I'm going on my first date soon and he might want to have sex and I don't know if i'm ready..Any advice?

You shouldn't under any circumstances have sex with a boy on the first date, Especially your first date ever. If you do, he won't respect you, and you will feel pretty crappy about yourself. Make sure you value yourself enough to know that anyone who wants to have sex with you on a first date doesn't really like you, they just want sexual gratification. Self respect is seriously lacking in our society right now, just look at all of the posts on this site about people getting pregnant, and diseases from having sex. Love yourself, respect your body, and save sex for a serious relationship.I'm going on my first date soon and he might want to have sex and I don't know if i'm ready..Any advice?
Just say no! Come on you can do it!I'm going on my first date soon and he might want to have sex and I don't know if i'm ready..Any advice?
If you ';don't know if you are ready'; then YOU ARE NOT READY!!! Certainly, don't ever have sex on the first date. Sex is for adults that know each other.
Say NO!! First of all, you won't be respected if you give it up on the first date, and will be labled as easy to put it politely. Second of all Don't ever do something that you are not ready for even if it's the 101st date.
First date no way.
I'm only going to say this one time. Never, never, never, never.....and I mean NEVER have sex on your first date. Your entire future reputation depends on it. As well as your self esteem.
The fact that you are asking Yahoo! Answers for advice on this is probably a sure sign that you are not ready.





Especially if this is your first date ... ever.





Besides, what if you get to know this person and decide you really don't like them. Wouldn't you feel foolish for having sex with him if you realize he is someone you can't stand?





Hang out. Have fun. Be friends first. There is plenty of time to have sex later on in life.





There really is definitely no harm in waiting and waiting. But there is harm in rushing into it and realizing ';he ain't the one'; and, in the worst case, accidentally getting pregnant.
Don't give it to him on the first date. You'd be deemed ';easy'; if you did
even as easy as me I didn't give it on the first date. When you're ready, you'll know. Some people are as fast as 2nd date. I did it about 3 weeks after the 1st date. Some people dated 4 years and never had sex. So there's no such thing as too late for sex. You can wait. If he pressure you, explain it to him. If he still pressure you, dump him.
say, No...and keep it that way until you are ready to have a serious relationship...ome that u know will be long term. these days men are so lucky, hey get to chose from so many women, and to many of them it is just a game of how many women they can have sex with...


after he has sex with you, he may tell you that you are the only one but you never know... stay innocent for as long as possible...finish school and start building your career...


and stay in an atmosphere where their are a lot of people, go on a double date, and never end up at each others house when no one is home..then u won't feel pressured.... i wished someone would have talked to me...


and always keep this in mind... u never know if that person has a disease...when u are ready u have to inspect that thing..lol...ask him to let u see his latest hiv test results...stay sweet
yes yes and yes. and can i join? dont forget to video tape it if you do.
Despite what others on this ';answer'; service have said, having sex on the first date doesn't have to be the reputation despoiling event others make it out to be.





If you're not sure about wanting to get it on, I'd recommend doing something atypical to ';protect'; yourself: don't shave your legs. It will allow you a sufficient amount of emotional strength to deny yourself the pleasure of humping this guy.