alright, im a soldier, about to return home, and am trying to get more into the relationship world, i've never done too well with girls, i used to be overweight, etc. you get the idea, not to mention im a non-mormon living in utah. but since joining the service i have gotten in shape, but still am afraid of denial, any advice? and please, no ';just be yourself'; answersDating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
how did you lose weight ? girls dig guys who are good looking and loveable ,.Dating Advice Needed for A Soldier?
lmao! yeah all my cousins live in utah and are all mormons and very religious, well you should go out to the nearest parks in the morning and jog and find some girls jogging or relaxing their just introduce yourself don't be shy. also you could try the markets lmao church?! just go out their and you will find someone great i'm sure.
Hahahahaha. ';not to mention im a non-mormon living in utah.';
Coming from a Marine wife = I know you asked to avoid it, but YES be yourself! Girls don't want to start to know a guy, then find everything she thought she knew is fake. Go out with friends, and see if you can get your buddies to make sure that there are a few single ladies in the group with you. If you're awkward around ladies, and you don't have much self-confidence because of what you used to look like, then build your self-confidence. The only way to do that is BY being yourself and sticking your neck out there. Yes, denial hurts. Everyone has been there, done that at some point. But chances are, the girl of your dreams isn't just going to happen to knock on your barracks door some random night, you know? TRY not to go out with the mindset of ';well, tonight is going to go badly.';
From my husband: you're a soldier. You've already got an advantage over all the civilian guys out there because being in the military gives you cool points. If you're in the Army, you're allowed to go out in public in your cammies (I'm not allowed to in mine!), girls tend to melt like butter when they see a guy in uniform.
hi, single soldier! are you station now? you should never say you didn't do well with girls, it kind of brings up RED FLAGS. just act like your the man, have a plan on what you would like the relationship to be like and find a woman with similar interest. good luck....
you said no just be yourself, but you need to just be yourself. if someone cannot accept you for the person you are, then they're not worth your time. you also need to know that you're not going to be rejected every time. you probably didn't have much luck because you were overweight, and feeling unsure of yourself. now that you're in shape i would try to work on confidence. try to work on yourself, and make sure you're ready to be in a relationship. you sounld like a good guy to me, the right girl will come along... but you do need to just be yourself. you need to build up some confidence to be able to approach girls. once you can approach the girl, just make small talk. if you bomb, and don't do well.. dust off your shoulders, and try again. you have to give yourself credit because you're not very expeinced in the dating scene. at least you'll be making an effort. you need to try and stay in the right mind frame when you go out to meet new people. think in your head that you're going to talk to a girl, get her number, ect. if you think why would any girl want to meet or date me. i'll never be able to get a number... then that's exactly what will happen because girls can tell by the vibe you're giving off. if you come off as a funny outgoing person, then they'd most likely be willing to give you their number or w/e. have you thought about speed dating? it would be able to give you practice by talking with a lot of girls. it may be awkward with one, but the next you might be able to talk to, as you go along you'll just get better at talking with girls. we're really not all that bad ;) lol good luck! and thanks for doing what you do to keep us safe at home.
You're a soldier! be confident, go out there and fight.
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