alot of walking. Also, do squats to help bring the baby down into the pelvis. Congrats!
    After asking a whole bunch of questions on how to bring labor on quicker and doing a lot of research myself, I am sad to say that nothing works. I have tried everything except for castor oil and herbs and... NOTHING. I am officially convinced that the baby will come when he/she is ready. Im going to be induced next week also if this little booger doesnt come out by then and I want to do everything I can do avoid it because I have heard its harder on you and the baby when you get induced ( sorry, I really dont mean to scare you... just telling you what Ive heard). Plus I want that excitment of ';OH MY GOD, WE HAVE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL! MY WATER BROKE!'; Or something like that haha.





    Just try to keep active I guess, try scrubbing the floors, try walking up and down stairs, or if you have access to a treadmill or something of that sort go walkin for a while. It could help bring on contractions and help baby move down further.





    I wish I could be more helpful, but im afraid since nothing worked for me I cant really reccommend anything. I hope everything goes smoothly though and Good luck for tomorrow(that is... if you dont go into labor tonight).

    Hey, who here needs dating advice?

    I was told I am the go to girl for any kind of advice, but dating is pretty major, it's always a new experience. If your tired of going from guy to guy or vice versa, I will be able to help just let me know your situation. I plan on being a therapist and I really want to help, so give me some feedback. Ask me question! All ages it doesn't matter.Hey, who here needs dating advice?
    I have two questions. If it's fun for you, would you mind sending me an e-mail? I could go into more detail. I try to keep it short and sweet on here because of the traffic on this section. It's so hard to get answers.Hey, who here needs dating advice?
    well i need help on this so thank you if you read it http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    sweet,thanks.(:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    ok i dont know much bout dating or how to ask a girl out or where to take them and how to be an awesome boyfriend... email me at coolkid777@hotmail.com please... cuz i kinda wana assko ut this girl.....
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aqtwq_C75Dp4BoZOvdtHx1_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090316145008AAU9mTQ





    here's my question. maybe you can help? not really dating though... i dunno though....
    Do girls like it when you call or text?
    heey, so i'm 14 and i asked this guy out through facebook, and he hasn't answered so i don't know if he hasn't seen it or if it's his way of saying now :S i wanted to ask him in person but i get really nervous :(





    oh some background info:


    - he's a year older but failed kindergarden =P because he was sick


    - we went out for like a week and it was amazing i felt so comfortable with him .. then my parents found out which ruined everything they teased me (cause he's friends with my brother, kinda) then i wanted to break up with him .. which i did :'(
    i need help! here is the link to my question.








    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>

    I need some tips for a first date with this guy I have only known for 2 weeks! Please give me some advice!?

    I am worried it will be awkward and weird, and i'd like to kiss him at some point, but is that too forward?! eek! I'm nervous!I need some tips for a first date with this guy I have only known for 2 weeks! Please give me some advice!?
    relax and try to have a good time. you don't want to fuss so much that you end up feeling miserable at the end of the night from trying to hard. guys also want to see the girl at ease and confident, just be careful not to seem arrogant. if you want to kiss him go for it! just don't go too fast so that it ruins the rest of the relationship. don't worry about awkward silences either, if there is a silence just let it be because sometimes it's for the better. try to be comfortable, because if you're dating him feeling comfortable would be ideal.I need some tips for a first date with this guy I have only known for 2 weeks! Please give me some advice!?
    Take it slow, there is no time to rush. Relax and enjoy yourself think of him as a best friend and let it flow, you will be fine.
    you don't need to rush!relax,ltake it easy and enjoy yourself!

    Hey I need some dating advice?

    I am 23 years old and I just met this chick who i thinks really into me we met at a bar and got drunk togearther she kissed me so I think I like her but this other girl who I don't like too much saw us togeather and has been kind of mean to her for no reason she likes me too I thnk but I only have one heart to give ones hot the others drunkHey I need some dating advice?
    The hot one is jealous of the drunk one and if you kissed her, what would you expect? Just because you kissed someone while drunk doesn't necessarily mean you like her. Don't mistake drunkeness for affection. Decide which one you'd like to be with--WHILE SOBER!

    My due date was yesterday...My water hasn't broken....no loss of mucous plug...no contractions...any advice???

    I am scheduled to be induced tommorrow.....My due date was yesterday...My water hasn't broken....no loss of mucous plug...no contractions...any advice???
    not much longer now.





