I am going on a date, with this boy who I've never met, but we talked on the phone, and we've seen eachothers pictures. We share interests like writing, and art. I just am afraid of there being one of those odd silences. I'm nervous about seeing him, and about having a good time. I want to leave a good impression. An advice to make our date go smoothely?I am going on a date this week, with a boy I never met before. Any advice on how to have a good time?
Just be yourself sweetie, don't try to be someone your not, enjoy yourselves and have fun!!I am going on a date this week, with a boy I never met before. Any advice on how to have a good time?
If both of you are interested in art, why not include that in the first date? As in, go to a exhibition %26amp; then afterwards go for dinner. That way you can make conv about the exhibition.
If not, go to a place with some light dancing. But if your not into the light music, head to a salsa bar!
However, if it is going to be just dinner, do a bit of reading on the things he likes that you don't know much about. That way you can make conversation about it %26amp; be informed enough to ask questions and learn from it.
But just be your self! He too might be nervous. But the whole situation feel completly awkward, if you are both too busy being nervous
Enjoy your self!
keep it light and simple find something in common and do that
wait till your out of jr. high?
Like you said, you have similar interests!! so if there is one of those silences then just bring up a topic that you know you're both interested in. if you've talked on the phone and it's been okay then you should be fines because once you see him you'll just automatically think of things to say!! good luck - and just remember to have fun!!
My guess is you met on the internet then.. I married my internet sweetheart!!..
But you do have to be careful.. My girlfriend came with me.. She sat at the bar while I sat at the table and we acted like we didn't know each other.. Be the person you were when you talked on line.. And know that even though you could get along well online, it still is different because now you can actually look into this person eyes..
Please do not go if he is asking for you to be alone with him in a hotel room.. NO NO NO.. and don't get suckered into doing it.. That was one thing my girlfiend was there for.. And when I went to the bathroom so did she... It was a wonderful sorce of comport for me, if things went badly.. Take your own car and the like..
Good luck
be yourself and if there is that awkward silence then tell him that you are a bit nervous and tell him why. i bet you he will feel the same way. i have done the same thing and the guy was of course nervous too. so just be you and let him see that you are an amazing person. good luck on your date and i hope that it all goes well.
dont treat it as a love conction thing just go out have fun like if u want to make a friend not find a nu bf and all be good 1step at a time
just be you!!
Dont kiss on the first date. Pretend like you want to but leave him wanting more. :D or if your not that type of girl, just hug him after its all done. That is all. I cant really say what to do during the date cuz i dunno what ya'll are doing.
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