Can anyone give advice to two shy people trying to date?

Both myself and the girl I am seeing are very shy, and nervous when it comes to our feelings for each other. I really like this girl, I鈥檝e been out with her three times already, and I am sure the feeling is mutual. During our last date, we held hands for the first time, so I鈥檓 pretty sure she really likes me. We didn鈥檛 really talk about it after the date, when we were saying our good byes. It was kind of funny, we both acted very nervous, and shy鈥? Maybe she thought I was going to do kiss her goodnight, but I didn鈥檛.





I was going to call her in a couple of days and ask her out, but I thought I might bring up the question of how she felt about how things have been going between us so far. I was going to also ask her if she thought we were far enough along to be considered dating--that is boy friend and girl friend. Any suggestions or comments??Can anyone give advice to two shy people trying to date?
that's actually so cute. anyway, if you're both shy, your relationship isn't going to be interesting after a while. don't ask her how she feels yet...it's too early, and since she's shy, her answer may be strange because she's been caught offguard. instead, you have to be courageous and just TRY not to be shy...you have to tell her how you feel about her. tell her that you really like her and you think she likes you too. tell her you want her to be your girlfriend, and then you can kiss her or whatever. trust me, if you show her that you are trustworthy and won't judge her, that you can be someone she can talk to, she'll stop being shy around you so much and you two can have a pretty good relationship. hope that helps.Can anyone give advice to two shy people trying to date?
ok first I know how you feel, I used to be shy myself.





and from my experience I've found that the only way to get rid of being shy is to step out of your comfort zone a bit. and from what you've said this girl is into you, no doubt in my mind about that. Ask her out again, and when you say good bye on that date, give her a little kiss, or at the very least a hug. Dont think much about it, just do it, and you'll be very happy that you did.





as for the going steady question, I think the kiss/hug will pretty much decide that one for you.





best of luck mate.
Call her.


Tell her how much you care for her.


Compliment her.


Ask her to be your girlfriend.


Kiss her.


Trust me... she will love you =]





OH and NEVER be mean
Its obvious she likes you so dont be afraid to talk to her about things she is probably just as nervous and it would answer a lot of questions for the both of you.
Be alone only together
Call her


Tell her how much you miss her and stuff.


COMPLIMENT HER!!!





Okay, alright ask her out to somewhere else and while you guys are holding hands. Grab her head with your hands making a cup and kiss her. Perfect Kiss.
I think your plan is fine! Tips: I know it's hard, but really, just try sparking out some type of conversation. Ask her about her day, talk about things you like, things you dislike, and anything else. It'll get you guys having a good conversation. Just kinda let that shy wall go down.