Any advice on my next step after I had my date?

I went on kind of a casual friendly date with this one girl from a dating website who is looking for a relationship and we met the first time. However, she is the type of girl that wants to take things slow but I treated her to a coffee because it wasnt too expensive and because I wont lose too much money and worse comes to worse if it doesnt go well, spending a few bucks wont hurt and wont make me a cheapskate. I was dressed nice. I had good personality and she doesnt seem judgemental. However the thing I am worried about it is I am worried she may lose interest and find someone else!!!!! Someone else who has a higher degree or that is more her type.





So my question is what should be my next step? I really like her alot and I really want to have some kind of connection with still dating and cuddling and getting her back to my place to make out and watching some movies. Do you think next time we meet, would that be a good idea to do and should I trust her if we met and had a long conversation at Starbucks at first? Do you think she may want to spend the night if she lives about 45 minutes away from me and doesnt want to drive back? How much space should I give her? How do I know she is interested?Any advice on my next step after I had my date?
if you have her phone number and you are interested in her you should phone.. her and thank her for the date.. that's polite.. ask her casually if she would like to go out again.. that way you find out.. if she says yes, let her choose a day that suits her.. ask her where she would like to go .. if she says she has no time or she has to think about it.. then let her be.. if she is interested and says.. ok but I have to check when I got time.. then let her contact you .. or if she has text message.. not everybody has... a cell phone with text message.. try to phone her or send her an email... and thank her for the date... and ask her if she would like to go out again.. and if yes, what day would suit her...then she has a choice to pick a date... or ask her for a suggestion if she says.. she is interested to meet again.. maybe she knows of a place and it's a good thing if you decide together where you want to go if you go out together.. and both of you have equal say in it.. You should contact her first.. and thank her for the time.. you had talking.. and just ask casually if she would like to repeat going out with you.. then you know. I appreciate it that she takes time to get to know someone better.. because one can't judge by a first date.. it's always best to develop a friendship first.. and then take it to a higher level if a ''connection '' is there.Any advice on my next step after I had my date?
No, for the second date i dont think that she would like you pressuring her to come to your place. it might seem like you just want sex. you could go to the movie THEATER and go to starbucks afterwards or something.
Call her and ask if she wants another meeting and you'll get your answer!





No, 2nd encounter - Starbucks; cheap, cheap. Go to a restaurant.


Don't think she'll want to spend the night. Don't choke her space.





If she doesn't return your telephone call, you got the hint!


NOT INTERESTED!
Call and talk with her on the phone. Ask her out again. Plan an activity-- a movie, a museum, a concert. Spend time together. If she agrees to spend time with you, then she's interested. Don't even think about her staying over.
Good grief - pricing the meal based on the outcome you intend to achieve? You hardly know this person. Cuddling?? Spending the night?? Why not call and talk a while. Say you enjoyed the conversation. Talk about something you discussed and then ask her out again, maybe a meal at some place you can afford. For anything more intimate, use another type of website.





You seem very insecure. Find someone with a higher degree? How did that come up? Someone more her type? If you aren't her type, why expect cudding and spending the night?





You are really jumping the gun.