You see, I dont think Im bad looking and people have told me im desirable (im not trying to be conceited/shallow *****) thing is i have really low confidence. Almost none. Especially with guys. I think its because i used to get teased because im sort of hairy like...yes hairy. Anyways recently my friend got a boyfriend and her friend is in process of getting one too. Thing is their 3 friends each and they want to hook me up with the one thats left. (as in we girls are three and friends, they are 3 and friends too) I dont know if to just go and expect rejection or just go thinking its just for fun...Im terrible at conversation too and that doesnt help. What does a shy girl need to do to bust this damned confidence up?? I hate how im so concerned with my physique and the fact im an manga/japan geek. I think guys dont like that...Im scared xD really. Any advice on my situation? :[My friends are trying to hook me up with someone (blind date maybe?) anyone willing to give me advice?
To boost your confidence, go on the date.
If you are interested in the boy after talking with him, give him a hug and a little kiss.
remember nothing ventured nothing gained.
You want to gain confidence, the only way to do this is by talking, hugging, and kissing boys.
The first time is the hardest, but remember what you are hoping to gain in the long run.
It may not work out with the first boy you try it on, but it will get easier the more times you try it.
about a blind date
most of the time it means that you do not know the person.
what if the person is blind then it is truely a blind date.
this is how all my dates are because I am blind.
So I know about the confidence problem about talking (not so much any more), but not knowing if they are interested in going out in the first place.
The thing to remember if you do not try, the only thing is to be alone, and that is no fun.
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