    Remember to breath tomorrowMy due date was yesterday...My water hasn't broken....no loss of mucous plug...no contractions...any advice???
    My only advice is to make sure you have everything packed for tomorrow... and eat good today because you may not get to eat at all tomorrow. I was induced at 7am and at 6pm they took me in for an emergency c-section (my blood pressure kept dropping.) and I hadn't eaten since dinner the night before (they tell you nothing to eat after midnight) and I didn't get to eat until midnight that night (my hospital had what they call midnight chow so I was lucky) Otherwise just relax. You'll most likely have him sometime tomorrow.... Good Luck %26amp; CONGRATS!
    congrats!!!!!
    Congrats! Good luck and everything will be fine. It won't start to hurt really bad until after they break your water. Just make sure to have something to try to keep your mind off of it (not that anything will help!!!) and remember, the end product is SOOOOOO worth it!
    hot curry, and rampant sex.....are said to work.





    Seems a bit soon for induction though - here they wait at least a week after your due date......
    Just going to have to wait! At least you will be induced and the Doc will probably break your water at some point in labor.
    Enjoy your day today! Relax, take a soothing bath. Mentally prepare for you new little one!





    If you want to help bring labor on naturally or try and dialte.. WALK WALK WALK! Alot of walking. Also, do squats to help bring the baby down into the pelvis. Congrats!
    After asking a whole bunch of questions on how to bring labor on quicker and doing a lot of research myself, I am sad to say that nothing works. I have tried everything except for castor oil and herbs and... NOTHING. I am officially convinced that the baby will come when he/she is ready. Im going to be induced next week also if this little booger doesnt come out by then and I want to do everything I can do avoid it because I have heard its harder on you and the baby when you get induced ( sorry, I really dont mean to scare you... just telling you what Ive heard). Plus I want that excitment of ';OH MY GOD, WE HAVE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL! MY WATER BROKE!'; Or something like that haha.





    Just try to keep active I guess, try scrubbing the floors, try walking up and down stairs, or if you have access to a treadmill or something of that sort go walkin for a while. It could help bring on contractions and help baby move down further.





    I wish I could be more helpful, but im afraid since nothing worked for me I cant really reccommend anything. I hope everything goes smoothly though and Good luck for tomorrow(that is... if you dont go into labor tonight).

    Hey, who here needs dating advice?

    I was told I am the go to girl for any kind of advice, but dating is pretty major, it's always a new experience. If your tired of going from guy to guy or vice versa, I will be able to help just let me know your situation. I plan on being a therapist and I really want to help, so give me some feedback. Ask me question! All ages it doesn't matter.Hey, who here needs dating advice?
    i need help! here is the link to my question.








    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hey, who here needs dating advice?
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aqtwq_C75Dp4BoZOvdtHx1_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090316145008AAU9mTQ





    here's my question. maybe you can help? not really dating though... i dunno though....
    well i need help on this so thank you if you read it http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Do girls like it when you call or text?
    heey, so i'm 14 and i asked this guy out through facebook, and he hasn't answered so i don't know if he hasn't seen it or if it's his way of saying now :S i wanted to ask him in person but i get really nervous :(





    oh some background info:


    - he's a year older but failed kindergarden =P because he was sick


    - we went out for like a week and it was amazing i felt so comfortable with him .. then my parents found out which ruined everything they teased me (cause he's friends with my brother, kinda) then i wanted to break up with him .. which i did :'(
    I have two questions. If it's fun for you, would you mind sending me an e-mail? I could go into more detail. I try to keep it short and sweet on here because of the traffic on this section. It's so hard to get answers.
    sweet,thanks.(:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    ok i dont know much bout dating or how to ask a girl out or where to take them and how to be an awesome boyfriend... email me at coolkid777@hotmail.com please... cuz i kinda wana assko ut this girl.....
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  • Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?

    i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD





    and i really wanna start dating there





    i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings





    so this is how i look-----





    i'm Iranian (Persian)


    long wavy dark brown hair


    light brown skin


    dark brown eyes


    thick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)


    and i have a more hour glass body shape


    oh ya and i wear hiphop clothes usually





    and my personality is confident, say what's on my mind, caring, empathetic, loving, passionate, funny, generous....that's all i can think of now





    and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me/ TALK to me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them





    if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at all





    please don't be offended....i'm not trying to offend anybody





    don't stereotype and also don't talk about me needing to focus on school (I get straight A'sDating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
    I used to live in the hood. There are some solid guys in the hood. You got find a stand up dood and weed out the scumbags. Or else, you gon be turning tricks fo some smooth talker.





