Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Any Dating advice for 14?

I am a forteen yo guy. and i need some help in the Dating catagory... I know it sounds lame, but ive gone out with one girl in my whole life, and it was a dissaster... Any one have any help on asking out, dating, or seeing if someone likes you back? Thanks.Any Dating advice for 14?
you need to play hard to get. you need to make it so the girl likes you and then slowly drift off making her want you even more. although at your age i dont think you need to worry to much, as you get older it will all come naturally to you! hope this helps.Any Dating advice for 14?
Dating advice:





Have fun!


Have a few 'practice' girls (practice girl meaning trialing different relationship techniques, NOT sexual)
Be cool. Dont chase them too much. Be fun and playfully tease them. Flirt and give them a nickname like tinkerbell or something kind of teasing but endearing.





Smile, have good eye contact - these two things are what 80% of people say they find attractive about a person.





Don't immediately let them know you are attracted to them. Girls like men to be attracted to them for legitimate reasons beyond just looks. If anything, it should look as though she is attracting you.





I.e ';I have to be honest, at first I thought you were a little brat! But now that I get to know you, you are really cool and funny';





If you are going to compliment them (to show you like them - once they like you!), make it a compliment about something that ISNT about her beauty.. like ';You seem to know a lot about music.. I like that about you';. This is way more validating than ';YOU'RE HOT!!';





Signs that she likes you:





She makes good eye contact with you


She smiles at you


Pupils dilate slightly when she looks at you


She blinks more often (true!)


She touches you on the arm or shoulder occasionally when she talk to you.


She plafully punches you on the arm when you do something funny


If you don't say much, she makes extra effort to keep the conversation going.


She flicks her hair back or plays with her hair (preening)


She laughs at your jokes (even if they aren't funny)


She finds any excuse to be near you


Her and her friend are talking about you and she giggles and looks away.





Have fun!





:-)

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