I went on kind of a casual friendly date with this one girl from a dating website who is looking for a relationship and we met the first time. However, she is the type of girl that wants to take things slow but I treated her to a coffee because it wasnt too expensive and because I wont lose too much money and worse comes to worse if it doesnt go well, spending a few bucks wont hurt and wont make me a cheapskate. I was dressed nice. I had good personality and she doesnt seem judgemental. However the thing I am worried about it is I am worried she may lose interest and find someone else!!!!! Someone else who has a higher degree or that is more her type.
So my question is what should be my next step? I really like her alot and I really want to have some kind of connection with still dating and cuddling and getting her back to my place to make out and watching some movies. Do you think next time we meet, would that be a good idea to do and should I trust her if we met and had a long conversation at Starbucks at first? Do you think she may want to spend the night if she lives about 45 minutes away from me and doesnt want to drive back? How much space should I give her? How do I know she is interested?Any advice on my next step after I had my date?
starbucks is a good idea.get to know her first.her likes dislikes food choices.asking her to spend the night might give her the wrong idea.unless she suggests it,then go for it.if she is flirting during coffee she is interestedAny advice on my next step after I had my date?
You could call her after a week of the first date and ask her to go to the movies... if she's interested she'll say yes. After that give her some space. You could text her every now and then. Like every few days or so. If she's interested then you'll know because she'll be calling you.
your pathetic, this person doesn't like you get over it.
hope this helps.
I think if you want her to spend the night you might want to take her somewhere nicer than Starbucks.
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