    You should be less concerned with dating and more concerned with scoping out your environment in order to carry yourself accordingly.





    But if you insist, i'm sure there are religious places of worship in any ghetto. A man of faith (any faith) is more likely to be a good man.





    Head-up. Legs closed. Eyes open. Sucka-free.Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
    Never pretend. Be urself. Chill.
    its just like anywhere else... alot of guys will try to use u just like in the suburbs... i dont know really what to say... and why would u describe urself.. it doesnt mean much if u have thin or thick lips when askin us this question.... also if u have a bum u gone have alot of luck in the hood... trust the mandem

    Could you take a moment to give dating advice?

    A buddy of mine is dating a very beautiful, smart and interesting girl. He genuinely thinks she is gorgeous but he also truly loves her for who she is inside. What should he do about what could be perceived as a potential problem? Perhaps more times than would be considered healthy he cannot or simply does not resist telling her how nice she looks (tactfully), which may lend to the notion that he likes her more for for her looks than for her. Maybe there's not a problem here but what would be your advice nonetheless?Could you take a moment to give dating advice?
    there doesn't seem to be a problem. I love getting complements from guys. I'm sure she loves it too.Could you take a moment to give dating advice?
    he should tell her the truth, that she`s pretty inside-out :)
    In a relationship a girl needs to feel both beautiful and attractive...they arent the same thing...feeling beautiful is when the guy looks at you as if there was noone else in the room...when he writes you cute messages and when he calls just to hear your voice...but we also need to feel attractive and thats when he cant keep his hands off you...that should also be controlled of course....but both are needed.
    well tell him to stop telling her shes beautiful or goergouse and tell her how he likes her on her insides and how he loves her mind and the way she thinks of things and stuff like that dont make her feel like he only like her for her body .
    explain 2 her its just not about her looks about who she really iz
    Sounds like a teenage problem. Us old geezers (like me) know that to tell a women she is hot to trot is something she will always like to hear. Besides, if she is dating him then leave well enough alone. But if she was 200 pounds heavier would he like her then. Don't think so. Seems sometimes the insides and outsides have a mutual liking for each other.
    i tell my wife how beautiful i think she is at least once per day. i don't get all cow eyed and mushy about it, it is sincere. he should try to say it in different ways. i use the ';you look marvelous'; with a latin accent from time to time. it gets the point across and is a little funny, women like funny. he can also complement her by saying that she looks pretty with her hair styled like that or in that particular outfit. or that color is good on her. i think you or should i say he will get the idea. tell your friend that he does not want to give the girl the idea that he thinks that she is too good for him. if she thinks he thinks that, she may start thinking that too. if it comes to that he will have to alter his approach again. he should use lines like ';it is a good thing you are so pretty, a sexy man like me would be tempted to accept offers from other women if you weren't.'; make sure you or he smiles when he says that. it may be just kidding or is it? you, excuse me, your friend should keep her guessing.
    there is no problem there, stop trying to make up a problem that does not exist, the girl probably doesnt feel like she s only loved for her looks.
    most of the time i like complements of my looks
    you may be reading more into this. Is she upset?
    i think he should tell her that she is a very nice person inside and all over. and he should say to her i think Ur beautifull but your mind is beautifull to to fish it off so she nos he like her for not only for her beauty but who she is!
    Well.... girls dont mind being told they're beautiful. but every now and then it wouldn't hurt to tell her how much he appreciates her for everythig she is...and not just her looks.
    just as much as he compliments her looks he should also compliaments her on the things inside such as intellangance and her nature of things

    Can some men please help me with dating advice?

    I have been in the dating world after a long (not very healthy 4 year relationship with a man 9 years my senior (actined 12 years my junior ., lol). Here I am 4 years later after a year and a half off of dating and haven't been in another long term relationship. How do I stop getting into the Friend place and end in the Girlfriend place? How does a women attract a man and keep him coming back to finally want to be with just one woman? I'm 29 years old, educated, silly,sweet, and still unsure of what to do when it comes to meeting and keeping the one you want.Can some men please help me with dating advice?
    Hello my “in-love” friend,





    The answer to your question is simple. It is uncomplicated, easy-to-do, and a no-brainer. Let me give you one word, “CHALLENGE”. People want to get what they can’t have, and want it more if they think they CAN have it. Let me repeat,





    They want it more IF they think they can have it.





