GUYZ, NEED ADVICE. did i let it go too far onthe 2nd date?

well im boricua and usually date other hispanics or asians. never really dated a white guy who isn't from the city until now. I'm usually not an open person when it comes to my feelings just because i don't want to look vulnerable so i tend to keep the image of being a stron g willed girl and im usually not the cuddling type atleast at first. well on our first date, which i thought was just going to be as friends, we saw a movie and basically in the end he tried holding my hand(which was a little weird and awkward for me on the first date. Then our second date towards the end of the night he went in for a kiss(i was feeling him so i went along). Kissing lead to a little touching in the upper area only but then i pulled away from his lips and said i'd better get going.





* I JUST WONDER IF I LET IT GO TOO FAR BEING ONLY THE SECOND DATE? Im not TOO CONCERNED ABOUT THE KISSING I THINKS ITS THEE BOOBAGE PART...(nice word to use huh lol)


**wHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT KISSING ON THE SECOND DATE AND MAYBE SECOND BASE IN REGARDS TO MY SITUATION?


***surprisingly i actually like this guy and didnt want to start things off the way i do when i just want a guy to mess with. DO U THINK HE MAY HAVE THE WRONG IMPRESSION OF ME? OR SHOULD I EXPLAIN MY THOUGHTS TO HIM? by the way im 19 yrs old in case it mattersGUYZ, NEED ADVICE. did i let it go too far onthe 2nd date?
OK, it was a small incident where I don't think too much could be made out of it. A little exploration never hurt, but you might want to mention it to him how you feel IF he brings it up FIRST. The worst thing you could do is bring it up with him and show that it is the only thing that reminds you of him. Communication is key, but if you feel it went to far, keep it friendlier and not as open on the third date. If he asks why the distance, just tell him how you felt and that you hope he doesn't think less of you. The ball will be in your court and you'll be able to decide whether or not it goes further. Remember, if he is a true gentleman, he won't force his hand. Just go with your instincts, but do not get carried away and make a decision you will regret in the future. I hope this helps. Let me know if it does. Take care and God bless.GUYZ, NEED ADVICE. did i let it go too far onthe 2nd date?
You went to far slow down life wont end in a week...


well at least i hope so ...


maby your right ....


AHHHHHHH PANIC ATTACK EVERYONE RUN AROUND LIKE CHICKENS WITH THERE HEADS CUT OFF





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I think your fine, you might want to let him know that you dont let things go that far on the second date just to see what he might say.
Well, I think you should tell him how you feel and he should understand you if he was the right guy, try not to go far on your first dates!!!! GOOD LUCK!
be yourself, only you know what feels comfortable for you.
You did the right thing pulling away, if he likes you alot and respects you he totally will understand that. Good luck
Well i would suggest you to tell him your thoughts so that way he knows whats up


Good Luck!
ok im 14 and im a gurl but i no like everything 1st i d like to say i lov the word boobage PLUS 2 FOR U hehe (dont u luv that phraese) ok anyway yea i think he might have far as i freak myself i would have enjoyed it and maybe played along if i new the guy for a while so yea i dont think t was to far but if u feel uncomfartablee then tell him that ur just not that freaky so hell understand ur discomforsts and comforts u no (YES I NO I GIV GREAT +VICE)
I date white guys, there usually like this. They try to go as far as they can go with a girl, it doesn't mean he only wants sex from you, it's just a typical thing with white guys. I'm a girl and personally i don't think you went to far it kinda normal for white culture. But if you feel like you did then you probably did, whatever the case don't feel too bad you seem pretty well grounded for a 19yr old, spanish girls like myself, we have morals, so i can see why the question. Anyways Good Luck!
Personally, it sounds like you were playing a little hard to get... That strategy works up to a point. Once you start getting intimate (aka kissing in your case) with someone, then you really need to put the games aside...





As far as kissing... I always recommend it on the first date if there is a connection... The main reason to wait is to become more comfortable with the person. If the connection is already there, then why wait??





As far as the wrong impression... The ';You had better be going'; comment was probably a little over the top, but I would doubt that would ruin the deal if he was interested. Meaning, if he is interested, he will no doubt be in touch...