Any dating advice for a virgin?

I'm a college grad and I have a good career. I'm shy and a little self-conscious because I'm a little chubby. I would love to find a partner but with being a virgin (34 years old) I'm incredibly nervous about trying to meet someone. Any advice? (This is a serious question, please don't respond just to be rude.)





I'm attracted to both men and women. Honestly, gender doesn't matter to me - I'd just like someone with similar interests who I feel would be a good match.Any dating advice for a virgin?
Dating is hard for most people, so you're not alone. Getting involved with someone sexually is some thing that some people just jump into, but it can get really tough emotionally if you get together with the wrong person. There is a tendency to put too much weight on the importance of the relationship once you've had sex, and you could start giving too much of your energy to a loser who doesn't deserve you. Do the things you love to do, and try to connect to other people on that level. If there is someone you like, you've got to show them and risk being rejected. Don't worry about the sex part. That will happen when you both feel ready. Why don't you wait and make it really special with someone who loves you and who you can really trust?Any dating advice for a virgin?
Well just go out and meet people...flirt around and check out what you like and live a little....just get the guts to talk to somebody and loosen up cause you dont know what you missing...so yeah i doubt it the person going to bite so stop being shy and be yourself...itz ok to be nervous but when the time comes everything will happen by it self and be put into place so yeah its all up to you now!By the its what you got inside that matters not the outside and the person should like you or love you 4 you!
hey dont sweat it, it's always tough your first time.





Now, Im not being rude so bare with me please. Honestly I dont know how you look, and im sure your a great person with every reason to fall in love with some one - but looks matter alot with people these days. You'll find that it's the first ice breaker. I recommend ';stepping up your game'; by losing some weight and getting active (if not for your own health benefits).





Guys/Girls will take much more notice and they will start to be comfortable around you, not to mention your courage will be up. Just hang in there, hit some clubs, and find a sweet person.





Best advice though? Make sure you damn well know that person well before calling it official. you never want to get into a relationship and find out something insane about that person.
try to get to know the person a bit better. start little, like, since ur a college student, theres probably parties, go to a party, meet a guy, small talk about careers. etc etc. i love girls like that. and chubby is no big deal, i dont wanna be perfect muscle etc, i have some fat, and like to admit it. dont let that bother u. switch numbers with the guy, call him one day, get coffee. talk about randdom stuff, family, what theyre interested in. tip DO NOT TALK POLITICS (unless he mentions it first, i hate talking about that). good luck, hope this helps a bit.
Being bi certainly helps increase the pool of potential partners. ;-)





My only advice is to just jump on in to the dating pool and start splashing around.





And rest assured that...:





...someone will tickle your fancy and you will tickle theirs;





...someone will break your heart and make you cry, but then you'll do that to someone else, too, whether you mean to or not;





...the next person you date probably won't be ';the one';, and in fact, you'll probably go through dozens by the time you find one worth settling for;





...you'll have moments where you wonder if the whole game is even worth-it, and then you'll have moments where you look at the game and realize that's what life is all about;





...you'll learn things about yourself that you never realized - not all of them pleasant - and you'll learn things about other people along the same lines.





Just don't give up. Good luck! :-)
sweetie, you are a very rare breed. a very special woman for not giving up your virginity just to get a man or woman. when you do meet your soul-mate, you will be loved and admired.





don't try too hard when you are out in the world trying to meet people. just be yourself. someone is out there waiting for you, so, just relax and let things happen. it's worth waiting for, trust me.
Talk to friends who have similar interests and see if they know anybody. Try online dating? There are people out there who are probably into the same thing and would be great for you. You just need to find each other. If you look, the chances are more likely that you'll find.
wow umm be yourself let them know you are a virgin and that person should direct you if thier not a version also but 34 yea how did you do it ima 18 year old jock so i hump all the time and i have exp wit versions so belive me and youll be ok best of luck lol
Find someone who makes up for your flaws. If you find another quiet, self-conscious partner, I don't think you'd be happy. Don't stress about being a virgin; most people you'd want to date would find that attractive.
Find someone who cares about you! They will take their time, be patient and watch out for you. Basically....just be freindly with people, be open to freindships and new relationships, and it'll happen.
Trust me noone will have a problem with you being a virgin. So dont worry.
Please look for relationships in person and dont do the online generally not good dating and stuff...
34 and never dated? Hm. I guess maybe church or clubs. Maybe online dating or Craigslist?
dont do any online relationships!
Hi I think that it's good that you are looking to meet someone and you are an educated woman. I can understand being shy and unsure but for real, being educated and intelligent means you have a lot to offer for companionship. :)





OK at 34 years old, you can still find Many single people and it's not unusual. You can also expect a lot of divorced people. I think it's as good an age as any and you can be flexible with a few years younger or older with no problem.





With dating, you really want to just go out and have fun and meet people and not start looking for someone to be serious with yet. Think of this early dating as a way for you to get acclimated and a way to warm up and be able to be at ease in this way of relating.





And for real, be friendly have fun and be fun, just don't get serious quickly or try to!





For someone good to be close with, you obviously want someone whose company you enjoy and with similar interests like you say. You also want them to be affectionate and sensitive. Affectionate and sensitive people are excellent lovers..it's as simple as that!





Being single and looking is a nervous situation for a Lot of people, just remember that. Your own situation is unusual but you are not at all alone in being shy and unsure.





I could say so much more but I'm not sure what would be enough. lol! Good luck and I wish you the best. Please feel free to email me if you like :)
Just give it up and get it over with.
heres the best advice%26gt;...Don't have sex///......