    This is what we call Law of Scarcity. Do you happen to have this weird feeling like someone’s grabbing your heart and let it go? Grab it again, and let it go. It hurts, you hate it but deep down inside you want it. You want it so bad.





    When do this happen? When you’re not with the one or when you have not meet the one for a long time.





    And now my friend, it happens to you. Do the same but not exactly as he did to you. This is to prevent him from thinking you’re doing those revenge thingy on him.





    Conclusion, make yourself less available, give some doubt in his heart about your relationship that it might failed. This is to make sure that he appreciates you more like people appreciate the thing they missed dearly. Do you get what I mean? Give him hope and the feeling of uncertainty.





    It is hard my friend. But will you feel happy if you get everything you want easily without hard effort. For awhile, maybe but not for long term.Can some men please help me with dating advice?
    Your too young to be needed to ask this question. Just stop looking so hard and he will find you. Really this works, just give it a try for a little bit of time.





    There are plenty of great guys looking for what you want, only problem is you are at a bad age. Most of the guys at your age are hooked up and getting married already. You stayed with this joker too long, not a good sign if you ask me. Date for a while and they will find you.





    Good luck.

    Sunday, August 22, 2010

    Dating advice? i dont know what to do?

    so i met this girl 2 weeks ago. we talked and she mentioned to me that i looked alot like her ex and that my mannerisms were very similar to his. and weve been getting ot know each other better the past coupler weeks and i was talking to my friend yesterday and he told me that she told him that i was ';cuter than my ex';. she always seems like she more shy around me i dont know why. i dont know is this a good sign? or am i just trippin?Dating advice? i dont know what to do?
    She might like you.


    But beware. You don't want her to like you because she still has feelings for her ex. Some girls fall for another guy because they're missing their ex. And find a guy exactly like him. Then they realize that the new guy's not that much like the ex after all and that they'd rather have the ex back. Not a great love story.

    Dating advice from all the women out there?

    just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy. plus she goes to another school so i gotta do this fast . i used to like another girl and that girl liked me back but when i was about to tell her , it was too late, she states that she is taken so i don't want this one to go like this one, anyways this girll ( the one i'm having a problem with) is wayy better than the girl i used to like so plzz help mee.Dating advice from all the women out there?
    i read that whole thing and i still have no idea what your talking about!Dating advice from all the women out there?
    I wouldn't dump a ';would you be my girlfriend'; on her right away if you've only recently met. That sort of thing is flattering, but potentially scary. Keep talking to her. Try to find things that you guys have in common. Barring that, either ask her a lot about herself (everyone likes talking about themselves), or maybe find things that you guys can argue about it in a good way. Ask her out on dates. Pick things that'll give you something to talk about, like movies or bowling or the zoo.
    hang out and try to find out what interests she hasbesides books. meanwhile find out her favorite book and read it. you may have more in commen than you are aware of but do it now!!!!!

    HELP should my friend ask this man out for a date/drink? help pls 10 points for the best advice and answer?

    my friend is separated a year and a half shes ready to date again theres this lad she likes few problems: 1 shes at least 10 years older then him but she doesnt look her age she looks younger he looks a little bit older then he is 2 she has a bit of baggage ie two kids fifteen and twenty years old third problem his parents live near by and she meets them most days they say hello to each other he visits them on a regular basis she knows for a fact his single shes worried of taking a chance asking him to go for a drink incase he rejects her and she has to see his parents and him everyday any advice anyone ever done this before will i take a chance i think he likes her cause he makes a point of waving smiling and saying hello shes a good looking woman for her age ?? great figure HELP!!!!???HELP should my friend ask this man out for a date/drink? help pls 10 points for the best advice and answer?
    I would say she should feel him out more before she just comes out and asks. She should make it a point to strike up conversations with him whenever she can, and be a little flirty and see how he responds. If it goes really well he may even ask her out. But I understand the situation is tenuous, so it's probably better not to just come right out and ask him out without getting a little more positive feedback from him. If he responds well then she can go for it.


    Or, to go in another direction, she could ask him out but make it seem like it wouldn't be a ';date';. Like organize a group function and invite him or get tickets to a show he would like and pretend that there was an extra one. Then, if that goes well, she could ask him out on a date. I actually did something like this once. I made sure the guy I was interested in was invited (by someone other than me) to a going away party for a friend. Then, at the party I flirted with him and he ended asking me out. We only dated a few times because I got a new job and moved, but at least I got a chance with him.HELP should my friend ask this man out for a date/drink? help pls 10 points for the best advice and answer?
    If she has nothing to lose but she has to think about her kids also then if he says yes and then in the future it goes wrong then his parents are their always and so will he and if her ex comes back it will be more problems.
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  • Dating advice please?

    OK. So I'm 17 years old. I've never gone on a date before. Whenever I talk to guys in my classes at school, I always get nervous or shy. I would really like to go out on dates and have a boyfriend so I'm just asking for some advice on what things to talk about with them, or how to act around them, or tips on flirting.





    Thanks to all answerers :)Dating advice please?
    Be yourself on the date. Talk about what you like and who you are and find out more about him. Don't worry about making yourself sound very interesting or appealing, you want him to like you for you afterall right?





    Good luck! :)

    Dating advice for a woman?

    I am an african american woman who is getting back into the dating scene. I've only dated black men...not ready to give up on them, but haven't had much luck. I am willing to broaden my horizons and start dating caucasian men.





    What would be your advice to a black woman like myself who would like to start dating white men for the first time. .I know it shouldn't matter, but I am a bit nervous and wouldn't know where to start. I am attracted to white men, if that helps. thnxDating advice for a woman?
    Colour does not matter, just if you are attracted to someone get to know them. Learn to be friends with lots of people, and one of them may introduce you to Mr. Right. He could be a man of many colours....


    Don't fret about silly things like that please. :-)

    Dating advice for a 15 year old.?

    I just got a text from a girl I have been talking to you. I was going to meet up with her monday, but she sent me a text saying my sister will be staying with me till thursday. Does this mean she wants some? or what does it mean?Dating advice for a 15 year old.?
    I think she's politely declining, because her sister is staying with her, and she has to/wants to spend time with her sister, rather than go out.





    If you'd still like to see her, you could try and go out with a group of friends, and depending on how old the sister is, tell your girl that her sister can join you. If she still says no, then don't press it.





    Best of luck!

    Dating Advice.... ill give big points for good long answers?

    ok im 9th grade and this kid i like is in 7th grade and he likes me to...he dont look like a 7th grader or act like one... what should i do...


    he is the same height as me and stuff i just dont no cause like idn..... i need lots of advice and tips and all that fun stuff i mostly want advice on getting to no him better and like how to not be so shy...Dating Advice.... ill give big points for good long answers?
    he will totally love to talk to you, i'm pretty positive. and as for getting to know him better, try talking to him about yall's common intrests.


    Find out what sort of stuff he likes to do on weekends. for the being shy thing, plan out topics and stuff you wanna know about him so there won't be any awkward silences.


    Find out if he has a phone and text him lots!!


    texting is usually easier for shy ppl.


    mention how you've been single for awhile, and flirt flirt flirt!! good luck!Dating Advice.... ill give big points for good long answers?
    To try to get to know him better, try talking to him about THINGS HE LIKES. If you don't know, any, then talk about his favorite sports, games, etc. Don't ever tell him that you like him verbally, even though he already knows.(Only through action such as flirting.) Don't be afraid to get personal in all communication, to make him feel special and comfortable, but NOT too personal, such as ';Do you like to have sex?'; %26lt;-thats obvious,(Every 7th grader probably does) but it's way too personal. Don't ask him on a date, but just offer to just 'chill' with him at the mall, go ice skating, or dinner. If you're too shy to do any of these, then just start up slowly, and start by getting his name, and offering a casual date. If the date is too awkward, then just start flirting.
    Okay, to know you need to figure out ALL the classes he is in and occasionally talk to him. NExt, maybe invite him to like the park or someplace to talk. then when your ready each other's houses. After that. know him even more and then ask him out. As for the not be shy part maybe when you get to know him better you will open up to him and talk to him as like your brother maybe that will help :)
    just be yourself... hang out with him outside of school to get to know him more... the more you two hang out the less shy you will become around him....





    good luck


    =]





    --if you need more advise just ask
    lol perv





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    I missed a court date in FL, and have been issued a bench warrant. Advice?

    I got pulled over and ticketed for driving on a suspended license with knowledge and altered temp tag ( it was a day expired so i changed the date til I could get a new one). I thought my court date was today and called for the time, the told me it was last monday and that I have two bench warrants out, both of which require $250 bail. I don't really have $500 for bail now. A couple of questions. Will they mail me my bench warrant or serve it in person? If I turn myself in without bail money how long can I expect to be in jail for?I missed a court date in FL, and have been issued a bench warrant. Advice?
    I have been a cop in Florida for 25 years, and here is what is happening:





    You were nailed for DWLS, with knowledge, FSS 322.34 and Altered Temp Tag, FSS 320..131 OR 320.061... All of the above charges are criminal, misdemeanor charges.





    Now that you have failed to go to court, you will have a warrant out for Failure To Appear. The warrant will be and has been listed in the FCIC (Florida Crime Information Center) data base. Any cop in the state that were to run your name, DL number or even any tag or VIN to a vehilce you own would find the warrant 'hit' in the results. You are then immediatly arrested and taken to jail.





    You only have a few choices.





    First, go turn yourself in to your local Sheriff's Office jail or to any police officer you see on the street. This will get you taken in, booked and you will go to court the next morning to appear before a judge. He can then require you to post bond, or release you with no bond and set you another court date. If bond is set or left at $500.00 than you need $50.00 and you pay that to a Bail Bond firm and they will bail you out.





    Or.... You can hire an attorney to arrange for you to be turned in and booked. They can work to get your bond reduced or released with out bond.... But its going to be expensive.





    Either way.... Any warrant in Florida requires you to be booked intoa local county jail. There is no way out of it.





    They will not mail you a copy. They will most likely send your local Sheriff's Department Warrant Deputies out to find you. This warrant will not expire or go away until it is resolved, or 'served' as it is called.





    This is your only correct answer by Florida law.





    If you would like more information feel free to send me an email.I missed a court date in FL, and have been issued a bench warrant. Advice?
    They're not going to send a SWAT team to your house to serve a bench warrant for failure to appear -- but, if you get pulled over for something else, they'll haul you in for that.





    You can't fight the failure to appear, unless it was the court's fault. If, for example, the ticket said appear today, then you have a good case. If you just misread it or forgot, then you'll just have to pay the fine because you're guilty of the crime.
    go to any police department or county jail in flordia annd turn yourself in- saves the embarrsement of being arrested in front of your friends and family and they will possibly go easy on you. this is a misdomeaner crime to miss required court appearance. the police serve arrest warrants in person.-you will get booked and held until the judge sees you. it can take anywhere from 5 minutes to five days. i also reccomend you get a lawyer to back you up. if you can't afford bail then get a bail bond.





    best of luck to you.
    Just ignore it and don't go back to Florida or you WILL do some jail time. If you still live in Florida they WILL pick you up...





    You can expect to do 60 to 90 days jail time for those offenses because they were WILLFUL... so there was forethought and judges HATE that.
    Go pay the fines all they want is the money. you may get booked but if you pay the fines you will get released.
    Get a lawyer and resolve the situation. You can be put in jail and not have the opportunity to bail until you see a judge. That could take a week.
    stop breaking the law.

    Need advice... what to say to your ';friend'; that stole your date.?

    At the end of the year we have a dance called the semi formal.


    You cant in invite girls or guys from other schools its just an 8th grade thing. My best friend Eric is dating a girl from another school so he cant take her of course. Before they even started dating we talked about going as friends. Trust me were like bff! haha! My ';friend'; sonja asked him to the semi 4 days agoo afterI told her i wanted to go with himm.. what the heak!


    hee said yess and i talked to him and he said he totaalyy forgot about even talking to me.. What should i say to her. theres more to the storyy shes just beining a major backstabber.


    what do i say to her?!!?


    I reallyy want to go with him.!! So so so so badd!


    And all the other guyss are blahh!


    But he iss stuck between a hard place... because he obviously said yes to her. I thoughtt why not all three of us go as friends! me and eric said yay!! but sonja said noo shes beining horribblee...


    help :) thankssNeed advice... what to say to your ';friend'; that stole your date.?
    What a doozy. . . My personal opinion? Sounds like Sonja isn't being much of a friend at all and if I can remember correctly, eighth grade can be all about life-ending decisions. The angst you are feeling right now won't last and likely won't matter in a few years . . . But since it matters right now the best thing that I can say is for you to sit Sonja down and tell it to her straight. Explain to her without any holds barred that you and Eric and already agreed to go together and that the way she is acting is running a little close to the lines of selfishness. If she still won't listen, then you should decide whether or not a friend like that is worth having -- and if one dance in the long run of things is really worth freaking out over.Need advice... what to say to your ';friend'; that stole your date.?
    I suggest talking to Sonja and telling her that you think that is really uncool what she did and tell her that you really think the three of you should go as friends. just try to make her see reason. If you can't, don't blame Eric, I am sure he simply had a brain fart. just find another friend to go with and hang out with Eric when you get there!
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